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#202 Aug 05 2010 at 4:13 PM Rating: Decent
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for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.
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What a surprise. Liberals can't stand to read something they know is true but disagree with based on personal politics. Keep drinking the kool-aid.

I can only imagine that the truth about gays on that site lies somewhere between "Jesus is a gingerbread man with alcohol for blood" and "A senior citizen built a giant boat to house every animal type in the world"
#204 Aug 05 2010 at 4:18 PM Rating: Default
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Yeah, that's the state right now. So Nothing would change. What are you arguing with this? States have different marriage ages. so? If a state decided to lower it's marriageable age to 12, then 12 year olds could get married, regardless of whether gays could get married or not.


What? We were arguing about the list of people that are still being discriminated against under the aforementioned argument. It was stated that minors aren't excluded because they can't enter contracts, but they are excluded, because we choose to not allow minors based on laws that we created.
#205 Aug 05 2010 at 4:19 PM Rating: Good
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Yeah, that's the state right now. So Nothing would change. What are you arguing with this? States have different marriage ages. so? If a state decided to lower it's marriageable age to 12, then 12 year olds could get married, regardless of whether gays could get married or not.


What? We were arguing about the list of people that are still being discriminated against under the aforementioned argument. It was stated that minors aren't excluded because they can't enter contracts, but they are excluded, because we choose to not allow minors based on laws that we created.


I still have no idea what bearing any of this has on same-sex marriage.

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@alma You had said that my view changed this fundamentally, and I stated that it didn't change anything as far as children. Glad you came around. Took you less posts then normal too.

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I still have no idea what bearing any of this has on same-sex marriage.
None whatsoever, although Alma seemed to think that my rational somehow changed something with it.

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#207 Aug 05 2010 at 4:22 PM Rating: Default
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for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.


Well, you can't include "retardation" as an excuse against incestuous marriage because I'm sure relatives can adopt or have tubed children as well.
#208 Aug 05 2010 at 4:29 PM Rating: Good
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for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.


Well, you can't include "retardation" as an excuse against incestuous marriage because I'm sure relatives can adopt or have tubed children as well.
True enough - at least, you can't without invoking a variant on gbaji's drivel of "the state wants children to be born into wedlock", namely "the state wants those children who are born to not be a drain on their parents due to defects".

To be honest, the state itself doesn't give a shit - the politicians do.
#209 Aug 05 2010 at 4:31 PM Rating: Default
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I still have no idea what bearing any of this has on same-sex marriage.


Uh, it was the argument used for same sex marriage? I said, that's cool as long as you don't mind the inclusion of other groups and the exclusion of other groups. They responded to say that there were no one excluded except for relatives and minors. Gbaji and I responded that there are indeed people still excluded in that argument and preceded to list them.


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@alma You had said that my view changed this fundamentally, and I stated that it didn't change anything as far as children. Glad you came around. Took you less posts then normal too.


?? Can you expound? I don't know what you're talking about..

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None whatsoever, although Alma seemed to think that my rational somehow changed something with it.


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#210 Aug 05 2010 at 4:32 PM Rating: Good
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I said, that's cool as long as you don't mind the inclusion of other groups and the exclusion of other groups.


What do other groups have to do with same-sex marriage?

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A couple who'd like to have their pensions and SS transfer from one to the other, but don't want to have joint custody of children, or have power of attorney over each other, etc. Think outside the box a bit. The marriage contract is pretty darn binding. What if I want to put someone on my health care tax free, but *don't* want to suffer that persons bad credit? I can't do that right now, because in order to get the health care tax exemption I'm required to enter into a contract which requires that my finances be treated the same as hers. Bad credit and all.

It's not as minor an issue as you might think.
People might want this, but since it's not marriage who the @#%^ cares? Why would this change? This isn't a problem


What do you mean by "it's not marriage"? We're talking about a set of criteria which must be met to qualify for government granted benefits. That is the entire issue here.

Those criteria specifically exclude single people. They specifically exclude a whole list of different combinations of people for a whole set of different reasons. It's not like the law says that every person or combination of people in the country can get tax exempt health insurance *except* couples consisting of two people of the same sex. So let's stop pretending that this is all about excluding homosexuals and only homosexuals.

What's the saying? You can lead a horse to water...?

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Of course it does! If three people want to form a marriage, they can't be recognized as such by the government, file their taxes as such, share SS/pensions, gain access to funding programs, etc.
Again we're not talking about more then 2 people. It's a separate issue, with different reasons, and completely irrelevant. This isn't a problem.[/quote]

If you are a polygamist and you want your second wife to be able to get your SS benefits when you die, it absolutely is. WTF? It's not about more than 2 people because you don't want to talk about relationships consisting of more than two people?

Those relationships are excluded from the benefits of marriage. It's absolutely relevant, not matter how much you don't want it to be.

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Nope, and the fact that you cite common law marriage is really telling. It serves no purpose to encourage people to get married, rather it recognizes that they are a unique state and need to be treated differently.


