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#177 Jun 07 2011 at 2:52 PM Rating: Good
Eske Esquire wrote:
I don't mean to say that there's any inherent correlation. Just that, in certain circumstances, I wouldn't have any issue with somebody deciding to vote a politician out of office for being too scummy, even if the issue wasn't directly related to his job.


I didn't realize that was what we were talking about. I certainly wouldn't blame someone for being bothered enough to not vote for the guy. I, personally, wouldn't use this as a basis on whether or not to vote for him. I was mostly suggesting that this doesn't really impact his ability to do his job, and I see no reason why he should be asked to resign.

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Thinking on it, I suppose that a politician involved in an affair could be more susceptible to blackmail/bribery if it came down to it. Again, this isn't a terrible concern of mine for a singular House rep (and not on heading any committees, etc) but it'd be a legitimate concern in my eyes versus "He should be better!"


That's something I hadn't really considered.

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Lying to his wife, sure. But he's not lying to me. I'm not married to him, thank god.

Let's be honest, he's probably gotten down on his knees and thanked Bob himself a time or two.


It's possible. I'd hold him to a higher standard. :P

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#178 Jun 07 2011 at 3:12 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira wrote:
Eske Esquire wrote:
I don't mean to say that there's any inherent correlation. Just that, in certain circumstances, I wouldn't have any issue with somebody deciding to vote a politician out of office for being too scummy, even if the issue wasn't directly related to his job.


I didn't realize that was what we were talking about. I certainly wouldn't blame someone for being bothered enough to not vote for the guy. I, personally, wouldn't use this as a basis on whether or not to vote for him. I was mostly suggesting that this doesn't really impact his ability to do his job, and I see no reason why he should be asked to resign.


Sorry, I'm only half in this thread. Haven't paid any attention to Weinergate, and my head's all stuffed up from some kind of cold. I'm probably not making sense.

Just kind of playing devil's advocate. I don't think I'd immediately assume that it'd impact ability to do their job, though I could see it being a tiebreaker for whether I'd personally vote for them.

Or something like that. I dunno. My head hurts.

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#179 Jun 07 2011 at 4:27 PM Rating: Default
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Yes. We should hold politicians to a higher standard. Lots of people like to make a big deal like it's hypocritical to do so (do as I say, not as I do), but while I agree that it's unreasonable to assume that all people are going to uphold those ideals, we should still expect them from our elected officials.
It's worth noting that not everybody runs on the ethical/morally superior ticket.


It doesn't matter if they run on that as part of their platform. We still should (and usually do) expect them to behave in an ethical manner. I just think it's better to set the bar high, knowing some will fail, then set is low and invite even more events like this.

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When a candidate defines himself partially as being anti-gay marriage and/or anti-homosexuality, but then winds up in a sex scandal with another gay man, that's funny because of the hypocrisy.


That's really a separate issue though.

Hypocrisy comes in all different forms. Isn't it also hypocrisy to attempt to avoid the issue by just not holding yourself (or your representatives) to those same standards? I've just never understood the idea that we should hold parties to different standards simply because one party attempts to hold itself to that standard while the other remains silent about it. Whatever the ethical issue, it should have the same weight regardless of party, right? I'd rather someone try and fail than not bother trying at all.


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It's not really hypocrisy if that's not what he ran as, that's him just being in a scandal.


Like I said. I see that as a cop-out though. So the solution to bad behavior by members of congress is for us to lower our expectations? I just don't see how that gains us much.
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#180 Jun 07 2011 at 5:00 PM Rating: Decent
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gbaji wrote:
This touches on the heart of the issue:

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Call me naive, but I never understood why sh*t like this is such a big deal. Are politicians supposed to adhere to some kind of higher standard than the general populous? That's always struck me as unreasonable at best.


Yes. We should hold politicians to a higher standard. Lots of people like to make a big deal like it's hypocritical to do so (do as I say, not as I do), but while I agree that it's unreasonable to assume that all people are going to uphold those ideals, we should still expect them from our elected officials. They represent us. They should represent the best aspects of us, not the worst, and not even the "average". We could randomly pick names out of a hat if we just wanted people in congress who are just like us. The fact is that we don't want people representing us who are just like us. We want people representing us who are better than us.


That may not always work out, but isn't it better to set that bar high knowing that some will fail, then to set it so low that everyone can meet it? What's the alternative? We just accept that members of congress are flawed people and look the other way when they lie, cheat, and steal? It may be unreasonable to expect people to meet those standards, but I think it's important to have them anyway.


I don't care if he lies to me about things that I have no business knowing because they're his personal business. Being a political officer neither requires one to live like a saint or air their private life for the world to see. We vet them thoroughly enough as it is.

