I've determined that after going into the job forums again and just seeing people ask questions or talk about doing a non standard job combo getting yelled at and treated like retards by the other people has left me not wanting to EVER look in them again. So I retreat to the Rag forum where at least people are nice. The Taru forum is good too, but I think I'm keeping away from the job forums for a while. Cept maybe the bard one...
Thanks for being a great bunch of people!