Allegory wrote:
gbaji wrote:
And as a result, their children are statistically better off for it.
We could talk about the data, but it's already established that we disagree on that point, and there are other people capable of discussing that angle with who you might engage or might engage you.
What I would like you to know is something else--purely on anecdotal experiences and lacking as a representative sample--is that you are personally insulting me. I don't know what what your experiences have been, but I believe it's likely I have more interaction with the home-school community than you do. You have not likely had to speak with suicidal children who believe they have no future. You have not likely had to watch those children grow up and struggle to obtain better than minimum wage jobs. It's insulting because I feel you're being so flippant in accepting research which suits you, when the problems of those affected by your position will never be your problems. It seems to me that you have the certainty of someone with nothing to lose.
There is nothing I am asking of you. But I did want you to have this information.
I appreciate that this may be an emotional issue for you, and want to make it clear that I have no intention of insulting you in any way (heck, I don't know what your personal connection to the issue is). Having said that, the statistics are pretty
well established. And lest we assume this is some kind of partisan divide,
even Huffington post accepts the data.
For the benefit of Smash (and others):
Quote:
Students coming from a home school graduated college at a higher rate than their peers -- 66.7 percent compared to 57.5 percent -- and earned higher grade point averages along the way, according to a study that compared students at one doctoral university from 2004-2009.
They're also better socialized than most high school students, says Joe Kelly, an author and parenting expert who home-schooled his twin daughters.
"I know that sounds counterintuitive because they're not around dozens or hundreds of other kids every day, but I would argue that's why they're better socialized," Kelly says. "Many home-schoolers play on athletic teams, but they're also interactive with students of different ages."
Home-schooled students often spend less time in class, Kelly says, giving them more opportunity to get out into the world and engage with adults and teens alike.
"The socialization thing is really a nonissue for most home schoolers," he says. "They're getting a lot of it."
As to anecdotal connections, I have an entire family of in-laws heavily involved in both special needs education and home schooling. One family has adopted three children, two of them from the same woman (crack addict who had a second child while they were adopting the first, so they took the second as well). They home school. They are not rich by any means (mother is a stay at home mom, father works in the shipyard, so decidedly blue collar). They've had their ups and downs. Right now, the oldest child has gotten into trouble with drugs and is currently in a treatment program. The middle child (biological sibling to the oldest), is doing much better. She's on track to compete on the Olympic rowing team and is competing right now in some Scandinavian country somewhere.
The sister of that mother (both of whom are siblings to my sisters husband), teaches special needs kids. We're talking about middle school age kids in diapers level special needs. Both of them volunteer through their church and other local social organizations and are ridiculously active. It's just something they do, largely because someone has to. And I hear all the stories, both wonderful and horrific. I'm not unaware of the struggles that people endure in the world around me. However, I'm not sure how any of this invalidates the concept of home schooling, nor why some people seem to view it as such a threat or something. Like they have to convince people that it's some kind of evil thing that must be stopped.
I just don't get it. Also, as I've mentioned many times in the past, I know many people involved at many levels in education. I have two sisters in law who are teachers (both my brothers married teachers, go figure). My best friend is a high school teacher. I've known his family since I was in high school. His dad was a high school teacher. His mom was a school administrator. His sister is a middle school teacher. He married a woman whose father was a district administrator. One of our mutual friends is a middle school teacher. One of my old friends from back in the day is a teacher at one of the juvy schools (where they send kids who have serious violence or anger problems, but still have to receive an education). I lived with a woman for nearly a decade while she pursued her advanced degree. She's currently a professor at some university on the East coast (and doing quite well). One of my other best friends (guy I play RPGs with) wife is a public school teacher.
My point is that, anecdotally, I have direct connection to nearly every level and type of eduction. From K-12 and through the university level. District and local administration levels. Public schooling, home schooling, and special needs (multiple types of special needs). I've heard them all talk about the problems they face, and the restrictions they have to deal with when facing those problems. That doesn't make *me* an expert, but it does mean I'm at least familiar with what people actually doing these things are talking about. I'd never argue that home schooling is the perfect answer for everyone. But I do think that there are a lot of people who disparage it for reasons that are less than honest.
And again, at the risk of pushing this back on topic, the problem with common core is that its another step in the direction of "one size fits all" education. And I've learned anything from discussions with all of those people and all of their different perspectives is that education can't work with a one size fits all model. We need maximum flexibility in education, so as to deal with all of the different needs of different kids. Going in the other direction is a mistake IMO.