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#127 Dec 28 2011 at 3:38 PM Rating: Good
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I got the sense that it was more of what BT directed at Kao was the final straw. I understand where Kao's position is. Kao's actions were part of employment duties. Due to the intertwining of social media sites, what used to thought of as anonymous posting now can be traced rather easily. And even if accusing someone in jest can be actionable. It would be up to the trier of fact in a lawsuit to decide whether that jest caused damages or not.
#128 Dec 28 2011 at 4:13 PM Rating: Good
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I got the sense that it was more of what BT directed at Kao was the final straw. I understand where Kao's position is. Kao's actions were part of employment duties. Due to the intertwining of social media sites, what used to thought of as anonymous posting now can be traced rather easily. And even if accusing someone in jest can be actionable. It would be up to the trier of fact in a lawsuit to decide whether that jest caused damages or not.


Then I say, again, that every Varus post should be locked as evidence in a potential lawsuit.
#129 Dec 28 2011 at 6:08 PM Rating: Excellent
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I'm pretty sure varrus is banned at the moment.
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#130 Dec 28 2011 at 7:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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I'm pretty sure varrus is banned at the moment.


Huh. I thought it was a mute.

Interesting.
#131 Dec 28 2011 at 7:46 PM Rating: Good
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Sir Xsarus wrote:
I'm pretty sure varrus is banned at the moment.


Huh. I thought it was a mute.

Interesting.
"Bans" are usually indefinite mutes, IIRC. Actual bans where they delete the user and the content s/he has posted are pretty rare.
#132 Dec 28 2011 at 9:25 PM Rating: Excellent
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The difference between BT and varus is that varus is blindingly obvious in the falseness of his posts, whereas BT was deceptively good enough to make what he posted sound like a real opinion.
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#133 Dec 28 2011 at 9:29 PM Rating: Excellent
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Sure, but that's like saying BT was punished for being smart. Smarter than Varus, which is admittedly a low, low bar.

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#134 Dec 28 2011 at 9:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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The difference between BT and varus is that varus is blindingly obvious in the falseness of his posts, whereas BT was deceptively good enough to make what he posted sound like a real opinion.
Well, varus is smart enough to not go after an admin with his personal attacks, as far as I've seen. Not that BT isn't smart enough to not do that, he likely just didn't give a ****.
#135 Dec 28 2011 at 10:16 PM Rating: Excellent
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Belkira wrote:
Sir Xsarus wrote:
I'm pretty sure varrus is banned at the moment.


Huh. I thought it was a mute.

Interesting.
"Bans" are usually indefinite mutes, IIRC. Actual bans where they delete the user and the content s/he has posted are pretty rare.
Generally posters with any kind of significant post count don't actually get banned because with a ban comes a removal, at least as far as users are concerned, of all their posts. that creates weird holes in threads.

Typically users are just muted, and if it's a permanent no turning back kind of situation, their password and email are changed, because I believe muted posters can still use pm's.
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#136 Dec 28 2011 at 11:28 PM Rating: Good
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So, Xsarus, I think the real question is when should BT be allowed back?
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#137 Dec 28 2011 at 11:50 PM Rating: Good
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So, Xsarus, I think the real question is when should BT be allowed back?

Frankly, this.
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#138 Dec 28 2011 at 11:54 PM Rating: Decent
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The real question is, does BT even care to come back? His posting rate seriously dropped off before he got banned anyway.
#139 Dec 29 2011 at 8:14 AM Rating: Good
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Sure, but that's like saying BT was punished for being smart.
Happens all the time.
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#140 Dec 29 2011 at 8:32 AM Rating: Good
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BT got banned for suggesting flat out saying that gbaji was a rapist. At least, that's the proverbial straw.

But if they allow Varus back over and over after his repeated misogyny, use of The N-Word, and wishes of death on liberals then I'm not sure why BT hasn't been allowed back. Varus has been far more hateful than BT ever was, mostly because Varus either does or pretends to actually believe the horrible comments he makes.

And to any administrators reading this, yes, I believe that calling ALL WOMEN sluts and whores is infinitely more hateful than calling one poster a rapist in jest.



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So, Xsarus, I think the real question is when should BT be allowed back?
Varus keeps making new accounts to get around his bans/mutes. BT may very well be allowed to do so by now himself, if he ever cared to.
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#141 Dec 29 2011 at 8:42 AM Rating: Good
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And to any administrators reading this, yes, I believe that calling ALL WOMEN sluts and whores is infinitely more hateful than calling one poster a rapist in jest.

Only liberal women are sluts and whores. Change your voter registration to (R) and your virginity will be restored to you - in tact.
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#142 Dec 29 2011 at 8:52 AM Rating: Excellent
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Timelordwho wrote:
So, Xsarus, I think the real question is when should BT be allowed back?
Varus keeps making new accounts to get around his bans/mutes. BT may very well be allowed to do so by now himself, if he ever cared to.