Huh? Common law marriage means that the state treats the couple legally as though they are in a marriage contract even though they never filed one. The point is that the state has a vested interest in getting heterosexual couples to enter into that contract. So much so that we have created a set of benefits for them if they do, and many states simply force them to be in the contract if they simply live together for a period of time.

What it points to is the objective of our marriage laws. They are clearly designed to get couples who are living together as a couple to enter into a legally recognized contract. We can move on to discussing *why* the state has a vested interest in doing that, but you wont even recognize that it does despite overwhelming evidence to the contrary.

I just don't understand how you can hold a position which requires that you so blatantly ignore significant amounts of facts. Don't you start to question your position at some point?

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I'm not sure I've ever seen so many strawmen in one post before.


You apparently don't know what a strawman is. Every single one of those criteria is a discriminatory point with regard to the granting of a marriage license. I didn't invent them, they are in the damn law! How the hell can you deny this? Do I have to quote the relevant statute? Or will you continue to bury your head in the sand even then?
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Uh, it was the argument used for same sex marriage? I said, that's cool as long as you don't mind the inclusion of other groups and the exclusion of other groups. They responded to say that there were no one excluded except for relatives and minors. Gbaji and I responded that there are indeed people still excluded in that argument and preceded to list them.
Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.
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#213 Aug 05 2010 at 4:33 PM Rating: Default
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True enough - at least, you can't without invoking a variant on gbaji's drivel of "the state wants children to be born into wedlock", namely "the state wants those children who are born to not be a drain on their parents due to defects".

To be honest, the state itself doesn't give a **** - the politicians do.


I can't say if the state wants that or not, but if they do, then they can use "retardation" as an excuse, which would also support the ban of same sex marriage. If they do not care, then they can not use "retardation" which doesn't support the ban of same sex marriage.
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for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.


Well, you can't include "retardation" as an excuse against incestuous marriage because I'm sure relatives can adopt or have tubed children as well.

Hm. Good point. I say go for it.
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for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.


Neither do siblings who adopt. What's the point?


After how many of your assumptions fall flat do you realize that maybe you're looking at the whole issue from the wrong angle? It's not about who *can* marry, but about what set of criteria we *reward* for marrying.
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Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.


That's not true, go look again. Even still, there were no valid reasons why relatives or minors should be excluded other than "that's the way it is now"
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gbaji wrote:
Debalic wrote:
for the record, I don't have any objections against polygamy. Incest, though, is more of a problem in regards to procreation. and before you argue incestual procreation vs. homosexual procreation, homosexuals raising an adopted or tubed child doesn't run the risk of functionally retarded inbreeding, like the royal families, or Tennessee.


Neither do siblings who adopt. What's the point?

After how many of your assumptions fall flat do you realize that maybe you're looking at the whole issue from the wrong angle? It's not about who *can* marry, but about what set of criteria we *reward* for marrying.

Anyone who's married. Duh.
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#218 Aug 05 2010 at 4:38 PM Rating: Good
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After how many of your assumptions fall flat do you realize that maybe you're looking at the whole issue from the wrong angle? It's not about who *can* marry, but about what set of criteria we *reward* for marrying.
It shouldn't even be about that.

It should be about "what set of criteria do we reward for having children", if you really want to maximize social benefits from this.
#219 Aug 05 2010 at 4:40 PM Rating: Good
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Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.


That's not true, go look again. Even still, there were no valid reasons why relatives or minors should be excluded other than "that's the way it is now"


Apparently you missed my post, Alma.

Why do any of these other groups matter when we're discussing same-sex marriage? You know, except as a way to distract from the actual issue of same-sex marriage.
#220 Aug 05 2010 at 4:41 PM Rating: Good
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Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.


That's not true, go look again. Even still, there were no valid reasons why relatives or minors should be excluded other than "that's the way it is now"


Apparently you missed my post, Alma.

Why do any of these other groups matter when we're discussing same-sex marriage? You know, except as a way to distract from the actual issue of same-sex marriage.
I think the line of reasoning is "Well, let's see why we disallow it to other groups and, from that, extrapolate out randomly pull out of our *** a reason why we disallow it to the dirty unredeemable gays."
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Uh, it was the argument used for same sex marriage? I said, that's cool as long as you don't mind the inclusion of other groups and the exclusion of other groups. They responded to say that there were no one excluded except for relatives and minors. Gbaji and I responded that there are indeed people still excluded in that argument and preceded to list them.
Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.


GAAAAH!!!

I've said this several times. I'm listing off people and groups who might desire to gain the benefits of marriage, but who are not able to because the state wont grant them to them. I'm talking specifically about the benefits granted by the government. Not the contract you enter into when you get married. Those are technically two different things.

Gay couples can today enter into a marriage contract. But if they do, the state still wont grant them the benefits. In the same way, a pair of siblings could enter into a marriage contract, but the sate wont grant them benefits for doing so either.


