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#2327 Sep 21 2010 at 2:01 PM Rating: Excellent
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So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Being openly homosexual does not mean that you participate in sodomy or oral sex. Smiley: schooled
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And I chose not to join the military. Surely you understand that "freedom to be who you want" and "I'm going to join the military" don't really go hand and hand, right? They never have. And not just for gay people.


While I totally don't give a rats **** whether a person is gay or not, don't particularly understand why anyone wants to talk about their sexual preferences while at work, why anyone would care about someone elses sexual orientation while at work, and I struggle to comprehend why anyone with half a brain would want to join any branch of the military in the first place, and why the fUck anyone is still bothering to post in this verbal **** of a thread, I totally had to rate up Gbaji for the above quote.
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#2330 Sep 21 2010 at 2:06 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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You're late.


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#2332 Sep 21 2010 at 2:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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You stated the same thing twice, which indicates either your second post was useless and/or the posts discussed in between them were useless. In either case, you only identified my post as useless.
Well, You don't seem to understand most posts the first time, so it's necessary to repeat myself. and no I identified the whole discussion, but keep on with that martyr complex.

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I give you permission, I was referring to the site itself. You know that. We already had this conversation when you said "good point" or something similar, so we both know that I give you any permission.
That's interesting. Based on what I can read of your post I have to wonder why you'd go to the trouble of putting things in colour if you just want me to edit them.

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#2333 Sep 21 2010 at 3:17 PM Rating: Default
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Being openly homosexual does not mean that you participate in sodomy or oral sex. Smiley: schooled


This has been already addressed several times Belkira.

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Relevant news.


Still waiting for a response....

Is someone's size considered a personal trait?

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You're late.


Interestingly enough, as I listened to the 4 star, his reasoning against it dealt with military servicemen having to share close quarters with homosexuals and the overwhelming majority not wanting to do that. He used the privacy issue, stating that they would have to build separate barracks and stuff.

Since I'm an officer, I will usually get my own quarters, so I didn't even think about that... oh well.. I guess yay over all..

So, Belkira, does that mean you're willing to temporarily drop DADT and go after other laws such as Sodomy first, since the bill was denied?

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#2334 Sep 21 2010 at 3:22 PM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Being openly homosexual does not mean that you participate in sodomy or oral sex. Smiley: schooled


This has been already addressed several times Belkira.
by your perception bit, but this doesn't make it hypocritical.


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Interestingly enough, as I listened to the 4 star, his reasoning against it dealt with military servicemen having to share close quarters with homosexuals and the overwhelming majority not wanting to do that. He used the privacy issue, stating that they would have to build separate barracks and stuff.

Since I'm an officer, I will usually get my own quarters, so I didn't even think about that... oh well.. I guess yay over all..

So, Belkira, does that mean you're willing to temporarily drop DADT and go after other laws such as Sodomy first, since the bill was denied?
But I thought that everyone was fine with sharing barracks with them, and that it was basically common knowledge? That is what you were asserting a while ago.
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#2335 Sep 21 2010 at 3:22 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Being openly homosexual does not mean that you participate in sodomy or oral sex. Smiley: schooled


This has been already addressed several times Belkira.


And yet, it's still true!! Amazing how that works.

Edit: I missed this.

Almalieque wrote:
Interestingly enough, as I listened to the 4 star, his reasoning against it dealt with military servicemen having to share close quarters with homosexuals and the overwhelming majority not wanting to do that. He used the privacy issue, stating that they would have to build separate barracks and stuff.

Since I'm an officer, I will usually get my own quarters, so I didn't even think about that... oh well.. I guess yay over all..

So, Belkira, does that mean you're willing to temporarily drop DADT and go after other laws such as Sodomy first, since the bill was denied?


No. I'm not sure why it would.

But hey, you get a petition together to repeal the sodomy laws while they're working on DADT, and I'd be happy to sign it.

Edited, Sep 21st 2010 4:24pm by Belkira
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Just as an aside....

