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#1277 Aug 20 2010 at 10:53 AM Rating: Good
Almalieque wrote:
As for the evidence, there were plenty.

I mathematically shown that BT's statement did indeed call everyone outside of allakhazam stupid when him and another poster claimed that it was only calling me stupid.


Ok, seriously...?

Alma wrote:
I was told that I would be an unethical lawyer based on my views, yet I posted the ethics code which clearly stated otherwise.


Wasn't really paying too much attention to this one, so I can't say either way.


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It was argued that there was really no point where the government "got involved" in marriage because marriage was always common law that carried over from years and years of traditions. Posters argued that there was no one event after the revolution when the US evaluated their rights and laws. I responded with the U.S constitution, more importantly the Bill of Rights. Their response was "you know Zero about your history". I could have sworn your argument was to fight for the "right" to get married. I guess that was a different kind of right, huh?


Yes, this seems silly. Really, it does. It has been proven time and again that marriage is a right. I, myself, posted a bunch of SCOTUS rulings that showed that it is a right. (ETA: Not in this thread, but in one of the myraid others we've had on the topic in here.) Marriage wasn't one of the things we were leaving Britain for, so it wasn't really examined. That was explained over and over again.

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You, yourself, argued that "love" was the deciding factor of a sham marriage, yet all of your sources left out that word. I argued that it wasn't love, but fulfilling the marriage role and your own definition supported that by saying something similar to "living as husband and wife".


Yeah, that one was a gem. I wasn't wrong, by the way. I was just using a generally accepted term instead of spelling out "living as a husband and wife." This was one of those cases where you knew exactly what I was talking about and that I was right, but you decided to play the semantics game and pretend you didn't understand. For the record, there was no evidence that you supplied.

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When I asked you if you would support mandated divorces for loveless marriages since that would make them sham marriages, you responded that you were only referring to people entering a marriage. I later pointed out that your own definition of "sham marriage" used the word "intends" which is future tense. This is because traditional couples do not interact the same way before marriage as they do when they get married. You failed to address that.


Yes. Intends, as in, "Getting married with the intention of living as husband and wife, not for any other benefit." This is just another case of you knowing what we are talking about, but trying to play "gotcha." I didn't address that because it is futile. I'm pissed off at myself for even addressing it now, to be honest.

Alma wrote:
Seriously, I can go on and on. The truth of the matter is, people don't like me and partly because of that, they refuse to acknowledge being proven wrong in anything.


No, people don't like you much, but you aren't really proving anyone wrong. You very, very rarely provide any citations on anything and seem to be only posting your personal views.

Edited, Aug 20th 2010 11:54am by Belkira
#1278 Aug 20 2010 at 10:57 AM Rating: Default
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No that one was responded to, and you decided to ignore it. It was explained how the US didn't actually do a detailed review of all the common law that existed, but you insist this happened. In the face of willful ignorance, people are just going to give up. It was also clearly explained that gay marriage wasn't at this point banned, but you ignored that too.


False.. my point was that the US did a review on common laws and people rights, rather if it were a 100% review or not, it doesn't matter. I stated that if people cared about SSM as much as they did other topics such as "Taxation without representation", then it would have been addressed. The simple fact that it wasn't addressed (which is just an assumption) or changed was because people didn't care and accepted the common law as a unity between a man and a woman.

Because of this, you can not argue the current law ONLY exists because it was a common law that carried over through years and years of tradition. Doing the time when the U.S constitution was written, common laws and people's rights were addressed, if the law of marriage stayed the same, it was because the US wanted it to stay the same. If there were no rebellion and constitution, you could argue tradition, but that isn't the case, so you were wrong.

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You were actually pretty good with this, in that you admitted early on that you weren't aware of some of the rules around this. However you seemed to argue that personally you'd still feel troubled to represent someone you found out was guilty. People tried to explain how the right to a good defense was what made a "good" lawyer rather then only defending innocent people, but you just brushed them away. Now I'll admit here, that with your tendency to argue side points, it's often hard to figure out your core position, so it could be you were just being misunderstood, as at first you seemed to get it before straying away.


