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#1 Mar 04 2011 at 12:41 PM Rating: Good
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I think it is.

Who has the most exciting weekend planned?

I'm going down to our 'big' city tomorrow to hook up with some peeps for a birthday dinner at the Irish place. This is my only planned plan.

It's been cold. The snow is not melting. That means a walk in the woods will still be on snow shoes.

I'm still looking for a dress for a wedding. The time grows nearer but I don't wanna go shop for one. But maybe I'll do a bit of that when I go downtown tomorrow.

I'm still deciding about purchasing and playing Rift. I was all set on jumping on board this weekend. But then I started having a boatload of fun with Warhammer again. I'm so indecisive. It's easier to just not contemplate decisions - specially concerning games.
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#2 Mar 04 2011 at 1:38 PM Rating: Good
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It is Friday. Mucho kid activities for the weekend. I am still trying to shake a cough and feel kinda under the weather. We have dinner plans for Saturday night. Pretty standard weekend.

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#3 Mar 04 2011 at 1:50 PM Rating: Good
Well, I may or may not be picking up a puppy tomorrow. I'm driving out to look at a few, and I'm hoping I'll get to bring one home with me, but we'll see.

I imagine the rest of the weekend will be spent cuddling and playing with a puppy. And cleaning up ****.
#4 Mar 04 2011 at 1:51 PM Rating: Good
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Well, I may or may not be picking up a puppy tomorrow. I'm driving out to look at a few, and I'm hoping I'll get to bring one home with me, but we'll see.

I imagine the rest of the weekend will be spent cuddling and playing with a puppy. And cleaning up ****.


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#5 Mar 04 2011 at 2:28 PM Rating: Excellent
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It's the Friday before Spring Break for the University... but of course I need to work all next week >_< No friends or girlfriend around, so more relaxing time for me!
#6 Mar 04 2011 at 3:22 PM Rating: Good
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It'll be an odd weekend for me. I cut all ties with my parents the other day, after the latest in around 2 years worth of consistent altercations. Saturday, I may have to go by their house again to collect some of my things. I'm not looking forward to it.

Bleh. Ain't been a great week for me. Smiley: frown Maybe I'll be able to relax on Sunday a bit.
#7 Mar 04 2011 at 3:24 PM Rating: Decent
Yea! It's actually a Friday for me! I get Saturday and Sunday off! This happens once ever 6-7 weeks on my 4-2 schedule.
#8 Mar 04 2011 at 5:42 PM Rating: Good
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Volunteering all day Saturday for the Women's Resource Fair in San Diego on Saturday. Morning shift is easy since I'll just be doing in-take and pointing people in the right direction. Afternoon shift, I'm a runner/floater which will be much much tougher.

Sunday, going to the San Diego Air & Space Museum with Ray. He's got a paper to write and we need to go there so he can pick something in the museum to write about.
#9 Mar 04 2011 at 6:34 PM Rating: Good
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It'll be an odd weekend for me. I cut all ties with my parents the other day, after the latest in around 2 years worth of consistent altercations. Saturday, I may have to go by their house again to collect some of my things. I'm not looking forward to it.

Bleh. Ain't been a great week for me. Smiley: frown Maybe I'll be able to relax on Sunday a bit.


I'm sorry, Eske. I hope tomorrow goes ok for you.
#10 Mar 04 2011 at 7:13 PM Rating: Decent
I'm going to the Mardi Gras parade in Soulard tomorrow day, then going to a Dropkick Murphys concert tomorrow evening. Should be a fantastic weekend.
#11 Mar 04 2011 at 9:50 PM Rating: Excellent
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Eske Esquire wrote:
It'll be an odd weekend for me. I cut all ties with my parents the other day, after the latest in around 2 years worth of consistent altercations. Saturday, I may have to go by their house again to collect some of my things. I'm not looking forward to it.

Bleh. Ain't been a great week for me. Smiley: frown Maybe I'll be able to relax on Sunday a bit.


I'm sorry, Eske. I hope tomorrow goes ok for you.


That's kind of you to say. Smiley: smile

There's not much to say about it to folks who aren't close to the situation. The issue is with my mother, whom I've never really gotten along with. She's got a very combative personality, to say the least. The sad thing is that it's a package deal: though I love my dad, he's stubbornly loyal to her, so unfortunately I won't be seeing him anymore either.

It'll be ok though. Truth be told, this was a long, long time coming. I know it's for the best, and I do think that we'll all be happier for it in the end. I've got mixed emotions right now, and I'm still in a bit of shock. But there's a nice, free feeling there too.

