A great party last night but…..Follow

I had a good party last night , 200 exp every kill , after the 10th mob or something like that , our tank D/C , I was the party leader.
Waited for 10 min , and he didn’t come back , so I invited another tank.

The other tank comes 3rd mob BLM D/C .
I wanted to wait but the WHM had to go , so we left.
Tank got mad at me , but its ok
I got invited to another party
The BLM logs back and sends me a /tell and this is how it went:

BLM : I’m back
Me: sorry man we disband.
BLM : huh?
Me : party disband
BLM : why?
Me : you D/C and whm had to go , that’s all.
BLM : BS you are in party now .
Me : am in a new party in a different place and my party is full , I wish I could invite you but am not the leader and as I seed we are full.
BLM : BS , you didn’t wait for me and you invited another BLM.
Me : look am sorry , I know how you think this went thru but it isn’t and we don’t even have a BLM.
BLM : ill blist you and ill never party with you again.

Why do people think the worse of you and not the good?
Am not going to say names, but if you read this (BLM) , that’s what happened.
I know you are a good guy and trust me I never invite anyone if one of my parties D/C , I always wait 10 min or so.

sorry again

Nothing you could do about it. People make a habit of thinking the worst because it spares them both the disappointment of thinking highly of someone and being wrong, and the blame if something doesn't work out the way they'd hoped; they can always pawn it off on the other guy.

Sorry you had that experience. Hopefully it will turn out better in the future.

Sorry to Bump, but were you guys leveling Level 10 Jobs w/ New Players?

Wth is the BLM Trippin about. Almost everyone I run into will Replace someone, or move on after 5 min of DC. I agree that people need to relax a little. Thinking 5 people are gonna stop Xp'in for longer then 5 min because you Lost your connection is Silly.