Xsarus wrote:
It's an unjustified restriction.
Ok, that's a start, now you have to validate it. I'm not saying it isn't, but simply saying it is, even if it is, isn't efficient. You have to actually support it.
Xsarus wrote:
Sure, if we were actually debating that. We're not. We're debating SSM.
/woooosh..
Seriously, the point wasn't about that debate, but the argument used. That's the point you are missing. It doesn't matter what you're arguing for or against, your arguments have to support it. You can't say some blanket argument as "it isn't fair" or "it isn't right" without any supporting claims because that would hold true for everything.
Xsarus wrote:
Try again. Take marriage, you can marry whoever you want. Then you add restrictions. There are different restrictions for a variety of reasons. If you can't find a reason to disallow SSM then it should be legal. What's the reason SSM shouldn't be allowed?
Why do you keep asking me why it shouldn't be allowed when I keep telling that I'm not arguing for/against SSM, but against poor arguments such as "it's an unjustified restriction"
Besides, you're going about this all the wrong way. It isn't the opponents job to show why it should be illegal, but the proponents to show why it should be legal. You're on the defense and your goal should be to turn the tables on your opponents and make them play defense.
Jophiel wrote:
Demea wrote:
Furthermore, what does the American Revolution in the 18th century have to do with (soon to be) unlawful discrimination based on sexual orientation in the 21st century?
From what I can gather, that was when the Founding Fathers decided to re-write all the marriage laws because we were rebelling. Or something.
The argument was made that there is no "overriding theme" because marriage was naturally inherent to our laws through so many hundreds of years through many different cultures.
I countered to say that the US is fairly new and had a very historical moment in time where the country was redefining itself, making it different from the rest of the world, i.e The whole Bill of Rights thing, which was first introduced only a few years after the Revolutionary War.
If the people had a problem with the way marriage was handled, i.e same sex marriage, it would have been handled then. You can't hide behind the "old social marriage tradition" when you are literally redefining peoples' rights. By them not addressing it, means they approved of it and they had a reason even if it's as trivial as "that seems 'right' ". To claim otherwise is contradictory to their actions of creating citizen rights.