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#177 Aug 05 2010 at 3:36 PM Rating: Excellent
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Medical risks to first generation children are very low. About 1% higher then non related parents, and obviously a lot lower then any number of people who have problematic genetic traits in their background.
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#178 Aug 05 2010 at 3:37 PM Rating: Decent
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Way to obfuscate and diflect. Do you think couples should receive benefits that single people do not? Isn't that a clear violation of the equal protection clause as well?

#179 Aug 05 2010 at 3:38 PM Rating: Decent
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As for relatives, perhaps they should be an exception, perhaps not. There isn't a reason for homosexuals to be an exception though.


Why for one and not the other? Why do we not allow close relatives to marry?


Sure, for all five pairs of siblings that probably would like to marry. Why not?



When I'm old and dying, you have no problem with me marrying a granchild in order to transfer my wealth to him/her without having any taxes paid or going through any sort of estate process?

Think the whole issue through.
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#180 Aug 05 2010 at 3:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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All single people (silly, but I'll include it anyway)
not silly, meaningless.
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All people who don't want to abide by the marriage contract part of marriage
People who don't want to get married don't? What the @#%^ is this supposed to mean.
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All groups of people greater than two.
maybe, but since we're talking about 2 people entering into a relationship, this doesn't seem to apply
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All people who are currently judged incompetent (unable to enter into a contract)
All people who are too young to enter into a contract.
All people who are currently entered into an existing marriage contract.
if you can't enter into a contract you can't, separate issue. not relevant. This also covers toasters btw.
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All people who are relatives
I covered this, and it was my one other group of people, so yes.

So one pretty sketchy possibility. The reasons polygamy isn't allowed is different from the other two, you can't conflate them.

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#181 Aug 05 2010 at 3:40 PM Rating: Excellent
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It's not obfuscation if it's in response to a direct statement - actually a series of direct statements, including some from you.

I'd be okay with doing away with all government financed benefits including tax breaks to all married people, personally; so in that sense, sure, I think singletons and married people should have the same rights.

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#182 Aug 05 2010 at 3:41 PM Rating: Good
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Samy,

Way to obfuscate and diflect.


You looked up obfuscate but not deflect?
#183 Aug 05 2010 at 3:41 PM Rating: Excellent
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gbaji wrote:
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gbaji wrote:
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As for relatives, perhaps they should be an exception, perhaps not. There isn't a reason for homosexuals to be an exception though.


Why for one and not the other? Why do we not allow close relatives to marry?


Sure, for all five pairs of siblings that probably would like to marry. Why not?



When I'm old and dying, you have no problem with me marrying a granchild in order to transfer my wealth to him/her without having any taxes paid or going through any sort of estate process?

Think the whole issue through.


Dude, if you want to spend your twilight years hearing your grandchild pop his/her bubble gum and gossip on the phone with his/her peers, I would never want to deny you that experience.

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#184 Aug 05 2010 at 3:42 PM Rating: Good
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I'd be okay with doing away with all government financed benefits including tax breaks to all married people, personally; so in that sense, sure, I think singletons and married people should have the same rights.


Which is what I said two years ago when this was brought up and guess who didn't want that either?
#185 Aug 05 2010 at 3:43 PM Rating: Excellent
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Kaelesh wrote:
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I'd be okay with doing away with all government financed benefits including tax breaks to all married people, personally; so in that sense, sure, I think singletons and married people should have the same rights.


Which is what I said two years ago when this was brought up and guess who didn't want that either?


It's apparently not on the "liberal talking points" cheat sheet, so it gets ignored.

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#186 Aug 05 2010 at 3:45 PM Rating: Decent
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You said that we should have an exception in the case of relatives, but not in the case of homosexuals. I'm just curious what criteria you were using. That's not unreasonable to ask, is it?
No I didn't, I said that there might be an exception here, and there might not be, and that would be a separate issue.


You're correct. I apologize. However, you still seem ok with granting an exception in that case, but absolutely not in the case of homosexuals. I'd still like to know *why*. We already do know, but I want you to come out and say it.

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Seems more rational to start with what you're trying to accomplish, then target the funds/benefits to the group which meets that goal.
Right that might be a good method if marriage "benefits" were actually trying to accomplish anything. They aren't so it's pretty stupid.