There was zero confusion expressed during the conversation between me and catwho. The confusion didn't occur till other posters got involved. I addressed that confusion to clearly state that I would represent a guilty person, but not to get a "not guilty" verdict. That goes back to the original statement of me making that differentiation between the sentence above and defending a guilty person for a "not guilty" verdict. My moral dilemma rested with the latter not the former.

In the possibility of finding out during the trial that your client is guilty, I stated that "you win some and you lose some" in reference of predetermining someone's guilt correctly. I also stated that as a public defender, that I agreed to the aforementioned responsibilities and that you should do your job willfully to the best of your abilities. This means supporting a guilty person. BT stated that the sentence was irrelevant and unrelated.
#1279 Aug 20 2010 at 10:59 AM Rating: Excellent
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Because of this, you can not argue the current law ONLY exists because it was a common law that carried over through years and years of tradition. Doing the time when the U.S constitution was written, common laws and people's rights were addressed, if the law of marriage stayed the same, it was because the US wanted it to stay the same. If there were no rebellion and constitution, you could argue tradition, but that isn't the case, so you were wrong.
This is wrong. You can see joph's last post for a short explanation. This is what I'm talking about. If you're going to be willfully ignorant, and then insist based on some made up rule that reality doesn't matter, then it's not worth discussing with you.
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#1280 Aug 20 2010 at 11:21 AM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:
Doing the time when the U.S constitution was written, common laws and people's rights were addressed, if the law of marriage stayed the same, it was because the US wanted it to stay the same.

No, it's because they had no desire to change it. Which isn't the same thing.

There was no active choice, just passive agreement with the common law derived status quo.

Edited, Aug 20th 2010 12:21pm by Jophiel
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#1281 Aug 20 2010 at 11:25 AM Rating: Good
Jophiel wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
Doing the time when the U.S constitution was written, common laws and people's rights were addressed, if the law of marriage stayed the same, it was because the US wanted it to stay the same.

No, it's because they had no desire to change it. Which isn't the same thing.

There was no active choice, just passive agreement with the common law derived status quo.

Edited, Aug 20th 2010 12:21pm by Jophiel


Also: Alma is making an excellent argument for why interracial marriage should still be illegal.
#1282 Aug 20 2010 at 11:25 AM Rating: Default
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Belkira wrote:
Ok, seriously...?


Yes, seriously.... The fact that people refuse to admit to something so small and irrelevant speaks volumes.

Belkira wrote:
Yes, this seems silly. Really, it does. It has been proven time and again that marriage is a right. I, myself, posted a bunch of SCOTUS rulings that showed that it is a right. (ETA: Not in this thread, but in one of the myraid others we've had on the topic in here.) Marriage wasn't one of the things we were leaving Britain for, so it wasn't really examined. That was explained over and over again.


If marriage is a right, then why wasn't SSM addressed in the Bill of Rights? The point still remains that marriage wasn't altered because the people accepted the definition of marriage to be between a man and a woman. The constitution wasn't written to solely address the taxation without representation. The constitution was the result of the revolution, it was written to set the foundation of the relationship between the government and the citizens, defining their rights as citizens.

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Yeah, that one was a gem. I wasn't wrong, by the way. I was just using a generally accepted term instead of spelling out "living as a husband and wife." This was one of those cases where you knew exactly what I was talking about and that I was right, but you decided to play the semantics game and pretend you didn't understand. For the record, there was no evidence that you supplied.


You weren't just using a generally accepted term instead of spelling it out. I made the argument that the discrimination was equal because any man regardless of sexuality had the same restrictions as the next man. You countered (with a good attempt I may add) that it wasn't equal because a homosexual person would not be able to marry at all because if s/he married someone of the opposite sex, it would be a sham marriage. You argued that there would be no love involved and it would simply be for the benefits, making it a sham marriage. If you had actually meant "living as husband and wife", you wouldn't have made the argument that it is illegal for a homosexual person to marry, because you know that a homosexual person can marry someone of the opposite sex and live as husband and wife. You were focusing on the point that there was no love involved.