Isn't there any brown folk that you need to go and kill Alma? You seem to spend an inordinate amount of time hanging around the Arsylum when you could be out there getting shot at for your country.

Has the USA won all the wars its started and no one has mentioned it or something? The liberal press needs to pass that info along if its true, and the money could be diverted somewhere where it could be doing something useful for a change.
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#2337 Sep 21 2010 at 3:52 PM Rating: Good
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Still waiting for a response....

Is someone's size considered a personal trait?


I suppose I've cooled enough to indulge you again. I'm guessing you're trying to link this back to that quip of yours about the military's "misguided" physical requirements. Am I right on that? If so, I wouldn't bother, because there's nothing good for you down that road. But here you go:

Yes, I'd consider size a personal trait.
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Xsarus wrote:
by your perception bit, but this doesn't make it hypocritical.


Almalieque again wrote:

So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Answer the question..

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But I thought that everyone was fine with sharing barracks with them, and that it was basically common knowledge? That is what you were asserting a while ago.


Where did I say that people were fine sharing barracks with them? I said it was common knowledge that many servicemen are gay. Completely two different issues. How can you change rooms on the possibility that someone's gay if they haven't came out and authorities aren't allowed to ask? That means, that person just has to deal with it or find another reason to move. Try again...

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And yet, it's still true!! Amazing how that works.


It's not, you're just telling yourself that. I gave you an article that supports the claim about perception, I gave you legitimate reasons on how someone could logically discriminate based on sexuality other than bigotry, hatred, etc., there is absolutely nothing left for you but denial.

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No. I'm not sure why it would.

But hey, you get a petition together to repeal the sodomy laws while they're working on DADT, and I'd be happy to sign it.


You said earlier that it would be dumb to stop progress of the DADT to try something else, well the repeal was denied, so you're back at square one. So there is no reason for you not to support the more logical approach.

Actually, after hearing the 4 star talk, I think my opinion has changed or up for change. I didn't really care about DADT as long as it wasn't done by society creating a hypocrisy, but the 4 star made some interesting points against it.... hmmmmm.. what to think.....

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Just as an aside....

Isn't there any brown folk that you need to go and kill Alma? You seem to spend an inordinate amount of time hanging around the Arsylum when you could be out there getting shot at for your country.

Has the USA won all the wars its started and no one has mentioned it or something? The liberal press needs to pass that info along if its true, and the money could be diverted somewhere where it could be doing something useful for a change.


I'm in school... well waiting for my class to start next week..
#2339 Sep 21 2010 at 4:08 PM Rating: Good
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It's not, you're just telling yourself that. I gave you an article that supports the claim about perception, I gave you legitimate reasons on how someone could logically discriminate based on sexuality other than bigotry, hatred, etc., there is absolutely nothing left for you but denial.


Yeah, you're still wrong. Smiley: frown I'm sorry.

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You said earlier that it would be dumb to stop progress of the DADT to try something else, well the repeal was denied, so you're back at square one. So there is no reason for you not to support the more logical approach.


First, we're not back at square one. Second, I've always supported both. I never said that the only reason I disagree with you is because it's stupid to drop this when we've come so far.

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Actually, after hearing the 4 star talk, I think my opinion has changed or up for change. I didn't really care about DADT as long as it wasn't done by society creating a hypocrisy, but the 4 star made some interesting points against it.... hmmmmm.. what to think.....


Smiley: laugh Like anyone here believed that you "really didn't care about DADT."
#2340 Sep 21 2010 at 4:11 PM Rating: Good
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I'm in school... well waiting for my class to start next week..


Well, whats this about then?

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Since I'm an officer, I will usually get my own quarters, so I didn't even think about that... oh well.. I guess yay over all..


I'm confused.
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You don't see the difference between telling people not to act on their urges to rape children versus telling them to stop being attracted to them?



I know the difference, my point was in reference to what you think is right and/or wrong? Do you think it's conceptually wrong to tell someone not to act on their natural feelings? Or, do you think the morality depends on the feelings and on the situation?

