Belkira wrote:
This case has to do with interracial marriage, not same-sex marriage, so that's all that was decided on. OJ's case didn't go to the Supreme Court.
My point wasn't about the Supreme Court, it was what you all argued to me the past few pages. The point you all drilled in my head that it's not about the truth, but how you argue the point. This ruling that you presented to me supports that claim. Just like it was wrong when the U.S defined black people as a fraction of a person.
So, now you're claiming that the 14th amendment was for race only. So that means, my argument about the Founding Fathers up until now didn't change the law on marriage not because it was tradition, but because they did not want to, does not support the ban on interracial marriage.
How can you claim that it's a "basic civil right" of a man and yet "deny" a man that very own right?
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Yeah. That's called "proof." Or "citation."
Maybe I shouldn't have stressed "you". Your "citation" didn't prove anything. It's like saying "John said it's true, so it's true". That's why I said that I know you're thinking it's the supreme court so therefore it must be true.
Belkira wrote:
But that's not how our court system works. Each case is decided on it's own merits, and according to precedent.
That one case allowed interracial marriage for
all races even though it was really for black and white citizens. This is what you all fail to realize, which is the ONLY reason why I take place in these arguments, providing "freedoms" and "rights" to someone by a flawed argument causes a snowball effect of disaster. Once you break that "a man and a woman union", your argument has to support your preferred group alone.
This is why I differentiated arguing fairness and just saying "it's not fair". The latter is a very poor argument, which is basically what has been presented. It's a poor argument because marriage all together is not fair, so you have to argue on why your scenario is special.
Belkira wrote:
Same-sex marriage seems similar to interracial marriage to me, in that we're talking about single adult human individuals.
Well, you're wrong. Marriage have laws and restrictions between a man and a woman. In interracial marriage, you're denying one man of one color the opportunity to marry another woman of another color. What you're trying to do with SSM is
CHANGE the definition of marriage between "A man and a woman" to your made up definition.
The current law is blind to Billy's race, skin color, religion, political stances,
sexuality, etc. He can marry Joanne as long as they meet all of the other criteria. The problem is the assumption that Billy wants to marry a woman in the first place, not that he is denied the right to marry. That's the difference between treating someone equally and treating them fairly.
How you fail to see that is beyond me.
Belkira wrote:
Incest, bestiality, and polygamy all have their own issues that surround them.
Not based on your arguments for SSM they don't. You all claim that the ban on SSM was simply due to worn out tradition with no merit whatsoever, yet you make this new criteria the same exact way. Every time age is brought up, the response "they can't enter contracts" or something or another comes about. You all hide behind tradition and law to prevent other groups the same "Basic civil right" by using the same tradition that is banning SSM.
The point being in that you can't say that marriage is a "basic civil right" and can not be denied, yet deny it to others and say "well they're different". If you can deny it to other groups of people, then it is no longer a 'basic civil right that can not be denied". Assuming that most people agree to some rules and regulations, your argument for SSM can't simply be because you were left out.
Belkira wrote:
But the point was, you stated that marriage wasn't a right, and that interracial marriage was "equal but unfair." I proved you wrong.
So... where did you admit that you were wrong again...?
I said that I wasn't going to argue the fact that if marriage was a "right" or not, hence the usage of the million quotations, to avoid this argument. Even when I told you that I wasn't arguing against that, you still kept yelling SCOTUS SCOTUS SCOTUS!!!! Now, I probably made a comment 25 pages ago, but recently I repetitively told you that I wasn't going there.
Interracial marriage was equal but unfair. Once again, you haven't proven anything. All you have done was quote someone else saying "It's not equal nor fair". Nothing in that explanation showed how a black man was treated any differently than a white man, you know, the definition of equal. So I guess if the SCOTUS says, "Two people of the same sex does not deserve the right to marry" then you'll accept that and move on? I guess it must be true since the SCOTUS says it. I'm sure that or any other similar ruling would cause an uproar.
As stated in this very own post, you're hiding behind law when it's in your favor but going against it when it's not. That's a failing approach. Everything should be approached by logic as history has shown us that unjust laws have always had their presence.
Edited, Aug 22nd 2010 5:58pm by Almalieque