Belkira the Tulip wrote:
gbaji wrote:
Aside from actually walking up to someone and saying "I'm gay", how would anyone know you were though?
Oh, I don't know. Looking at naked pictures of people of the same sex in the barracks. Commenting on an actor or actress you think is cute. You know, things people who are close do from time to time.
Not being privy to the details of the cases in which soldiers have been discharged, I'm just kinda guessing here. However, it would be interesting to see what kinds of evidence is actually used in cases of discharge on grounds of homosexuality. Aren't we both just kinda speculating here? I somehow doubt that "he had a copy of playgirl in his locker" ends out being a significant piece of evidence, or has a significant impact on the odds of being discharged.
Even comments about people is unlikely to. Lots of soldiers horse around. I suspect that it takes more than that.
gbaji wrote:
Two men can do plenty of other things and be sexually active without their ***** being inserted into an **** or a mouth.
Kinda missing the point though.
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But while we're on the topic, most heterosexual couples, I am even going to say the vast majority of heterosexual couples engage in oral sex. So if the military is going to be seen as hypocritical by saying that homosexuals can be openly gay, but sodomy and oral sex is a no-no, then I think it's just as hypocritical to allow openly heterosexual individuals to join.
Yes. Which is why I have stated at least three times now that the correct course of action is to address the conduct rules in the military globally, instead of making what is effectively an exception case for gay soldiers. That way the rules are the same for everyone and it's all fair. You want things to be "fair", right?
You're aware that straight soldiers can be discharged for conduct if there's sufficient evidence that they've engaged in sodomy as well (such as a letter from a girl friend describing said acts). But, just as with gays in the military, you pretty much have to have pissed someone off, or be a ***** up that someone wants drummed out, in order for anyone to actually do this. The same "OMG! A letter from home, or comment about one's life can get you discharged" applied to both groups. It's just that there is no activist group fighting for straight soldiers rights not to be discharged on sexual conduct grounds.
If the issue is that conduct for people serving in the military precludes sodomy, and homosexual relationships are assumed to include sodomy, then get rid of the archaic rules about sodomy. Problem solved! It would certainly make the case for ending prohibition against gay people in the military a hell of a lot stronger, wouldn't it? Why is that not the route we're going then?
I'd toss in my patented "because the left wants the issue", but that would just be repeating myself.
Edited, Sep 21st 2010 5:47pm by gbaji