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#402 Aug 06 2010 at 1:21 PM Rating: Good
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• The etiology of homosexual attraction is determined by a combination of familial, environmental, and social influences. For some individuals the inheritance of predisposing personality traits may also play a role. So they admit it?
• While homosexual attraction may not be a conscious choice, it is changeable for many individuals. Why should it be changed? Particularly if it's not a choice?
• Declaring and validating a student’s same-sex attraction during the adolescent years is premature and may be harmful. So is denying it. Let them figure it out on their own.
• Many youth with homosexual attractions have experienced a troubled upbringing, including sexual abuse, and are in need of therapy. Has this person ever been to New York or LA?
• The homosexual lifestyle carries grave health risks. Blatantly false.
• Sexual reorientation therapy can be effective. Students and parents should be aware of all therapeutic options. lol "curing teh gay."
• There is no evidence that pro-homosexual programs, such as on-campus student clubs, ease the health disorders of homosexual youth. Health disorders?
• The Just the Facts brochure is based upon statements of endorsement of adolescent homosexuality by coalition organizations, and not upon citations of evidence-based research. Yes, and this is a shining example of peer-reviewed work.
#403 Aug 06 2010 at 1:22 PM Rating: Decent
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Hatemongers?

Oh yeah well you support murdering babies.


Woah, woah...back up your ****** train of thought. Please show where I have EVER stated that I am Pro-Abortion. This is not the time nor the place to discuss that but I will simply say that while I feel abortions should be legal for the safety of the mother (where the birth could kill her, and so that she doesn't try sticking a wire coat hanger up her vag), and in rape cases.

Personally I am Pro-Life. However, being that I'm neither a woman, or going to get one pregnant, my view is absolutely unnecessary.

You're a ****, so you're a liberal, so you parttake in recreational baby-murdering. It's a logical deduction.
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#404 Aug 06 2010 at 2:19 PM Rating: Good
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Hey Varus, I understand. There are people out there that are full of hate and ignorance. They want nothing more than to shape and mold you into something that you do not want to be. I want to let you know that I understand. If you need to talk about any feelings that you have been repressing and hiding from the world just toss me a message. What would be said will stay between the two of us. I know there are people on this forum that would use that information against you just to humiliate you and I want you to know that I would not do that.

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PS: You don't have to send me a message right away. Take your time, I will be here when you need me. :)
#405 Aug 06 2010 at 2:34 PM Rating: Decent
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Some Douches, Inc. wrote:
• The etiology of homosexual attraction is determined by a combination of familial, environmental, and social influences. For some individuals the inheritance of predisposing personality traits may also play a role. So they admit it?
• While homosexual attraction may not be a conscious choice, it is changeable for many individuals. Why should it be changed? Particularly if it's not a choice?
• Declaring and validating a student’s same-sex attraction during the adolescent years is premature and may be harmful. So is denying it. Let them figure it out on their own.
• Many youth with homosexual attractions have experienced a troubled upbringing, including sexual abuse, and are in need of therapy. Has this person ever been to New York or LA?
• The homosexual lifestyle carries grave health risks. Blatantly false.
• Sexual reorientation therapy can be effective. Students and parents should be aware of all therapeutic options. lol "curing teh gay."
• There is no evidence that pro-homosexual programs, such as on-campus student clubs, ease the health disorders of homosexual youth. Health disorders?
• The Just the Facts brochure is based upon statements of endorsement of adolescent homosexuality by coalition organizations, and not upon citations of evidence-based research. Yes, and this is a shining example of peer-reviewed work.


I haven't kept up with this thread, so I'm not sure if the comments in bold are yours or copied from somewhere else, but I have an issue with the statement in red. According to a CDC report from 2006:

MSM = "men who have sex with men"

- MSM account for nearly half of the more than one million people living with HIV in the U.S. (48%, or an estimated 532,000 total persons).

- MSM account for more than half of all new HIV infections in the U.S. each year (53%, or an estimated 28,700 infections).