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#12 Mar 04 2011 at 10:10 PM Rating: Good
Our first lambs dropped this afternoon, so I'm going to be spending my weekend sleeping in a barn. We already had 2 sets of triplets to start things off, so I need to pass those off on a single yet tonight lest I want to add bottle feeding to my chores for the next couple months. I love my life.
#13 Mar 04 2011 at 11:11 PM Rating: Excellent
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Playing some guitar, playing some Rift, working out on my new elliptical machine, walking the beasties, and some typical weekend errands. Elinda - I loved Warhammer - it had such huge potential - love that world (read a ton of the novels). I'm really having a blast in Rift and I think you will be mightily impressed.

Eske - I can't begin to understand your situation but I, too, have had a combative mother (i.e., slightly loony) over the years. Thankfully, over time, she has mellowed out (she's in her early 70s now) and things have been better between us. It helps that we live on opposite sides of the country. Nothing has to ever be set in stone or be so final. At a certain point, it doesn't matter who is wrong or who is right - forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance can go a long way to beat out a lifetime of possible regret with that relationship (or the collateral damage to the relationship with your father). Possibly something to consider down the road. Whether that can apply to your situation or not at this time or ever I don't know - it never hurts to take a break from people to sort things out. I wish you all the best and hope that things work out for you either way.
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#14 Mar 05 2011 at 12:40 PM Rating: Good
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Eske - I can't begin to understand your situation but I, too, have had a combative mother (i.e., slightly loony) over the years. Thankfully, over time, she has mellowed out (she's in her early 70s now) and things have been better between us. It helps that we live on opposite sides of the country. Nothing has to ever be set in stone or be so final. At a certain point, it doesn't matter who is wrong or who is right - forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance can go a long way to beat out a lifetime of possible regret with that relationship (or the collateral damage to the relationship with your father). Possibly something to consider down the road. Whether that can apply to your situation or not at this time or ever I don't know - it never hurts to take a break from people to sort things out. I wish you all the best and hope that things work out for you either way.


Thanks for the advice. Yeah, I'm not setting anything in stone. But with my mother, there's never been any forgiveness, understanding, or acceptance. She's stubborn as a mule, and has always been willing to disown me before she'd ever consider apologizing for something, no matter how insignificant. There's never any mutual compromise; you either take full blame for the issue, or you get cut off completely.

I can say with near 100% certainty that she'll never forgive or understand this separation. She'll hold her ground until her death. I could try to make things up with her in the future, but she'd try to make me pay dearly for it, and I'd get nothing in return. I've done that song and dance hundreds of times.

For the foreseeable future, I'm better off on my own. I'm actually doing pretty well.

Thanks for the support though, guys!
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I've got to start packing stuff up in preparation for a move in the near future. And cleaning up the house as I go.
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#17 Mar 05 2011 at 8:17 PM Rating: Good
Puppy!!!!

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#18 Mar 06 2011 at 11:10 AM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Puppy!!!!

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Congrats! Smiley: grin
#19 Mar 06 2011 at 11:33 AM Rating: Excellent
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Eske Esquire wrote:
Snorre wrote:
Eske - I can't begin to understand your situation but I, too, have had a combative mother (i.e., slightly loony) over the years. Thankfully, over time, she has mellowed out (she's in her early 70s now) and things have been better between us. It helps that we live on opposite sides of the country. Nothing has to ever be set in stone or be so final. At a certain point, it doesn't matter who is wrong or who is right - forgiveness, understanding, and acceptance can go a long way to beat out a lifetime of possible regret with that relationship (or the collateral damage to the relationship with your father). Possibly something to consider down the road. Whether that can apply to your situation or not at this time or ever I don't know - it never hurts to take a break from people to sort things out. I wish you all the best and hope that things work out for you either way.


Thanks for the advice. Yeah, I'm not setting anything in stone. But with my mother, there's never been any forgiveness, understanding, or acceptance. She's stubborn as a mule, and has always been willing to disown me before she'd ever consider apologizing for something, no matter how insignificant. There's never any mutual compromise; you either take full blame for the issue, or you get cut off completely.

I can say with near 100% certainty that she'll never forgive or understand this separation. She'll hold her ground until her death. I could try to make things up with her in the future, but she'd try to make me pay dearly for it, and I'd get nothing in return. I've done that song and dance hundreds of times.

For the foreseeable future, I'm better off on my own. I'm actually doing pretty well.

Thanks for the support though, guys!


Sounds a little bit like my MIL. My husband finally told cut all ties to her about a year ago. But the difference here is *she's* the one that tries to come back around. I was really proud of him for standing his ground the last time she tried to contact him. This woman is crazy as a loon and she was taking my husband down with her.
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