Arguably we're the lesser people for insisting that we know something we have no right to know. Then we're going to chastise him for a disingenuous answer?

If nothing else, it's unrealistic to enforce these kinds of expectations, and punishing people for information that we shouldn't have in the first place only breeds an inconsistent and unjust system where only the rare person who gets caught has to pay. Hell, even if we're going to pursue allegations only when it's convenient, we may as well turn political officership into an opt-in witch hunt. The adultery rate is above 50%, and I doubt you'll get nearly that many confessions or "that's none of your business"s if we ask all of our elected officials. We'll easily be able to assume that half of them have lied to the American people, so it's only a matter of finding out which ones did!

This kind of insubstantial scandal just needs to stay out of the media altogether. If I were the one in front of the press that day, I'd have told them they should be ashamed for stooping to the levels of the tabloids just to get a scoop.
#181 Jun 07 2011 at 5:24 PM Rating: Good
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Wait, the name of the American polly who has featured on the news here lately as resigning and apologising for sending lewd groin pictures to 6 women not his wife, is WEINER?




zomg nominative determinism!!!hahahahahaha
#182 Jun 07 2011 at 5:52 PM Rating: Decent
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I don't care if he lies to me about things that I have no business knowing because they're his personal business.


Ok. But in this case, he sent out a tweet with a picture of his undie-wearing groin, which was seen by hundreds of people, most of whom were following him because he's a member of congress. You can't just disconnect one from the other.

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Being a political officer neither requires one to live like a saint or air their private life for the world to see. We vet them thoroughly enough as it is.


We don't really vet them that well, but the point is that he aired his private laundry (pun intended) for all the world to see. It's not like his political enemies went digging through his email and twitter account looking for stuff. He sent it out. All on his own. If nothing else, it tells us he's a freaking idiot and maybe that should disqualify him from holding office.

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Arguably we're the lesser people for insisting that we know something we have no right to know. Then we're going to chastise him for a disingenuous answer?


At the risk of repeating myself, we didn't "insist that we know something we have no right to know". He sent out a picture of himself. To the public.

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If nothing else, it's unrealistic to enforce these kinds of expectations, and punishing people for information that we shouldn't have in the first place only breeds an inconsistent and unjust system where only the rare person who gets caught has to pay.


Again, we didn't dig into his personal life. He broadcast it for the world to see. And I don't think it's unreasonable at all. What's the saying? Little lie, big lie? Someone willing to cheat on his wife is unlikely to refrain from cheating in other areas of his life. As someone mentioned earlier, it also opens said person up to blackmail. He's clearly willing to lie to prevent the truth about what he did come out, what else is he willing to lie about?

We give our elected officials the power and authority to make decisions on our behalf. I don't think it's unreasonable to expect them to act in a way deserving of the trust we place in them. Representatives have the ability to do things behind closed doors which we cannot know about. So when something like this happens, it tells us that this person can't be trusted. He can't be trusted to not abuse his position with regard to hitting on women behind his wifes back, so why trust him with things of much greater value?


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Hell, even if we're going to pursue allegations only when it's convenient, we may as well turn political officership into an opt-in witch hunt. The adultery rate is above 50%, and I doubt you'll get nearly that many confessions or "that's none of your business"s if we ask all of our elected officials. We'll easily be able to assume that half of them have lied to the American people, so it's only a matter of finding out which ones did!


I thought you said we vetted them? We don't do that, though. Do we? But that doesn't mean we should turn a blind eye when things like this happen. When we elect representatives, we give them our trust and we hope they don't misuse it. That only works if we punish them when they do, right? That's why we have to hold them to those higher standards. No one's demanding a witch hunt of everyone in office. But neither should we ignore events like this.

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This kind of insubstantial scandal just needs to stay out of the media altogether. If I were the one in front of the press that day, I'd have told them they should be ashamed for stooping to the levels of the tabloids just to get a scoop.


He sent the tweet. He put this "in the media". Not the other way around. No one broke into his private belongings and rummaged around looking for something incriminating. He sent this out into public view. I agree that it's tabloid stooping for the media to do the former, but it's irresponsible to ignore such things when they are dropped right in front of you.


There's an interesting double standard here as well. I don't recall you (or most people on this forum) saying that the media should be ashamed for all the snooping and digging they did into Sarah Palin when she was selected as running mate in 2008. Never in my life have I seen such a scramble of tabloid level journalism aimed at a single person, yet not one peep of "this is a bit too far" from you then. So the media should have ignored a sitting member of congress who tweeted a picture of himself in his underwear to a woman who wasn't his wife publicly, but it's all fine and dandy for them to interview friends of her son to see if he smoked some pot at some point.