Belkira wrote:
Yes. Intends, as in, "Getting married with the intention of living as husband and wife, not for any other benefit." This is just another case of you knowing what we are talking about, but trying to play "gotcha." I didn't address that because it is futile. I'm pissed off at myself for even addressing it now, to be honest.


The marriage benefits are incentives for people to get married. I would argue that there are many married people who love each other who mainly got married for the benefits. As long as you meet the criterion of "living as husband and wife" it doesn't matter what your motives are. Sham marriages usually have planned divorces or separate lives, which doesn't fall under the "living as husband and wife".

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No, people don't like you much, but you aren't really proving anyone wrong. You very, very rarely provide any citations on anything and seem to be only posting your personal views.


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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Also: Alma is making an excellent argument for why interracial marriage should still be illegal.

Alma is making an excellent argument for why marriage between his parents should have been illegal.
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#1284 Aug 20 2010 at 11:37 AM Rating: Excellent
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Almalieque wrote:
If marriage is a right, then why wasn't SSM addressed in the Bill of Rights?

I've skipped large swaths of this thread (and am a better person for it) but the original argument here was why government is involved in marriage and the reasoning that the US government is involved in marriage largely because it derived from a parent system in which the government was involved in marriage.

The whole thing about Constitutional rights is a different debate entirely and actually has less to do with the initial writing of the document than it does review of the Constitution after the fact.

This is why people aren't bothering.
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Wow. Regular ol' Joph fan club in here.
#1285 Aug 20 2010 at 11:41 AM Rating: Good
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Belkira wrote:
Ok, seriously...?


Yes, seriously.... The fact that people refuse to admit to something so small and irrelevant speaks volumes.


Smiley: facepalm

Alma wrote:
If marriage is a right, then why wasn't SSM addressed in the Bill of Rights? The point still remains that marriage wasn't altered because the people accepted the definition of marriage to be between a man and a woman. The constitution wasn't written to solely address the taxation without representation. The constitution was the result of the revolution, it was written to set the foundation of the relationship between the government and the citizens, defining their rights as citizens.


Again. They did not address marriage because it wasn't one of their concerns. Since 1776, the fact that marriage is a right has been established. It has been ruled on by the SCOTUS. You can argue until you're blue in the face, it won't matter. So, once again, the only person not admitting he's wrong here is you.

Alma wrote:
You weren't just using a generally accepted term instead of spelling it out. I made the argument that the discrimination was equal because any man regardless of sexuality had the same restrictions as the next man. You countered (with a good attempt I may add) that it wasn't equal because a homosexual person would not be able to marry at all because if s/he married someone of the opposite sex, it would be a sham marriage. You argued that there would be no love involved and it would simply be for the benefits, making it a sham marriage. If you had actually meant "living as husband and wife", you wouldn't have made the argument that it is illegal for a homosexual person to marry, because you know that a homosexual person can marry someone of the opposite sex and live as husband and wife. You were focusing on the point that there was no love involved.


Yes, I would've agrued the same. They are not living as man and wife, they are getting married for some benefit. Which was the whole point, but, again, you want to focus on something completely unrelated and pretend you "won."

Alma wrote:
The marriage benefits are incentives for people to get married. I would argue that there are many married people who love each other who mainly got married for the benefits. As long as you meet the criterion of "living as husband and wife" it doesn't matter what your motives are. Sham marriages usually have planned divorces or separate lives, which doesn't fall under the "living as husband and wife".


A homosexual person marrying someone of the opposite sex would be living a seperate life from their spouse. Because they are not in a relationship with them. That seperate life would mostly involve spending their time with someone that they did love and have an emotional relationship with. Sham marriages do not always have planned divorces, but even if it did, that wouldn't matter. If I fell in love with my husband but knew he would be leaving the country at the age of 55 and we decided to get married at 25 to live together for 30 years then get a divorce so he could go wherever he wanted and start a new life, that wouldn't be a sham marriage. I don't understand why you're being so stubborn about this, and there is no evidence that you are showing that would prove me wrong. You know that sham marriages are illegal, and you know that a homosexual would not be interested in marrying someone of the opposite sex unless they could get some benefit out of it.