- While CDC estimates that MSM account for just 4 percent of the U.S. male population aged 13 and older, the rate of new HIV diagnoses among MSM in the U.S. is more than 44 times that of other men (range: 522–989 per 100,000 MSM vs. 12 per 100,000 other men).

- MSM is the only risk group in the U.S. in which new HIV infections are increasing. While new infections have declined among both heterosexuals and injection drug users, the annual number of new HIV infections among MSM has been steadily increasing since the early 1990s.

I can't speak to the general health risks of homosexual intercourse between men, but there's obviously something different about AIDS specifically and there's most definitely an increased risk of contracting it if you're a "MSM". We could speculate all day as to why,

And that risk isn't exactly declining, either.

Sorry, but it's one statistic that actually adds up. To deny it is not only ignorant, but potentially dangerous.
#406Almalieque, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 2:34 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) LOL... this is a gem...
#407 Aug 06 2010 at 2:43 PM Rating: Good
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Almalieque wrote:
That's why Mdenham and I separated the question into two different questions to reduce confusion.

1. Double vs Single
2. Different sex couple (regardless of sexuality) vs same sex couple (regardless of sexuality)

You agree that two has inherently advantages over one, so you should also agree that a male and a female has inherently advantages over two males or two females. Of course you wont, but you should to be consistent.
No, I definitely shouldn't have to agree that a male and a female have an inherent advantage over two males or two females when it comes to parenting. Why would I need to?

Try to think of why two parents are better than one. Protip: It has nothing to do with the gender of anyone.
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#408Almalieque, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 3:05 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) You're missing the point.. The reason why two good parents are better than one good parent, has nothing to do with sex or sexuality, neither does it have anything to do with the comparison of two different sexes vs same sex. It is a completely different comparison, that is why we separated the two earlier.
#409 Aug 06 2010 at 3:12 PM Rating: Good
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There was nothing you stated above that had any relevance to what I was saying, unless you're trying to claim that two same-sex parents are worse for the child than a single parent.


I'm not trying to be funny, but read above.

You responded to say "yes" to all 4 questions, which means that you believe a single parent has inherent more or same advantages as a couple, etc.
Obviously one of us misread the questions, then, and I'm pretty sure it's not me.

Answering "yes" to all four questions means that my opinion is that an opposite-sex couple is better than a same-sex couple, which is better than a single parent.
#410Almalieque, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 3:14 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) If that is the case, then I misread the question and was wrong... Too lazy to go back and read it, I'll just take your word for it. As long as we agree..
#411 Aug 06 2010 at 3:35 PM Rating: Decent
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Since studies on the subject indicate yes, yes. Of course, you can come in here and make sh*t up with no actual evidence behind it about how important it is to have a role model living at home of both genders, but until actual facts support it you can't be surprised when no one listens.


So, you're claiming that men and women are biologically equal? Really.. wow that completely contradicts Biology, but it that's the argument that you're using to support same sex marriage or same sex child raising, then it must be true, else, that makes you a homophobe...

No? Are you @#%^ing retarded? I didn't say anything remotely similar to that. I said that a same-sex couple is just as good at raising children as a heterosexual couple. Where the @#%^ you came up with something like this is beyond me. Did Allegory's thread tempt you into trying some salvia of your own?

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That was never my argument. I stated that there are inherent advantages of having two dedicated good and different sexes raising you as opposed to the same sex. Society proves that to be true.

Society hasn't proven sh*t, and neither have you. You're pulling a gbaji, just rushing in and yelling "IT'S ALL TRUE!!!" with nothing to back it up. How has society remotely proven this? Do you have even the slightest shred of evidence?

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Besides, just because you read it somewhere, doesn't make it legit. I read in my sociology class that it was wrong for a woman to want to be a house wife.

Well, if you read blogs and forums about these things instead of, say, peer-reviewed scientific studies, then yes, I suppose that's right. The studies might not be infallible, but they're sure as hell a better basis to argue from than "hurr durr society prooooves it!"