Yeah, but he's respected their ban, so I think they should reward good behavior, rather than reward going around the system.
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I don't know how I quoted both of you...
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Forum moderation is a balancing act. I try not to ban a user just because they annoy me. We tend to give lots and lots of chances. But when someone has managed to **** off all the Admins and starts pushing the boundaries just to see where they are for their own amusement repeatedly, disrupting the forum repeatedly, despite near constant warnings and goes out of their way to antagonize me, well, there isn't a whole lot of reason to keep them around or ever allow them back frankly. They don't learn from the experiance, and I just end up banning them again later. Some people you can give second chances to, others it just doesn't work and it isn't even worth the effort to attempt it. Varus was an idiot, but he gave people something to karma camp constantly where the admins were basically ignoring it. I suppose there is thiefX for that now.

Barkingturtle will not be returning. Technically under the terms of the ban, I would also now be banning Guenny's account too since she was specifically instructed not to let him use that account. I'll limit that to a warning for now.

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Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Forum moderation is a balancing act. I try not to ban a user just because they annoy me. We tend to give lots and lots of chances. But when someone has managed to **** off all the Admins and starts pushing the boundaries just to see where they are for their own amusement repeatedly, disrupting the forum repeatedly, despite near constant warnings and goes out of their way to antagonize me, well, there isn't a whole lot of reason to keep them around or ever allow them back frankly. They don't learn from the experiance, and I just end up banning them again later. Some people you can give second chances to, others it just doesn't work and it isn't even worth the effort to attempt it. Varus was an idiot, but he gave people something to karma camp constantly where the admins were basically ignoring it. I suppose there is thiefX for that now.

Barkingturtle will not be returning. Technically under the terms of the ban, I would also now be banning Guenny's account too since she was specifically instructed not to let him use that account. I'll limit that to a warning for now.

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So what was his ban actually for--calling gbaji a rapist or angering the admins?
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#146 Dec 29 2011 at 10:48 AM Rating: Good
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idiggory, King of Bards wrote:
Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Forum moderation is a balancing act. I try not to ban a user just because they annoy me. We tend to give lots and lots of chances. But when someone has managed to **** off all the Admins and starts pushing the boundaries just to see where they are for their own amusement repeatedly, disrupting the forum repeatedly, despite near constant warnings and goes out of their way to antagonize me, well, there isn't a whole lot of reason to keep them around or ever allow them back frankly. They don't learn from the experiance, and I just end up banning them again later. Some people you can give second chances to, others it just doesn't work and it isn't even worth the effort to attempt it. Varus was an idiot, but he gave people something to karma camp constantly where the admins were basically ignoring it. I suppose there is thiefX for that now.

Barkingturtle will not be returning. Technically under the terms of the ban, I would also now be banning Guenny's account too since she was specifically instructed not to let him use that account. I'll limit that to a warning for now.

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So what was his ban actually for--calling gbaji a rapist or angering the admins?
Obviously it was a culmination of those things.
#147 Dec 29 2011 at 10:56 AM Rating: Good
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Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Forum moderation is a balancing act. I try not to ban a user just because they annoy me. We tend to give lots and lots of chances. But when someone has managed to **** off all the Admins and starts pushing the boundaries just to see where they are for their own amusement repeatedly, disrupting the forum repeatedly, despite near constant warnings and goes out of their way to antagonize me, well, there isn't a whole lot of reason to keep them around or ever allow them back frankly. They don't learn from the experiance, and I just end up banning them again later. Some people you can give second chances to, others it just doesn't work and it isn't even worth the effort to attempt it. Varus was an idiot, but he gave people something to karma camp constantly where the admins were basically ignoring it. I suppose there is thiefX for that now.

Barkingturtle will not be returning. Technically under the terms of the ban, I would also now be banning Guenny's account too since she was specifically instructed not to let him use that account. I'll limit that to a warning for now.

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So you don't think that Barkingturtle brings a better level of discussion than Varus?
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So you don't think that Barkingturtle brings a better level of discussion than Varus?


Calling it discussion is awful generous of you... Smiley: wink
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idiggory, King of Bards wrote:
So what was his ban actually for--calling gbaji a rapist or angering the admins?


The ban itself was issued because an Administrator said "Do this and you will be banned" and he did that thing on top of all the other historical things that warnings had been issued for. The reason he probably won't ever be unbanned is a combination of all those historical warnings and the fact that he pissed all the other admins off as well.

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So you don't think that Barkingturtle brings a better level of discussion than Varus?


