so why not say that along with your complaint IE " I think she/he is being an idiot because <insert well defined reason here>"
If she is shouting that sort of thing, I can see why you are upset. I will call her to see what is going on and maybe see if a truce of some sort can be made. I would suggest that your friend keep his nose clean in regards to the allegations you say she is making - if he has, in fact, tampered with said accounts.
SOmeone has to make the effort here, to be the wiser party. If she is /shouting these allegations, it does not help your cause to make rude comments in a public forum about her or her linkshell. There are far better ways of getting ones point accross and gaining sympathy rather then resoort to calling people idiots *even if they, in fact, are*
IE: "Having a good linkshell is important. I do not mean to cast a black rock into your pool of happiness however I have had a horrible experience with members of your linkshell that needs to be addressed. <outline actual events now>
1. /shouts that <insert name here> is a hacker and account stealer have been made in Jueno. I would request that these stop because the allegations have no factual evidence and it's quite cruel. If I were to go around saying <insert name> was a gilseller, how would that make you feel?"
[Gold]ok, just spoke with precious. What you fail to mention *as there is always two sides to every story* is that you friend often uses foul language among some other nasty habits (blackmail, lies and bragging about illegal activities with eletronic devices) I would suggest turning on all of your filters and using /blist . Another thing, you have to use a "hack" to be able to record conversations in the game. So, by posting it you, in a sense, would be providing proof to the allegations made. You may want to just bite your tongue on this one - "Suck it up" regardless of who you think is on who's side, I think your friend stands to lose more out of this (like his account) then she does.
Cussing is one of the few things you can count on getting in trouble for, if it is reported and regardless of the circumstance. In a situation like this, you really need to weigh the outcome. You want to save face by calling someone names because of allegations they have publically made about you/your friend. If any of these allegations are remotly true, you will want to let things die (no more name calling, no more bragging - "I don't want to talk about that." when a discussion about your activities comes up) The loss of a game account is a small matter as opposed to a Federal Charge which can prevent you from attaining good jobs, military & government positions. It doesn't seem to matter when you are young; your records are not sealed to the government or the military and with the way things are going, for security reasons they probably will be admissable in other areas.
You might want to just walk away from this one, keep it between you and your friend.
Edited, Sat Feb 26 12:01:43 2005 by niobia