nonwto wrote:
Fight what, exactly? Universities are a formal place, contrary to the apparently popular conception. It's a matter of basic etiquette and respect. While the professor may not have handled it well, she was essentially correct. It's not very different from the obnoxious American tourists assuming everyone speaks English.
Racial ignorance and prejudice? Where does it stop? You can't force someone to speak English to their friends in casual conversation on their way to the library in a country with no official language. That's completely ignorant and stupid.
What respect and etiquette? Respect and etiquette is realizing that people are different.
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
I knew a girl in college who was from Korea. Her music teacher (she was a music major) said she couldn't pronounce her name, so she was going to call her "Beverly." Everyone else started calling her that. When I was introduced to her, the girl introduced her as Beverly. I told her she didn't look or sound like a Beverly, so she told me the story. She said her real name was Hee Kyung but no one could pronounce it.
I was floored, and insisted on calling her by her real name. I thought that was so obnoxious.
I learned every real name of all of the foreigners who gave me "U.S. American" names. Many times it isn't that people can't pronounce them, it's that people are just too lazy and don't care to pronounce it.
Btw, "Beverly" is definitely not a "Korean" name. A typical Korean name only consist of 3 syllables (1 syllable per name). If she has a Korean accent, chances are she has a Korean name.