Edited, Aug 6th 2010 4:35pm by Majivo
#412Almalieque, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 4:30 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Even peer-reviewed scientific studies are biased. As I mentioned in this thread, you can find a scientific article that contradicts any scientific article that I may come up with..
#413 Aug 06 2010 at 5:44 PM Rating: Default
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that they are legally considered bound by a state marriage contract,


You automatically loose every argument about this because you don't even understand that there IS NO SUCH THING as a "state marriage contract".


Of course there is. There are two broad types of marriage:

1. Statutory Marriage. In this case, you sign a marriage license application. By doing so (and assuming it's accepted), you are agreeing to a marriage contract managed by state law.

2. Common law Marriage. In this case, you may write up your own contract or have none at all. The main difference is that the state only grants certain benefits tied to "marriage" to statutory marriages.


Some states have passed special common law marriage laws which treat anyone living in a common law marriage condition as legally bound by the statutory marriage contract, even if they've never signed one, and even if they don't want to sign one. The act of living together as spouses for a period of time is assumed to be agreement to the contract.


The idea that the states don't have and maintain a marriage contract is just silly. Marriage, in the legal sense, is a contract. A marriage managed by the state in which you don't write your own contract has to have some contract involved. Where do you think that comes from? I'm not sure how you can even intelligently discuss the issue of gay marriage if you don't understand what's involved when you apply for a marriage license.


And for the record, I never once said that a couple sits down and signs a massive contract that's the same size as a mortgage. I said that they do fill out a sheaf of papers when filing for a marriage license (in California, it's a good 15 pages or so), and that this counts legally as signing a much larger contract. The contract itself is maintained via statute though.

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Seriously, you once argued that it was a large stack of papers people had to sign.


No. I said you have to sign a stack of papers, and that this resulted in your agreeing to a contract which was much much bigger (more like the size of a mortgage, which might have been where the confusion came from). That's somehow been morphed into something completely different though. I know it's easier to just dismiss my positions by making fun of irrelevant side points, but none of that changes the fact that marriages are contracts. When you sign a marriage license with the state, you are entering into a contract which is managed by the state.


But... As many people have pointed out, this isn't what marriage is about. Yet, somehow, when that's the only thing being denied to gay couples, not having it is considered to prevent them from being able to marry. It never ceases to amaze me how inconsistent the arguments are.
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Hey, I used my "Can Do" attitude and found a quote from that thread which is good enough for government work since it contained the money quote:
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While I'll admit to not having gotten married myself, I've been involved in several of them (Large extended family in town). Every single one has involved a stack of paperwork roughly equivalent to that involved in signing a mortgage. Now, maybe things are radically different in Illinois, but here in California, you most definitely sign what can only be described as a "contract", as part of the process of getting married. It must be signed and filed with the county office before your marriage is "legal" (meaning before you can do things like file your taxes jointly, open joint checking accounts, change your name(s), etc...).


Bolding, and laughter, mine.

Edited, Aug 6th 2010 7:07pm by Jophiel
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#416 Aug 06 2010 at 6:08 PM Rating: Default
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Personally, I think this entire line of reasoning is irrelevant and silly. The state isn't preventing anyone from raising their own children and nothing in prop8 has any effect on any of this.

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There are advantages of having two good parents over one one good parent, but that doesn't mean that a child can't be raised properly by one good parent.


That's just meaningless though, regardless of who's saying it or why. It's like saying "There are advantages to getting bald tires replaced before going on a long trip, but that doesn't mean that you wont be able to make it on the bald ones". Odds are you're better off doing one instead of the other. And statistically speaking children are going to do better in a household with two parents than with just one.