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Belkira wrote:
No, people don't like you much, but you aren't really proving anyone wrong. You very, very rarely provide any citations on anything and seem to be only posting your personal views.


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Sure. But you're the one ******** because no one will "admit" that they are wrong.
#1286 Aug 20 2010 at 11:45 AM Rating: Good
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I never knew - twenty states allow for marriage between first cousins.
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Almalieque wrote:
The marriage benefits are incentives

Wrong. Benefits were a reaction to people getting married. They have never been devised as a means to encourage people to marry.

I challenge anyone to find me evidence, real evidence (quotes by active parties, legislative record, etc) not "It's obvious!" evidence, of a benefit which was enacted with the primary purpose of promoting marriage.
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Jophiel wrote:
Almalieque wrote:
The marriage benefits are incentives

Wrong. Benefits were a reaction to people getting married. They have never been devised as a means to encourage people to marry.

I challenge anyone to find me evidence, real evidence (quotes by active parties, legislative record, etc) not "It's obvious!" evidence, of a benefit which was enacted with the primary purpose of promoting marriage.
Free sex (it's obvious).

Edit - free sex WHENEVER you want it!



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#1289 Aug 20 2010 at 12:41 PM Rating: Excellent
Elinda wrote:
Free sex (it's obvious).

Edit - free sex WHENEVER you want it!


Except for a handful of days out of the month, unless you're into that particular kink.
#1290 Aug 20 2010 at 12:47 PM Rating: Decent
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Elinda wrote:
Free sex (it's obvious).

Edit - free sex WHENEVER you want it!


Except for a handful of days out of the month, unless you're into that particular kink.


You know, for someone who writes **** you've got a pretty limited conception of sex. There's far more than just one kink which avoids this problem.
#1291 Aug 20 2010 at 12:51 PM Rating: Excellent
True, true, I wasn't thinking very broadly.

Hey, that's one advantage of M/M marriage - they don't have that problem.
#1292 Aug 20 2010 at 12:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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No, but the santorum more than makes up for it.

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#1293 Aug 20 2010 at 12:59 PM Rating: Good
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No, but the santorum more than makes up for it.
I had to look that up. That's gross. Anyways ******** while menstruating is no big deal. Just put a towel under you. Most men are happy to deal with a bloodied wiener.
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#1294 Aug 20 2010 at 1:00 PM Rating: Good
Personally, when I'm on my period I feel boated and achy and not exactly sexy or in the mood most of the time.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Personally, when I'm on my period I feel boated and achy and not exactly sexy or in the mood most of the time.

This isn't about women.

We're still allowed to be sexist, right?
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#1296 Aug 20 2010 at 1:03 PM Rating: Good
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Personally, when I'm on my period I feel boated and achy and not exactly sexy or in the mood most of the time.


See? No concept of romance. You're killing your husband you know.
#1297 Aug 20 2010 at 1:11 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Personally, when I'm on my period I feel boated and achy and not exactly sexy or in the mood most of the time.


See? No concept of romance. You're killing your husband you know.


Just because I don't want to have sex doesn't mean he doesn't get anything.

Also: it would be nice if a guy would help a lady out when he's not in the mood. Oddly enough, it doesn't seem to work that way, though.
#1298 Aug 20 2010 at 1:14 PM Rating: Good
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Kaelesh wrote:
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Personally, when I'm on my period I feel boated and achy and not exactly sexy or in the mood most of the time.


See? No concept of romance. You're killing your husband you know.


Just because I don't want to have sex doesn't mean he doesn't get anything.

Also: it would be nice if a guy would help a lady out when he's not in the mood. Oddly enough, it doesn't seem to work that way, though.


Not in the mood? What is he, gay?
#1299 Aug 20 2010 at 1:20 PM Rating: Excellent
He just looked up what santorum is.
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Also: it would be nice if a guy would help a lady out when he's not in the mood.

Knock yourself out just so long as you're not blocking the TV.
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#1301 Aug 20 2010 at 1:27 PM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Also: it would be nice if a guy would help a lady out when he's not in the mood. Oddly enough, it doesn't seem to work that way, though.


Not in the mood? What is he, gay?


Seriously. I've never even heard of this.
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