Strange line you're not drawing there.
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#183 Jun 07 2011 at 5:56 PM Rating: Good
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he aired his private laundry (pun intended)
The member of congress would have been the funnier pun emphasis.
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#184 Jun 07 2011 at 6:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Wait, the name of the American polly who has featured on the news here lately as resigning and apologising for sending lewd groin pictures to 6 women not his wife, is WEINER?




zomg nominative determinism!!!hahahahahaha

No. He didn't resign. He just told his constituents that if they have a problem with his actions not to vote for him.
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he aired his private laundry (pun intended)
The member of congress would have been the funnier pun emphasis.


Hahaha! Good one!
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#186 Jun 07 2011 at 7:34 PM Rating: Decent
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Ok. But in this case, he sent out a tweet with a picture of his undie-wearing groin, which was seen by hundreds of people, most of whom were following him because he's a member of congress. You can't just disconnect one from the other.


And why is that a story? Because we made it one. Try to keep up.

If he had accidentally posted any mundane personal detail/picture and deleted it, no one would have cared, and it still wouldn't have been their business to pry into it. They did because they have a fascination with ****** because we're Americans and penises are scandalous even though half of us have one.
#187 Jun 07 2011 at 8:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Ok. But in this case, he sent out a tweet with a picture of his undie-wearing groin, which was seen by hundreds of people, most of whom were following him because he's a member of congress. You can't just disconnect one from the other.


And why is that a story? Because we made it one. Try to keep up.


You don't think that a married member of congress sending a picture of himself in his underwear to a 21 year old college student is a story? Um... Wow?

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If he had accidentally posted any mundane personal detail/picture and deleted it, no one would have cared, and it still wouldn't have been their business to pry into it.


Yes. So why do you suppose people cared in this case? Could it possibly have been because he was doing something a married man shouldn't be doing? You honestly don't think that makes this a story? About 99% of the rest of the population disagrees with you on that one.

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They did because they have a fascination with ****** because we're Americans and penises are scandalous even though half of us have one.


No. They did because he was being unfaithful to his wife. They did because this presents a violation of trust to the one person he's supposed to be most faithful to. They care about this because if a man can't keep his promises to his wife, why the hell expect him to keep his promises to his constituents whom he presumably knows less well and cares about less?


If he had been single, it might have just been a funny/embarrassing gaffe and most people wouldn't have cared much. But he's not single. And that's the point. It's not about the fascination with anatomy. It's that most people do think that taking oaths and vows matter and we should care if someone can't seem to keep one, because it indicates that he likely can't keep the other either.

You honestly don't see this? And I'm still curious how you don't see this as newsworthy, but apparently digging into a candidates daughter's pregnancy is? Or allegations of delinquency on the part of her son? Or what magazines she reads? I'll point out again that you have an amazingly non-coincidental inconsistency with regard to what you think the public deserves to know about politicians.
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#188 Jun 07 2011 at 8:38 PM Rating: Good
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You don't think that a married member of congress sending a picture of himself in his underwear to a 21 year old college student is a story?
Not much of a story. The coverup is more of a story, and even that doesn't really deserve any real airtime.

Hell, even any "serious" post in this thread that isn't a thinly veiled ***** joke is more than this deserves.
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#189 Jun 07 2011 at 8:44 PM Rating: Excellent
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Well, the voters in his district believe, 51-30 that he should remain in office. Remainder undecided.
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#190 Jun 08 2011 at 2:29 AM Rating: Decent
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You don't think that a married member of congress sending a picture of himself in his underwear to a 21 year old college student is a story? Um... Wow?


I think it's a great story for a tabloid. I'd prefer if professional journalists stick to stories that matter.

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Yes. So why do you suppose people cared in this case? Could it possibly have been because he was doing something a married man shouldn't be doing? You honestly don't think that makes this a story? About 99% of the rest of the population disagrees with you on that one.


By George, I think you're getting it! It's a story because people find stupid **** that is none of their business interesting.

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No. They did because he was being unfaithful to his wife. They did because this presents a violation of trust to the one person he's supposed to be most faithful to. They care about this because if a man can't keep his promises to his wife, why the hell expect him to keep his promises to his constituents whom he presumably knows less well and cares about less?


You just keep telling yourself that. Do you know nothing about people's perception of politicians? Maybe some running joke about how dishonest they all are?

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You honestly don't see this? And I'm still curious how you don't see this as newsworthy, but apparently digging into a candidates daughter's pregnancy is? Or allegations of delinquency on the part of her son? Or what magazines she reads? I'll point out again that you have an amazingly non-coincidental inconsistency with regard to what you think the public deserves to know about politicians.