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Yeah, you're still wrong. Smiley: frown I'm sorry.


Oh, wait. I got it "because you said so"

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Smiley: laugh Like anyone here believed that you "really didn't care about DADT."


As you are seemingly in denial and have absolutely no clue how the military words, I couldn't careless if you believed me or not.

You probably still don't believe the fact that I can't just walk around holding any 'ol girl's hand or talk freely about any 'ol girl as if we're dating... lol

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I'm confused.


It's ok. I've realized a while back that most people here aren't familiar with how the military works. The military has school training that you go to throughout your career to enhance you expertise in whatever you do. This is typically called the "school house", at least in the Army.

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I suppose I've cooled enough to indulge you again. I'm guessing you're trying to link this back to that quip of yours about the military's "misguided" physical requirements. Am I right on that? If so, I wouldn't bother, because there's nothing good for you down that road. But here you go:

Yes, I'd consider size a personal trait.


As long as you realize that you're wrong, I don't need to get a admittance from you.
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As long as you realize that you're wrong, I don't need to get a admittance from you.


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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
So, wait. If an organization creates a rule banning activity "x", but allows people to openly admit to doing activity "x" with no repercussions, while chastising others for activity "x", that's not hypocritical? o.o?


Being openly homosexual does not mean that you participate in sodomy or oral sex.


Aside from actually walking up to someone and saying "I'm gay", how would anyone know you were though? I guess that's what I'm still a bit confuzzled by here. Most people define relationships (ie: boyfriend/girlfriend) in a sexual context. Certainly, adults do. So one might ask why a male soldier would refer to a male friend, with who he is not engaged in sexual behavior in a different way if he was gay than if he was straight. He's a friend. I'm pretty sure (in fact I know) that a whole lot of soldiers have same sex friends back home. And they send letters, gift packages, etc.

I still keep coming back to the same issues: You have to either go out of your way to announce your sexuality, or you have to be "caught" engaging in sexual activity in order for this to ever affect you. Simply being gay, and having friends of the same sex isn't going to make any difference. Unless there's a whole lot of gay folks who have purely platonic relationships with people of the same sex, but insist on referring to them as their SO. Which I find strange. Doubly so if you know you're going to get in trouble for doing this.
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Well, if there's any record of you having attempted to marry someone of the same sex, that can also get you booted. Or whatever that article was earlier about the air force pilot who was tattled on by the police force or whatever happened. Don't feel like going back to hunt down the specifics.

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Alma wrote:
As long as you realize that you're wrong, I don't need to get a admittance from you.


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Do I really have to explain? Or are you just trying to seem clueless?
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Almalieque wrote:
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As long as you realize that you're wrong, I don't need to get a admittance from you.


Smiley: confused


Do I really have to explain? Or are you just trying to seem clueless?


I don't have a damned clue of what you're talking about.
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#2348 Sep 21 2010 at 6:22 PM Rating: Good
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Aside from actually walking up to someone and saying "I'm gay", how would anyone know you were though?


Oh, I don't know. Looking at naked pictures of people of the same sex in the barracks. Commenting on an actor or actress you think is cute. You know, things people who are close do from time to time.

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I guess that's what I'm still a bit confuzzled by here. Most people define relationships (ie: boyfriend/girlfriend) in a sexual context. Certainly, adults do. So one might ask why a male soldier would refer to a male friend, with who he is not engaged in sexual behavior in a different way if he was gay than if he was straight. He's a friend. I'm pretty sure (in fact I know) that a whole lot of soldiers have same sex friends back home. And they send letters, gift packages, etc.


Two men can do plenty of other things and be sexually active without their ***** being inserted into an **** or a mouth.

Two women can do even more without needing to resort to oral sex.

I'm not going to go into detail here. You're an adult, you can figure that out on your own. But while we're on the topic, most heterosexual couples, I am even going to say the vast majority of heterosexual couples engage in oral sex. So if the military is going to be seen as hypocritical by saying that homosexuals can be openly gay, but sodomy and oral sex is a no-no, then I think it's just as hypocritical to allow openly heterosexual individuals to join.
#2349 Sep 21 2010 at 6:42 PM Rating: Excellent
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Two women can do even more without needing to resort to oral sex.