I believe that they are. I'll even go out on a limb and suggest that you only insist that there isn't a purpose for them because you've already taken a position on "gay marriage", and don't want to acknowledge anything that weakens it.

If there is no purpose, then why do the benefits exist?

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My argument does address relatives. Always has. Because the same reason we exclude relatives is relevant to why we exclude gay couples
Your argument has centered around gay couples not being able to have kids by accident. A related couple can easily have a kid by accident so it seems like a different reason to me.


If you accept my position that marriage benefits exist as an incentive to get heterosexual couples to produce children while in a contractual marriage, then not only does the prohibition against close relatives make sense, but *also* the requirement that the couple consist of an adult male and a female.


If it exists for no reason at all, then why have those other restrictions? I'm just saying that it's kinda silly to argue that the restriction against gay couples is unwarranted, if you're utterly unable or unwilling to address why *any* of the restrictions exist. Clearly, you're not really examining the issue very well.
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#187 Aug 05 2010 at 3:45 PM Rating: Decent
Samy,

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Dude, if you want to spend your twilight years hearing your grandchild pop his/her bubble gum and gossip on the phone with his/her peers, I would never want to deny you that experience.


Obfuscating and dEflecting again I see.
#188 Aug 05 2010 at 3:48 PM Rating: Excellent
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So answering a direct question = obfuscation in the Redneck Crackhead Dictionary. So noted.

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I'm too lazy to read the last 88 posts the forum goblins tell me I missed. What point of the gay marriage debate are we up to now?
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#191 Aug 05 2010 at 3:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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I'm too lazy to read the last 88 posts the forum goblins tell me I missed. What point of the gay marriage debate are we up to now?


Gbaji wants to bang his grandson without benefit of clergy.

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#192 Aug 05 2010 at 3:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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Samira wrote:
So answering a direct question = obfuscation in the Redneck Crackhead Dictionary. So noted.

Makes sense, since obfuscation is what they do when asked a direct question.
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#193 Aug 05 2010 at 3:55 PM Rating: Excellent
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Uglysasquatch, Mercenary Major wrote:
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So answering a direct question = obfuscation in the Redneck Crackhead Dictionary. So noted.

Makes sense, since obfuscation is what they do when asked a direct question.


It actually does show a pattern, huh.

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#194 Aug 05 2010 at 3:56 PM Rating: Decent
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All single people (silly, but I'll include it anyway)
not silly, meaningless.


Not at all. There are some federal funds available to married couples, which would absolutely benefit a single person. If as a single person I could qualify for a better FHA loan for example. Remember, I'm talking about the marriage benefits, not "being married". From a legal point of view, what's at issue is a set of benefits which are available to one group of people, but not another.


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All people who don't want to abide by the marriage contract part of marriage
People who don't want to get married don't? What the @#%^ is this supposed to mean.


A couple who'd like to have their pensions and SS transfer from one to the other, but don't want to have joint custody of children, or have power of attorney over each other, etc. Think outside the box a bit. The marriage contract is pretty darn binding. What if I want to put someone on my health care tax free, but *don't* want to suffer that persons bad credit? I can't do that right now, because in order to get the health care tax exemption I'm required to enter into a contract which requires that my finances be treated the same as hers. Bad credit and all.

It's not as minor an issue as you might think.

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All groups of people greater than two.
maybe, but since we're talking about 2 people entering into a relationship, this doesn't seem to apply


Of course it does! If three people want to form a marriage, they can't be recognized as such by the government, file their taxes as such, share SS/pensions, gain access to funding programs, etc.

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All people who are currently judged incompetent (unable to enter into a contract)
All people who are too young to enter into a contract.
All people who are currently entered into an existing marriage contract.
if you can't enter into a contract you can't, separate issue. not relevant.


Absolutely relevant. The issue is about the state funded benefits. I've argued this how many times before and you still don't get that I don't care at all who's *able* to enter into a marriage contract? My position has always been about the funded benefits. That's what affects me, since I'm among the group who has to pay for it.

