catwho wrote:
My marriage license form was 1 page long. I filled it out in two minutes. Our certificate is a single page, and printed out on fake parchment, I guess in case we wanted to frame it or something. Our license was only half a page long, and the judge kept it afterward, to file it away in a cabinet someplace in the back.
Our mortgage from last January was approximately 40 pages long, with another 20-30 pages of supplemental documents, and many things in triplicate. Two agents and a banker were involved, as well as one lawyer. It took us two hours to go over everything during closing. They gave us a really nice, legal document size maroon folio to keep everything in.
Not the same.
Some brief Googling suggests that getting married in CA is pretty much the same as it is in IL and where ever it is Catwho is from. You get yourself a license by filling out a
brief form, which gets you your marriage license. The marriage license is a
single page affair which is just the info you filled out on the application in printed up form. You take that with you when you get married and it's signed by the two folks getting married, the officiant and a witness and it's sent back to the county clerk's office. They register it and bada-bing-bada-boom you're married. They send you a nice "Certificate of Marriage" to put in your scrap book and that's it.
You're not signing a "contract" and it sure as hell isn't anything like a mortgage. The take-away here is that Gbaji doesn't know what the fu
ck he's talking about but is more than happy to make it up as he goes along to "help" his case. Now we get the "That's not important!" which is Gbaji's way of saying "I know I'm absolutely wrong but I'll never have the balls to admit it" which is a nice companion to "You never told me this! (
except for all those times you did but if I keep insisting you didn't then I don't have to admit you're right)".
Edit: I had a lovely embedded link to the San Diego county office saying what you needed to do but it was in .aspx format which the board software won't allow into a url tag. http://arcc.co.san-diego.ca.us/arcc/services/marriage_licenses.aspx
Edited, Aug 7th 2010 9:49am by Jophiel