I really don't care to be honest. Varus tended to have slightly less objectionable content overall, which is really not saying that his content was not objectionable, but more a commentary on how bad some of the other stuff from Barkingturtle was. With varus gone now, unless others step into that niche more, there will be fewer response posts in asylum and people who came there to watch him get yelled at won't as much. Maybe he was keeping others away, so it will balance out? I don't know. From experiance I suspect we'll see a slight drop in posts in there overall, but sometimes you just have to cull the stupid.
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#150 Dec 29 2011 at 11:19 AM Rating: Good
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Timelordwho wrote:
Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Forum moderation is a balancing act. I try not to ban a user just because they annoy me. We tend to give lots and lots of chances. But when someone has managed to **** off all the Admins and starts pushing the boundaries just to see where they are for their own amusement repeatedly, disrupting the forum repeatedly, despite near constant warnings and goes out of their way to antagonize me, well, there isn't a whole lot of reason to keep them around or ever allow them back frankly. They don't learn from the experiance, and I just end up banning them again later. Some people you can give second chances to, others it just doesn't work and it isn't even worth the effort to attempt it. Varus was an idiot, but he gave people something to karma camp constantly where the admins were basically ignoring it. I suppose there is thiefX for that now.

Barkingturtle will not be returning. Technically under the terms of the ban, I would also now be banning Guenny's account too since she was specifically instructed not to let him use that account. I'll limit that to a warning for now.

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So you don't think that Barkingturtle brings a better level of discussion than Varus?
I can see both sides of it. On the one hand, BT continuously poked and prodded at the rules and at the admins on here, and if you don't eventually deal with something like that, nobody is going to respect the rules or admins. On the other hand, the Asylum's "anything goes" feel had been sacrosanct for so long that I'm not sure I would have a problem with the things he said as long as it was confined to the one portion of the site. I'm sure that with all the changes to making ZAM more ... friendly, even the Asylum rules are a bit more strict now than in the past.

But hey, that's just me.

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So you don't think that Barkingturtle brings a better level of discussion than Varus?


This. Bring Back BT!!!
and for the record; I tend to view Varus like I would Dwight Schrute.. but yeah; saying words that obviously are there just to get a simply rise is just foolish..

As for killing people..
I read the book Generation Kill which seems to go nicely into the notion of desensitization of taking lives. Granted he was writing about US Marines and not your everyday person.. but I recall in one section, when he asked one 19 year old Marine how it felt after he got his first kill how it felt he said something like "It was just like Grand Theft Auto".
There surely is a vast difference between those that have been put in the situation to kill others now and those in times past.. such as WW2 or even the US Civil War...
When you read letters and memoirs from people in those wars you either find that people really suppress their emotions in different ways.. So I guess it is just a matter how compartmentalization. Even in the 1800s you read about people expressing the horror of what they have witnessed..
In WW2 it seems to have been a bit different.. as I think that for a man to show his emotions was a huge taboo and so as a result no one really talked about their experiences as much which lead to a lot of misconceptions about war after that.. in which future generations didn't really think much (to a degree) about how horrible killing is.. I think it was somewhat similar to Vietnam vets.. They were trapped in a time between trying to emulate the stoic bravery that they saw in their fathers' generation while at the same time coming to grips with the horrible reality of the situation..

Fast forward to todays generation of warrior and I think you will find things to be somewhat different (to a degree). Due to media and collective memory their views seem to take into account the emotional states of past generations.. because I think in those collective memories we have more of an opportunity to more fully explore the reflection of veterans from wars past in books, memoirs, and movies.. Do these things provide a full view of the realities of killing and combat? Not at all but they still allow for more emotional padding that I feel was not so available to warriors in past generations.
That being said; I still do not think that one can pad themselves enough to deal with killing another person. While I have certainly heard about people feeling absolutely nothing after taking another life for whatever reason; name of duty, self-defense, et al; I could not be convinced that the memories of these events would not act as planted seeds that cannot grow and bud later in life.. no matter how many video games and war movies that people have seen.

As far as myself.. I think that in the moment of need that I would be able to do it; though I pray that I will never be tested on this.
I know that there were times in school and childhood where I have sort of just snapped (with reason, such as someone consistently messing with me) and have attacked people regardless of their size or stature. It seems like the more thought that you can actually put into it; the harder that it would become. However, there is something to be said about being guided by your principles.. it is not easy but if you know where you stand and where your enemy stands then I think that it does not take much to just from one side of the fence to the other.. that is from pondering what the right thing to do it and to simply making the decision to kill..
If someone invaded my home; I would like to think that I would have enough discernment to be able to not simply shoot first but to actually be able to properly contemplate the situation and determine if any steps in-between are possible such as holding them at bay without pulling the trigger..
I know people who claim that they would LOVE to have someone break into their house just so they have the chance to shoot someone.. I do not share this sentiment but I understand it.. I don't think that it is out of the pure want to murder (in most cases) but more out of wanting to have a chance to test themselves emotionally and to add to their experience.
I would ask those people what they think they are testing themselves for.


TL;DR= In a combat situation or if my home/family were being attacked I would not hesitate to start pulling the trigger; but I hope I never have to find out..
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