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#102 Dec 06 2013 at 9:50 AM Rating: Excellent
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Employers will always keep the ones who produce the best work and trim from the ones who don't 'try as hard'.

That's absolutely not true. Some employers, perhaps. A great many will keep someone who outputs at 70% for $10/hr over a veteran who outputs at 95% but is at $18/hr.

People have real problems with luck, I guess for fear that it will invalidate their hard work. My current job is luck. I didn't make the person who held it before me decide to get out of the industry. I didn't set it up so a former co-worker of mine would be at that company and in a position to recommend me. That I took the job just weeks before my old company went under was complete luck -- people with far more experience than I are still out of work and I'm employed not because they're less qualified or didn't try as hard but pretty much just luck.

Now I've worked hard which gives me the ability to exploit that luck. If that former co-worker didn't think well of my work, he wouldn't have recommended me. If I was doing a poor job, I'd be fired rather than getting ready to go to the company Christmas party. But I don't think it cheapens my work and effort to admit that, yeah, it's pretty much luck that unknowingly landed me into a good job weeks before I would have been laid off otherwise and scraping to pay the mortgage in between sending out fifty resumes like some other people I know.
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#103 Dec 06 2013 at 10:27 AM Rating: Good
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You're a zam guru - I expected more than this self-righteous, self-absorbed attitude. Also your lack of empathy for the plight of others and your assumption that poor people are lazy and/or unambitious is pretty small-minded.
Others exist only to turn your good will and generosity into a burning desire to burn the world to its core.

Well, that and the naughty bits...
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#104 Dec 06 2013 at 12:06 PM Rating: Good
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Being me isn't luck or hard work. It is a divine prophesy come to pass. This much perfection doesn't just happen and a hundred lifetimes of hard work wouldn't get you half way.
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#105 Dec 06 2013 at 12:26 PM Rating: Good
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Being me isn't luck or hard work. It is a divine prophesy come to pass. This much perfection doesn't just happen and a hundred lifetimes of hard work wouldn't get you half way.

I know. me too.
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#106 Dec 06 2013 at 2:24 PM Rating: Good
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So maybe what you meant to say was I hit a run of BAD luck but didn't let it crush my spirit?


No, what I meant to say was you're a fucking weakling who miracled his way out of homelessness and now wants credit for not being actively struggling in the richest nation in the history of civilization. Wow, you're not homeless, clearly it's because of your Horatio Alger back-story and clean living.

No, wait, what I mean to say was: "Go fuck yourself, you haven't accomplished anything of note yet, get back to me when you've done something 200 million other people didn't do at the same time."

People work really hard and are talented and care about others and do everything "right" and fail. ALL THE TIME. People also make horrible mistakes, are cruel to other people and do everything "wrong" and succeed. ALL THE TIME. There's a slight bais towards hard workers succeeding, but it really is *slight*. Being in the right place at the right time is VASTLY more important to life outcomes than this moronic bootstrap pulling bullsh*t you're patting yourself on the back over.

Get it, Lucky? You in the same situation with minor changes to a few small variables are blowing guys down by the docks for crack money. No question about it.

Edited, Dec 6th 2013 3:25pm by Smasharoo
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#107 Dec 06 2013 at 2:29 PM Rating: Decent
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People work really hard and are talented and care about others and do everything "right"... ALL THE TIME.


What, all five of them?
#108 Dec 06 2013 at 3:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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Boo hoo. This is not typical, unless you're in the "dropped out of highschool, got pregnant, and/or been in and out of prison" crowd. I get that this does happen, but it's the exception, not the norm.


I don't normally agree with gbaji, but on this particular issue he's kind of right. I have sympathy for struggling Americans who are trying to make ends meet, but to suggest that there are absolutely no opportunities for them to get out of their plight is disingenuous at best.

It's anecdotal and my experience isn't representative of the entire population, but I was a high school dropout, having been kicked out of my house when I was 14 after I came out of the closet. It was a rough life, being an emancipated adult working at a restaurant as a dishwasher and trying to get by.

However, I am now 35, with a college education, sitting on a mountain of technical certifications, in charge of a hardware department, and it all started with a 50 hours of night school training at the local votech for three hundred bucks and getting my foot in the door at a company looking for temp workers for a big project. I don't buy a lot of the sob stories people have about not being able to do ANYTHING to improve their lives. You can study a couple hours a week and spend a hundred bucks on a basic technical cert, and then get out of that McDonald's job and into some temp work with minimal effort, and no need for a steady work schedule.

In fact, with the internet and the amount of free information at one's disposal (and everyone has access to a library) it's easier than ever to self-educate.