Me, personally? Because you'd be dead wrong. I don't think any of those things have been anybody's business. Granted I don't actually mind if Republicans catch political flak for it, particularly considering their likeliness to run on campaigns of morality, but I also truly don't think it should be news. If blatantly hypocrisy is there, then maybe a quick comment and move on. I'm actually remarkably consistent in my position that it's good if Republicans get media heat but Democrats don't, but I don't pretend it's fair. I just accept that Republicans, particularly ones like you, have that same philosophy, and rather than attempt to transcend such a blatant hypocrisy, I take a rather more Machiavellian approach to the matter.

So yes; good when it happens to Republicans, and bad when it happens to Democrats, but generally not news or any of our business either way.
#191 Jun 08 2011 at 6:40 AM Rating: Excellent
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Despite Joph's assurances that Weiner is just .23% of the HoR, I'm actually really disappointed in Rep. Weiner. I listened to a few of his speeches in Congress, and was pleasantly surprised at how willing he was to call people on their bullsh*t. Yes, he was pedantic; yes, he argued rules like the nerdiest kid in student government; but he was right and great at pointing out how other politicians were bypassing their own rules because it was convenient.

I feel this story is big for three reasons:
1. Sex scandals sell... even when there's no sex.
2. The only reason this came to light was due to the fanatical following he had from anti-Weiner forces. As soon as they found something, they milked it for all it was worth.
3. His name if freaking WEINER.

As was mentioned before in this thread (forget by whom) the remarkable thing is that he could be so dumb when it comes to technology. He must have known that his twitter account was being looked at with a magnifying glass. While the sexting was inappropriate, I don't think that makes it bad - it was the lying multiple times when he was caught that pisses me off. If you're going to be a jackass, and you get caught, 'fess up. Thinking he could pass the entire thing off as hacking when he knows how you can find almost anything on the internet is just... unrealistic. Panic describes it, but doesn't excuse it.

As said, it'll be up to his district to decide if he stays or not. Resigning, no... but I think he's torpedoed his career quite well.

Full disclosure: I've never taken nude pics of myself. So if I'm ever in a sex scandal, it won't be with pictures. Hopefully.
#192REDACTED, Posted: Jun 08 2011 at 7:00 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Do you think a person so willing to lie to millions of people would be susceptible to being bought if an interested party were the ones that had the dirt on him instead of a journalist?
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Do you think a person so willing to lie to millions of people would be susceptible to being bought if an interested party were the ones that had the dirt on him instead of a journalist?

Yes, which is why he should never be on a committee.
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Despite Joph's assurances that Weiner is just .23% of the HoR

"Assurances"? It's a fact. There's 435 members of the House of Representatives, of which Weiner is one.

I've no argument that it was stupid, he was stupid in his denials and that he should ultimately face his voters. Moe's statements about "leaders of the nation who panic" deserved to be tempered with the reality that Weiner's ability to damage anything (beyond his own reputation) by acting in a panic is very minimal.
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#195 Jun 08 2011 at 7:50 AM Rating: Excellent
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Despite Joph's assurances that Weiner is just .23% of the HoR

"Assurances"? It's a fact. There's 435 members of the House of Representatives, of which Weiner is one.

You're not fooling anyone with your "special math".
#196 Jun 08 2011 at 8:01 AM Rating: Excellent
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person so willing to lie to millions of people
"Politician."
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Jophiel wrote:
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Despite Joph's assurances that Weiner is just .23% of the HoR

"Assurances"? It's a fact. There's 435 members of the House of Representatives, of which Weiner is one.
My issue is that one representative =/= another in all ways. Or rather, the "just, in your statement was my issue, not the percentage itself.

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Rep. Weiner is a junior member on a single committee (Energy and Commerce). You're correct that one member doesn't equal another but Weiner is definitely in the lower tiers of influence. If, say, Mrs. Pelosi was Twittering off photos of her cooter around town and reacted the same way to this revelation, I'd see a stronger argument for "failed leadership".

Of course, had this not happened who knows where Weiner would be in 5-10-15 years.
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#199 Jun 08 2011 at 9:51 AM Rating: Excellent
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If, say, Mrs. Pelosi was Twittering off photos of her cooter around town
Dammit Joph, it's almost lunch time! Smiley: glare
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If, say, Mrs. Pelosi was Twittering off photos of her cooter around town
Dammit Joph, it's almost lunch time! Smiley: glare
Not anymore.

Edited, Jun 8th 2011 11:53am by lolgaxe
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If, say, Mrs. Pelosi was Twittering off photos of her cooter around town
Dammit Joph, it's almost lunch time! Smiley: glare

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