There are a set of state benefits that are separate from the marriage contract. It's absolutely relevant that you can't get the benefits without agreeing to enter into the contract. In fact, that's a core part of my entire argument. The benefits act as an incentive to get people to enter into the contract. That's why they exist. Heck. That's why many states have common law marriage laws.

The objective is to get people to enter into that contract. Presumably because many people wont otherwise, and there's an advantage to the rest of us if they do. That's why we created a legal status which confers benefits, but which requires that the couple in question agree to be bound by the marriage contract.
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#195Almalieque, Posted: Aug 05 2010 at 3:58 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Emphasis on without parental permission. They still can get married and that age varies from state to state. So please, just give up....
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Jophiel wrote:
I'm too lazy to read the last 88 posts the forum goblins tell me I missed. What point of the gay marriage debate are we up to now?

Slippery slope. Pretty soon gbaji is going to argue for marrying donkeys, or some stupid shit.
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.. I have to say, I can't believe you guys can handle arguing with Varrus and friends on a day to day basis. It is excruciatingly painful for me to read. They violate every logical rule of an argument.


As a Californian resident, I am overjoyed do see this atrocity overturned.
#198Almalieque, Posted: Aug 05 2010 at 4:03 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Exactly.. that is the point.. going along side with what I said earlier about exaggeration. Many people are being discriminated against, so while the overturn may be a big deal, quit acting like the rules of marriage were created and upheld to single out homosexuals.... They were created to leave out many types of people and same sex couples just so happens to be one of them.
#199 Aug 05 2010 at 4:04 PM Rating: Good
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You can't say that we have to exclude minors because of the law, because we make the law and it can change. You're just choosing not to allow minors, just as people are not choosing to allow same sex.
Emphasis on without parental permission. They still can get married and that age varies from state to state.
Yeah, that's the state right now. So Nothing would change. What are you arguing with this? States have different marriage ages. so? If a state decided to lower it's marriageable age to 12, then 12 year olds could get married, regardless of whether gays could get married or not.


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Gbaji already did.
Well he put up a bunch of false strawmen, but sure.

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#200 Aug 05 2010 at 4:05 PM Rating: Good
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All groups of people greater than two.
maybe, but since we're talking about 2 people entering into a relationship, this doesn't seem to apply


Of course it does! If three people want to form a marriage, they can't be recognized as such by the government, file their taxes as such, share SS/pensions, gain access to funding programs, etc.
I want to know why plural marriage is seen as such a bad idea, especially considering that the resulting family unit is more stable despite the prevalence of divorce we already see.

I mean, you've got children there; barring something going seriously wrong (and by "seriously wrong" I mean "more so than can presently occur") you've got at least one male and one female role-model for the children...

Is it just a case of people thinking "this encourages orgies"?
#201 Aug 05 2010 at 4:09 PM Rating: Good
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A couple who'd like to have their pensions and SS transfer from one to the other, but don't want to have joint custody of children, or have power of attorney over each other, etc. Think outside the box a bit. The marriage contract is pretty darn binding. What if I want to put someone on my health care tax free, but *don't* want to suffer that persons bad credit? I can't do that right now, because in order to get the health care tax exemption I'm required to enter into a contract which requires that my finances be treated the same as hers. Bad credit and all.

It's not as minor an issue as you might think.
People might want this, but since it's not marriage who the @#%^ cares? Why would this change? This isn't a problem

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Of course it does! If three people want to form a marriage, they can't be recognized as such by the government, file their taxes as such, share SS/pensions, gain access to funding programs, etc.
Again we're not talking about more then 2 people. It's a separate issue, with different reasons, and completely irrelevant. This isn't a problem.

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The benefits act as an incentive to get people to enter into the contract. That's why they exist. Heck. That's why many states have common law marriage laws.

The objective is to get people to enter into that contract. Presumably because many people wont otherwise, and there's an advantage to the rest of us if they do. That's why we created a legal status which confers benefits, but which requires that the couple in question agree to be bound by the marriage contract.
Nope, and the fact that you cite common law marriage is really telling. It serves no purpose to encourage people to get married, rather it recognizes that they are a unique state and need to be treated differently.

I'm not sure I've ever seen so many strawmen in one post before.

Edited, Aug 5th 2010 5:11pm by Xsarus
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