And yeah, there are reams of data showing that having both male and female role models (especially parents) provides an additional advantage in terms of result for children. Sure, this doesn't mean that children raised by a same sex couple can't be perfectly fine, but as I pointed out earlier, that's an irrelevant counter argument.
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#417Almalieque, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 6:15 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) You're absolutely correct. It wasn't meant as a counter argument. Some how there was a tangent and I'm simply arguing because they refuse to admit to anything that I say. I even stated to, I believe to Belkira, that there is no relevance between this and prop 8, but the argument was brought up and I'm arguing it.
#418 Aug 06 2010 at 7:39 PM Rating: Default
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Every single one has involved a stack of paperwork roughly equivalent to that involved in signing a mortgage. Now, maybe things are radically different in Illinois, but here in California, you most definitely sign what can only be described as a "contract", as part of the process of getting married. It must be signed and filed with the county office before your marriage is "legal" (meaning before you can do things like file your taxes jointly, open joint checking accounts, change your name(s), etc...).


Yeah. "Roughtly equivalent to that involved", not "identical in size". I was talking about the format of the pages. Just like with a mortgage (or any other contract), you have multiple pages, each with some aspect of the contract, which you have to carefully sign and initial at various places.

That's what I was talking about. I have seen marriages with easily 15-20 pages to sign, but that was not and never was the point. The point was that it most definitely was a "contract". What's amazing is that you seized on a completely irrelevant aspect of my statement, blew it out of proportion and years later still think it's somehow relevant.

It's a contact. That's what you're signing when you sign an application for a marriage license. Even if you aren't aware of it, that is what you're doing.
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I'll point out that I'm *still* waiting for someone to actually present an alternative state objective for the creation of a set of marriage benefits. As I pointed out yesterday, that's the test the court will almost certainly use to determine the constitutionality of the criteria at question.


Everything else is irrelevant.
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I'll point out that I'm *still* waiting for someone to actually present an alternative state objective for the creation of a set of marriage benefits.

Aside from the obvious flaws in assuming off the bat that such an objective even exists, people have. You just ignore the threads once your arguments are torn apart.

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As I pointed out yesterday, that's the test the court will almost certainly use to determine the constitutionality of the criteria at question.

No, it's not. You're simply delusional.
#421 Aug 06 2010 at 8:42 PM Rating: Default
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Majivo,

Just to let you know, I responded to your post, it was sub-defaulted... not sure if you have the filter on or not..
#422 Aug 06 2010 at 9:03 PM Rating: Excellent
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I must not really be married. I didn't sign some big contract. Just one sheet of paper. Oh, and a book. Where they make everyone sign. It's kind of like the book at a funeral home. Coincidence??
#423gbaji, Posted: Aug 06 2010 at 9:07 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) I quoted a relevant case in which the judge outlined the test I speak of. And you counter with ad hominem. Why am I not surprised?
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As I pointed out yesterday, that's the test the court will almost certainly use to determine the constitutionality of the criteria at question.

You have such a sterling record of predicting court actions so far, too!
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No. People ignore the question, and then a page later when I ask again, they insist that they already have.

Are you just saying this to try to convince yourself? Because I don't think anyone else would agree with you. Maybe ThiefX.

But you keep on stamping your feet and insisting that it never happened! That's almost as good as it never happening at all! And comical!

Edited, Aug 6th 2010 10:37pm by Jophiel
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#425 Aug 06 2010 at 10:04 PM Rating: Good
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Majivo,

Just to let you know, I responded to your post, it was sub-defaulted... not sure if you have the filter on or not..

I saw it, I just have no desire to continue such a pointless and convoluted argument.
#426 Aug 06 2010 at 10:31 PM Rating: Excellent
My marriage license form was 1 page long. I filled it out in two minutes. Our certificate is a single page, and printed out on fake parchment, I guess in case we wanted to frame it or something. Our license was only half a page long, and the judge kept it afterward, to file it away in a cabinet someplace in the back.

Our mortgage from last January was approximately 40 pages long, with another 20-30 pages of supplemental documents, and many things in triplicate. Two agents and a banker were involved, as well as one lawyer. It took us two hours to go over everything during closing. They gave us a really nice, legal document size maroon folio to keep everything in.

Not the same.
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