Almalieque wrote:
Belkira wrote:
Wrong. DADT allows homosexuals to join the military and forces them to either lie about their personal life or keep it completely to themselves. You know that's true, you just want to pretend it isn't.
Wrong. DADT allows homosexuals to join the military and allows them to either behave normally, lie about their personal life, keep it completely to themselves or alter their behavior to "fit in". It doesn't force them to do any one of these things. Each situation is dependent on the person.
What part of "don't tell" do you not get? If you say you are a homosexual, you can get kicked out of the military. If you say you are heterosexual, they cannot kick you out of the military. It's that simple. Again, you know it, you just want to pretend it isn't true. Your problem, not mine.
Almalieque wrote:
If you're just going with the flow, then you have no problem supporting the idea of abandoning the repeal in effort to go about it a more logical way then?
I do have a problem abandoning the repeal. Because there's no point in taking a step backwards in order to cater to you.
Almalieque wrote:
You're absolutely correct, no one is forcing anyone to do anything.
Except the army forcing people not to talk about their personal lives or be kicked out of the military for being gay. You know, the whole point of DADT.
Almalieque wrote:
Just like with equality and fairness, you are purposely trying to use more forceful (no pun intended) words to prove a point when the definition isn't accurate.
No, actually that's what you're doing. Using a less forceful word to pretend that DADT isn't as bad as it is.
Almalieque wrote:
That's exactly the "word game" you're playing by denying the fact that DADT was a positive change from the ban on homosexuality by making it seem as if the outcome is the same.
As you're so fond of saying, "See above."
One of my best friends married an army guy. I can remember her fear while he was in Iraq and how she waited by the phone every night for his phone calls. I introduced them.
After his second deployment, I talked to him about Iraq, and I asked him his thoughts on DADT. He said that he had pictures of his wife up all over and it helped him. He wasn't sure how he'd feel if putting up pictures of his loved one could possibly get him kicked out of the army. He thought it was ridiculous.
He is now in Korea, living on base with his wife. Are you going to try to tell me that, if he were gay, his boyfriend would be welcome to come live on the base with him?