Gotta vent here a little, but I'm writing this more to ask if I was wrong in the way I approached it, because I know it's going to happen in the future.
Alright, so we've got the NSS crew partying in Qufim currently...myself as White Mage (more on this in a moment), my static filling out various positions, and we pick up two more to fill up the party.
Now, I'm still learning the white mage job. I'm not a healer by nature, it's not something I'm used to or comfortable with. But I'd at least like to think I'm getting better at it.
We hit our camp and get down to business...and I notice that my cures are hitting our tank for...well, zero. No matter how much damage he takes, he's cured before I get to him.
That, and our hate is going everywhere. Our VERY capable tank can't hold hate to save his life. And why?
We notice we're getting "powerleveled".
Not naming names, we find out who's "helping" us, and who he's with.
And here's where I believe I made my mistake, in retrospect - I said NOTHING. I b!tched a little bit in our LS with my static, but that's about it. I was wasting MP, and gil with the juices I was popping every couple of minutes, but I didn't say about it when I should have, which I believe I paid for later.
We catch agro every once in awhile, which is when our "powerleveler" seems to conveniently disappear...
Anyway, after one particularly "fun" fight, I announce that I'm out of MP and need to sit for a moment. And we get the response that the powerleveler is "healing too, so we need to wait."
At this point, I've had it and I respond (trying to be calm, so I hope it came off as such), that we would be just fine without the powerleveler. Which gets the response that assistance is always good. Which I don't believe is true, and I respond that assistance is good if it's actually helping - but in this case, when I'm trying to learn this job, it's making me waste MP and not learn how to gauge my cures appropriately.
Back to full MP, we get another pull, and our party member with the powerleveler bolts in the middle of it. Alright, no problem. We go with five for awhile, get a sixth before the end of the night, no big problem at all.
So I gotta know if I was wrong in how I handled this...should I have spoken up earlier? Should I have kept my mouth shut completely? Should I have said something directly to the PLer?
Personally, I don't like or understand powerleveling. At any stage of development, it does not make sense to me. If you're soloing, it's the perfect time to learn the limitations of that particular job you're investing in, regardless of how many level 75 jobs you have. If you're partying, a powerleveler will only cause damage to a good party.
So I don't know. {Help me out!}