I'm not going to go into detail here.


She's talking about fisting, mostly. And scissoring.

Lesbian sex is fUcking violent.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
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Aside from actually walking up to someone and saying "I'm gay", how would anyone know you were though?


Oh, I don't know. Looking at naked pictures of people of the same sex in the barracks. Commenting on an actor or actress you think is cute. You know, things people who are close do from time to time.


Not being privy to the details of the cases in which soldiers have been discharged, I'm just kinda guessing here. However, it would be interesting to see what kinds of evidence is actually used in cases of discharge on grounds of homosexuality. Aren't we both just kinda speculating here? I somehow doubt that "he had a copy of playgirl in his locker" ends out being a significant piece of evidence, or has a significant impact on the odds of being discharged.

Even comments about people is unlikely to. Lots of soldiers horse around. I suspect that it takes more than that.

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Two men can do plenty of other things and be sexually active without their ***** being inserted into an **** or a mouth.


Kinda missing the point though.

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But while we're on the topic, most heterosexual couples, I am even going to say the vast majority of heterosexual couples engage in oral sex. So if the military is going to be seen as hypocritical by saying that homosexuals can be openly gay, but sodomy and oral sex is a no-no, then I think it's just as hypocritical to allow openly heterosexual individuals to join.



Yes. Which is why I have stated at least three times now that the correct course of action is to address the conduct rules in the military globally, instead of making what is effectively an exception case for gay soldiers. That way the rules are the same for everyone and it's all fair. You want things to be "fair", right?

You're aware that straight soldiers can be discharged for conduct if there's sufficient evidence that they've engaged in sodomy as well (such as a letter from a girl friend describing said acts). But, just as with gays in the military, you pretty much have to have pissed someone off, or be a ***** up that someone wants drummed out, in order for anyone to actually do this. The same "OMG! A letter from home, or comment about one's life can get you discharged" applied to both groups. It's just that there is no activist group fighting for straight soldiers rights not to be discharged on sexual conduct grounds.

If the issue is that conduct for people serving in the military precludes sodomy, and homosexual relationships are assumed to include sodomy, then get rid of the archaic rules about sodomy. Problem solved! It would certainly make the case for ending prohibition against gay people in the military a hell of a lot stronger, wouldn't it? Why is that not the route we're going then?


I'd toss in my patented "because the left wants the issue", but that would just be repeating myself.

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Eske, Star Breaker wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
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As long as you realize that you're wrong, I don't need to get a admittance from you.


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Do I really have to explain? Or are you just trying to seem clueless?


I don't have a damned clue of what you're talking about.


Given the fact that you even mentioned it, forewarning me that it was nothing "good" going down that road, I'm sure you know exactly what I'm talking about. I'll bite though, since we only have 3 pages left to 50.

1. I stated that many people get discharged from the military for things as "silly" as sexuality all of the time and homosexuals are not exclusive to that.

2. I gave examples to include people who don't meet certain height/weight standards but are able to outperform other Soldiers who do.

3. You replied with who gives a flying eff about weight, non of those are the same because we're talking about personal traits.

4. From there I made the logical assumption that by "personal trait", you had the same concept as my terminology as "personality trait". When I made that word replacement, you accused me of putting words in your mouth. So, I asked you to define "personal trait" so we both know.

5. Your definition was very broad where it was simply any trait of a person, i.e. skin color. That was your argument on how discharging someone for their skin color is the same as sexuality, simply because they are both personal traits.

6. So, I asked you if you considered someone's weight as a personal trait. You obviously ignored it because you didn't know how to respond. If it's a personal trait, then it means that you were wrong saying that the other reasons for being discharged were different from sexuality. If size weren't a personal trait, then you would be wrong on your definition of personal trait, needing to redefine it. I assume by now you came up with an answer, given how long you avoided it.
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