Why is this so hard for people to wrap their heads around? There is a contract which you agree to enter when you get married. This includes all the agreements which exist between the parties of the contract. Like shared property, income, power of attorney, inheritance, etc.

There are *also* a set of state granted benefits. Those benefits require that you meet a set of criteria. One of those criteria is that you agree to enter into the contract. Another is that you be a couple. Another is that the couple not consist of two people who are close relations. Another is that both parties be able to enter into the contract. Another is that neither party are already bound by an existing marriage contract. And finally... one of the conditions is that the couple consist of a male and a female.


The criteria which prevents gay couples from gaining access to those state benefits is only one of a list of criteria. This is not my opinion. It's a fact.


If you are to argue that the criteria which excludes gay couples from gaining those benefits is unconstitutional, you have to discover what the purpose of the criteria and benefits are in the first place. The SCotUS test for discrimination is that it is allowable if the discrimination is consistent with the purpose of the law. So it's not unconstitutional to set the voting age at 18 because the intent of the law is to limit it to people who are old enough to make sound decisions about their lives and the world around them, for example. It's also not unconstitutional to create a housing program which targets poor minority neighborhoods if the purpose is to help address disproportionate housing among said groups.

It's not automatically unconstitutional to have discriminatory criteria. You have to examine the law, determine its purpose, and determine if the discriminatory criteria is consistent with that purpose (and if the purpose itself is not unconstitutional of course). A purpose of "encourage children to be born in an environment in which both biological parents are bound by marriage contract" is consistent. It matches all of the criteria in the marriage statute in question. And it absolutely means that not granting said benefits to gay couples is *not* unconstitutional discrimination.


If you can't even noodle out why we have those benefits, then you can't possibly hold an intelligent position on the question at hand. You're literally arguing from a position of ignorance.
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You apparently don't know what a strawman is. Every single one of those criteria is a discriminatory point with regard to the granting of a marriage license. I didn't invent them, they are in the damn law! How the hell can you deny this? Do I have to quote the relevant statute? Or will you continue to bury your head in the sand even then?
They're strawmen because they don't relate to gay marriage. /shrug. You're putting a lot of effort into irrelevant stuff though. I'm not saying you're lying, I'm saying you're bringing up meaningless points to the discussion at hand.

This whole thing started because Alma said my position on what the core of marriage was included tons and tons of new people. You apparently didn't realize this and started listing off all the things that aren't marriage. Great, but I don't care.

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The fundamentals of marriage is that two people enter into a relationship that implies shared property and mutual dependence. This core principle is the same in gay marriage as it is in hetero marriage and so there shouldn't be a distinction. In addition recognition of this type of relationship will help the problems that come with a marginalized segment of society. This alone is worth it.


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That argument supports the union of two people, not just homosexuals. So, if you're for the union of any two people, then go for it. Just don't expect it to get accepted by anyone....


at this point I stated that my concept only might include relatives as a new set of people. My concept certainly doesn't include single people or any of the other meaningless things you've brought up.

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#224 Aug 05 2010 at 4:49 PM Rating: Good
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If you can't even noodle out why we have those benefits, then you can't possibly hold an intelligent position on the question at hand. You're literally arguing from a position of ignorance.


I wonder why you still insist on arguing about it, then.
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Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married.


That's not true, go look again. Even still, there were no valid reasons why relatives or minors should be excluded other than "that's the way it is now"


Apparently you missed my post, Alma.

Why do any of these other groups matter when we're discussing same-sex marriage? You know, except as a way to distract from the actual issue of same-sex marriage.
I think the line of reasoning is "Well, let's see why we disallow it to other groups and, from that, extrapolate out randomly pull out of our *** a reason why we disallow it to the dirty unredeemable gays."


Sigh... No. It's useful to examine other criteria as a means of determining if the criteria which excludes gay couples is specifically targeted at hurting gays, or if it's coincidental to a larger purpose of the law itself. It's also relevant when assessing the "slippery slope" aspect of this issue. If gay couples have a "right" to gain access to those benefits, then why don't all the other excluded groups also have a "right" to them?

The argument for gays getting those benefits is based on the assumption that it violates their rights for them not to. That argument rests on an assumption that marriage benefits themselves are a "fundamental right". And if that is the case, then it should apply to everyone, right?

If you can't make the argument for every single case which is currently excluded, then you have to conclude that those benefits aren't really a "fundamental" or "universal" right. And if that is the case, then they can be restricted without violating the constitution. And if that is true, then we need a better argument for gay couples getting them than just "but it's a right!!!".


Please tell me you understand that?
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They responded to say that there were no one excluded except for relatives and minors. Gbaji and I responded that there are indeed people still excluded in that argument and preceded to list them.

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Except that every group gbaji gave was relatives, minors or people who don't want to be married


Relax gbaji, this wasn't about you, but what Alma specifically said.





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