Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
but I don't really just want to reject her outright if she's going to try killing herself again over something like that, or use that as an excuse to drop AA. So I don't know what the hell I am going to do. Try and ignore the situation for the weekend I guess.
You have no responsibility to look after the health, welfare or happiness of any other adult. Anything you do for other adults is extra loving caring, and you have the right to feel love for who you feel love for, and to not feel love for those you don't feel love for.
EG, don't fall for emotional blackmail, especially from a stranger.