His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
KTurner wrote:
Stop making me out to be some pig. I care about and respect my wife more than I'd care to explain to a man-hating, feminist @#%^ like yourself.
Intended or not, you're giving the audience the impression that you're the perfect husband in the ideal marriage with the epitome of wives. Now, whether you're arrogant enough to believe that or just some pig, you're being a douche bag.
A husband caring about his wife only happens in ideal marriage? What the @#%^ are you talking about? My marriage is not perfect. Does it have to be perfect for 2 people to actually like eachother's company and touch? Sounds like things are getting blown out of proportion. This is a discussion about a husband coming up to and rubbing/holding a wife's pregnant stomach without asking 'hey, honey do you mind if i touch your stomach?' Just doing it. I guess I take for granted common sense where you wouldn't do such a thing if the wife was just finished tearing you a new @#%^ for not taking the garbage out or something.
If your point is that I'm being a douchebag toward Belkira, then OK I'm comfortable with that.
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I don't know if your wife has ev-
Yep.
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Bardalicious wrote:
Correct me if I'm wrong, but what I think he is saying is that most healthy relationships are developed on an emotional, intellectual, and physical level. If the relationship is one of those where contact such as hugging,holding hands, w/e is common, it is bizarre to throw that out the window for 4 odd months.
Yeah, basically, though less ambiguous. I'm really surprised there are relationships out there that are considered healthy but these people still have a wall around them.
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I will say, however, that some people don't realize the cluster@#%^ of hormones that bombard a woman during pregnancy nor how every woman reacts differently to them. If a hypothetical wife was normally part of a very physically oriented couple and then suddenly turned into an ice queen because she has a bun in the oven then her husband would learn pretty quick, I'd hope.
True. And the next time my wife is pregnant she might end up more emotional and maybe she will freakout if i try to touch her, but honestly that is unimaginable to me.
Edited, Jun 2nd 2010 1:52pm by KTurner