That's not to say I agree with the spirit of this thread and the attempt to pay workers less and justify it with the notion that adding kids will somehow magically fix our economic woes, because that's just stupid... but we can't just take a position that there is a certain subset of people who have absolutely no chance in this world and base all of our economic strategies around that.


Edited, Dec 5th 2013 10:03am by Torrence

Biggest difference I see is that the workplace was very different 20 years ago. (based on the 2 ages you provide). Back then, I was working for 4.35/hr in a fast food place, 35 or so hours a week. That was more than enough to cover my expenses, and was barely over minimum wage. Currently I make about $1/hr over minimum wage (but <30 hours a week) and it is not enough to keep up with my student loan repayments. Times have changed for low pay workers, and not for the better.
#109 Dec 06 2013 at 4:29 PM Rating: Excellent
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I'm unclear really what the rest of your post is trying to convey.


I know it can be hard to follow a thread like this, and I probably should have quoted what he was responding to as well for clarity.

The post he was responding to alluded that there is a vicious cycle of poverty and there is no way for people to climb out of that hole once they are in it. That is simply not true, and that's all I was trying to illustrate. I didn't mean to offend anyone. Gbaji's posts are mostly drivel, but he's got a point - people should stop throwing themselves pity parties.



Without knowing your familial circumstances, your story is not representative of a cycle of poverty. One turn does not a cycle make. You got dropped in the soup and you got out, great. Seriously, well done. But that's not generational poverty.

The example I always go back to, because I grew up in the region and had a chance to observe it, is coal mining. The coal companies made sweetheart deals with Congress and were able to pay their workers below-poverty wages. It would take more than hard work and ambition for a smart child to get out of that, and that is where an unregulated free market lands workers - not for a summer, but for generations. The company wouldn't exist without labor, but gets away with paying next to nothing for it at the clear expense of the workers.
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#110 Dec 06 2013 at 5:32 PM Rating: Good
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You're a zam guru - I expected more than this self-righteous, self-absorbed attitude.
Really?


Kind of looks like he karma bombed the entire thread.
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Without knowing your familial circumstances, your story is not representative of a cycle of poverty. One turn does not a cycle make. You got dropped in the soup and you got out, great. Seriously, well done. But that's not generational poverty.

The example I always go back to, because I grew up in the region and had a chance to observe it, is coal mining. The coal companies made sweetheart deals with Congress and were able to pay their workers below-poverty wages. It would take more than hard work and ambition for a smart child to get out of that, and that is where an unregulated free market lands workers - not for a summer, but for generations. The company wouldn't exist without labor, but gets away with paying next to nothing for it at the clear expense of the workers.


Tell me this, does the L & N stop there anymore?
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The example I always go back to, because I grew up in the region and had a chance to observe it, is coal mining. The coal companies made sweetheart deals with Congress and were able to pay their workers below-poverty wages

Nonsense. All the workers would just go to the coal mine next door which would be offering higher wages to attract all the great coal mine workers.

The free market works, Samira.
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#113 Dec 06 2013 at 9:22 PM Rating: Excellent
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Tell me this, does the L & N stop there anymore?


True story, my grandmother's house was right beside the L & N track, presumably just on the respectable side, not sure about that. My mother and her brothers were seriously freaked out by seeing the body of a man who had (I guess) tried to jump the train and fallen underneath.

I didn't say it was a GOOD story.
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#114 Dec 06 2013 at 9:38 PM Rating: Good
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the body of a man who had (I guess) tried to jump the train and fallen underneath.
You sure he didn't just commit suicide?



It happens sort of regularly here, it's kind of strange how someone jumping in front of a train and the resulting mental damage to the driver get reduced to "goddamnit, not again, I don't want to wait another 30 minutes for the next train!"
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True story, my grandmother's house was right beside the L & N track, presumably just on the respectable side, not sure about that. My mother and her brothers were seriously freaked out by seeing the body of a man who had (I guess) tried to jump the train and fallen underneath.

Nexa, being Nexa, has become close friends will pretty much all of the staff on the train she rides to and from the city. People I wouldn't have glanced at were it me are now people who give us bicycles for Hannah. Anyway, her train apparently killed someone relatively recently when she wasn't on it. I guess technically it's not HER train, but I'm sure everyone else thinks of it that way, too. Or maybe just the conductor for her train. This it has become clear to me is also not a good story.

Anyway, it was apparently this lady:

http://www.boston.com/metrodesk/2013/10/05/endioctt-college-student-from-japan-identified-woman-killed-mbta-commuter-rail-train-beverly-wednesday/7dCjR09dfBMZsa6EObFEwN/story.html
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#116 Dec 06 2013 at 9:47 PM Rating: Good
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As a former train jumper in control of myself I *really* hope it gets reduced that way to all the mentally scarred train drivers too.
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Jumping in front of a train is the most assholeish way to kill yourself. Not only are you giving the train driver a trauma, there will also be people who have to scrape you off the track, your family isn't going to be able to see any of your remains to get closure and hundreds or thousands of people are late for work or god knpws what (the least severe, but still a **** move).
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#119 Dec 06 2013 at 11:58 PM Rating: Good
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Jumping in front of a train is the most @#%^ish way to kill yourself. Not only are you giving the train driver a trauma, there will also be people who have to scrape you off the track, your family isn't going to be able to see any of your remains to get closure and hundreds or thousands of people are late for work or god knpws what (the least severe, but still a **** move).


Who cares? You're dead. None of those people exist anymore.
#120 Dec 07 2013 at 6:03 AM Rating: Default
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Jumping in front of a train is the most @#%^ish way to kill yourself. Not only are you giving the train driver a trauma, there will also be people who have to scrape you off the track, your family isn't going to be able to see any of your remains to get closure and hundreds or thousands of people are late for work or god knpws what (the least severe, but still a **** move).


This.. I remember when this dude shot himself in the head in a bathroom in Iraq. I went 3 days with no Internet. I know that sounds selfish, because it is, but I couldn't help to think about the families who lost contact with their loved ones and thought the worst. Not only that, the bathroom was off limits, so people doubled up in our bathrooms. I didn't even know the guy, but he pissed me off.
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Not only are you giving the train driver a trauma,

Anecdotally, tangentially knowing a train driver who has killed people with a train, it seems they're not particularly bothered by it. Or maybe they just put up a brave front. Most of the time, though, killing people is assumed to be far more psychologically impactful than it actually turns out to be. To be honest, much of the distress is caused by feelings of "I should be more upset about this".
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Not only are you giving the train driver a trauma,

Anecdotally, tangentially knowing a train driver who has killed people with a train, it seems they're not particularly bothered by it. Or maybe they just put up a brave front. Most of the time, though, killing people is assumed to be far more psychologically impactful than it actually turns out to be. To be honest, much of the distress is caused by feelings of "I should be more upset about this".


There's also much less moral culpability when they choose suicide, rather than you choosing to kill them.
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To be honest, much of the distress is caused by feelings of "I should be more upset about this".
There's also much less moral culpability when they choose suicide, rather than you choosing to kill them.
I've seen both ends of the spectrum. On a personal level I've probably lost that whole "value of human life" thing due to it.
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the body of a man who had (I guess) tried to jump the train and fallen underneath.
You sure he didn't just commit suicide?






There is absolutely no way for me to know. Does it matter? Times were hard in Appalachia; whether he gave in to despair or died tragically striving to get the fUck outta there to start over somewhere better or passed out drunk on the tracks, he died and small children found his mangled remains. How the hell would I know why, decades later?

Actually, we can probably be sure he didn't die tragically striving for a better life, since we've been assured that it's guaranteed to go perfectly if one only has the bootstrappy courage to try.



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Anecdotally, tangentially knowing a train driver who has killed people with a train, it seems they're not particularly bothered by it. Or maybe they just put up a brave front. Most of the time, though, killing people is assumed to be far more psychologically impactful than it actually turns out to be. To be honest, much of the distress is caused by feelings of "I should be more upset about this".


Although I would agree, I would also add the caveat that it probably greatly differs with each person and scenario. If you were protecting yourself, I would assume that the average person would have less guilt as opposed to a complete freak accident such as a train incident or a situation where the killer was either careless or clueless and could have prevented the death.
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It was good luck? No, it wasn't. I work(ed) hard to get where I am from literally nothing, similar to many other Americans in my situation. I didn't just happen to be offered a free course and a job out of nowhere in a field I had absolutely no skill in, I sought those opportunities and made them happen after living on the streets and struggling for years.

So maybe what you meant to say was I hit a run of BAD luck but didn't let it crush my spirit? I didn't cry about how tough it was to get by on a restaurant worker's wage?

And you better believe I didn't survive corporate layoffs by not "trying harder" than the ones who were let go. I'm not a pretty girl, so no one was hiring me for my rack. Employers will always keep the ones who produce the best work and trim from the ones who don't 'try as hard'.

Should Obama be making unemployment more of a priority? Ok, I'll grant that should ALWAYS be a priority, but let's not pretend that people are only successful because of "luck" and so no one should ever bother trying.


Hate to burst your bubble, but Hard work + Luck may equal success, but so does Lazy + Luck. For failure, all you need is Anything + no Luck.


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