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#1 May 11 2010 at 8:55 AM Rating: Excellent
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I was recently engaged in a conversation about why women, as a general rule, don't listen to Pink Floyd. I realize that this opens me to hearing "But *I* do..." but whatever. One theory that came up was that men (especially younger men) are more likely to do the "headphone rock" thing where you are only listening to music as opposed to listening to music while doing homework or driving or dancing or washing the dishes. After a moment's thought I agreed that that method of listening to music seemed somewhat uniquely male and, after another moment, admitted that I haven't spent enough time spying on young women to actually say.

Rather than risk getting myself on a sex offenders' registry, I'll ask here instead. Do/did you female folk spend significant time just purely listening to music? Pop in an album, sit on the couch and just listen? It really does seem to just be a dude thing.
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#2 May 11 2010 at 9:01 AM Rating: Good
I used to do that, when I was a kid. Listen to music just to listen to it. But I haven't done that in a long time. I guess I just feel like I have so many other things I want to do, or have to do, and I really want to listen to music, so I'll just do them both at the same time.
#3 May 11 2010 at 9:02 AM Rating: Excellent
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I did, yeah. Not with head phones, though, in case the phone rang.

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#4 May 11 2010 at 9:08 AM Rating: Good
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I listened to music often just to listen to it. Often I'd sit for hours listening to the same album, learning the lyrics, singing along. Nowadays the only time I get to listen to music of my choice is in the car (I taught my kids to like my music) or when I'm gaming. Usually then though, I've got other things going on so I can't concentrate as fully on the music as I used to.
#5 May 11 2010 at 9:12 AM Rating: Good
For Pink Floyd specifically I think you could find analogies in drug use tables. Young men are nearly twice as likely to do illicit drugs than women. Anecdotally I can't recall a time when I got stoned and threw on a Pink Floyd album with a girl, but my guy friends and I used to get stoned all the time and listen to them.
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Anecdotally I can't recall a time when I got stoned and threw on a Pink Floyd album with a girl

I once read one of the producers of Dark Side of the Moon talking about why it spent fourteen years on the Billboard charts and people would wear down their vinyl, forcing them to buy new copies.

He said it was great music to fuck to.
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#7 May 11 2010 at 9:24 AM Rating: Good
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He said it was great music to fuck to.

Maybe for a record producer, but I was a 16 year old geek with a shortage of prospects. Did you find that to be true when you were a teen?
#8 May 11 2010 at 9:34 AM Rating: Excellent
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I was a teen. "Yakkity Sax" was great music to fuck to.
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#9 May 11 2010 at 9:35 AM Rating: Good
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Jophiel wrote:
I was recently engaged in a conversation about why women, as a general rule, don't listen to Pink Floyd. I realize that this opens me to hearing "But *I* do..." but whatever. One theory that came up was that men (especially younger men) are more likely to do the "headphone rock" thing where you are only listening to music as opposed to listening to music while doing homework or driving or dancing or washing the dishes. After a moment's thought I agreed that that method of listening to music seemed somewhat uniquely male and, after another moment, admitted that I haven't spent enough time spying on young women to actually say.

Rather than risk getting myself on a sex offenders' registry, I'll ask here instead. Do/did you female folk spend significant time just purely listening to music? Pop in an album, sit on the couch and just listen? It really does seem to just be a dude thing.
I did, all the time, but not with headphones (they weren't invented yet). I'd usually listen to stuff I could sing along to, but not always. Gees I remember black lights and Iron Butterfly, Black Oak Arkansas and Jonny Winter. (memmmmm..or...ies).

Recently, the music that stops me in my tracks demanding my full attention has been Opera. Take a listen; An aria I've fallen in love with - Va! Laisse Couler Mes Larmes from Massenet's Werther .

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#10 May 11 2010 at 10:32 AM Rating: Excellent
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His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
Jophiel wrote:
He said it was great music to fuck to.

Maybe for a record producer, but I was a 16 year old geek with a shortage of prospects. Did you find that to be true when you were a teen?


I can confirm this (& and the drug usage), I did not attain my geek status until much much later in life. I some times sit in my car and listen to my music. My car has a really great system and I can lock everyone out! When I was younger, I'd lie on my parent's bed and listen to Ozzy among other things and rock out. There were 2 five foot speakers, one on each side of the bed, and I'd crank those suckers, lie there and scream to the music. Yes, I said scream, and I still like screamo!
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#11 May 11 2010 at 10:34 AM Rating: Good
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His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
I was a 16 year old geek with a shortage of prospects

I can confirm this (& and the drug usage)

Wait, what?!?
#12 May 11 2010 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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I didn't "get into" music until I was about 14. I figure I didn't miss out on much since all that was flying around before then seemed to be boy bands and ******* spice girls.
#13 May 11 2010 at 10:40 AM Rating: Excellent
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His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
Mistress Darqflame wrote:
His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
I was a 16 year old geek with a shortage of prospects

I can confirm this (& and the drug usage)

Wait, what?!?


That's right, Moe. She said you didn't get laid because you were on drugs.

You loser.

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#14 May 11 2010 at 10:53 AM Rating: Good
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I didn't "get into" music until I was about 14. I figure I didn't miss out on much since all that was flying around before then seemed to be boy bands and @#%^ing spice girls.

But that all changed when you first heard The Weather Girls on an oldies station and just knew there was an answer to those funny feelings you had in the locker room before P.E.?
#15 May 11 2010 at 10:53 AM Rating: Good
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#16 May 11 2010 at 11:28 AM Rating: Good
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Bardalicious wrote:
I didn't "get into" music until I was about 14. I figure I didn't miss out on much since all that was flying around before then seemed to be boy bands and @#%^ing spice girls.

But that all changed when you first heard The Weather Girls on an oldies station and just knew there was an answer to those funny feelings you had in the locker room before P.E.?

I love how you get me.
#17 May 11 2010 at 1:42 PM Rating: Good
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As a kid, my family had a Hi-Fi System that was often set to Classical stations and we were encouraged to just sit and listen. My parents had a great collection of albums also that I wasn't allowed to touch until I was a teenager.

By then my dad had built a Heathkit stereo system and set it up in our dinning room. I would often put on Moody Blues, Deep Purple or my copy of Bo Hanson's Lord of the Rings, and lay down under the table, were one could get the best acoustics. Once my older brother Ran away, I got his bedroom with the Hi-Fi system and spent hours listening to my parents classical music collection.

Head phones are fantastic for listening to recording were they care enough to have parts circle around. Moody Blues, The Who and Pink Floyd were some of my Favorites to pay attention to. I still remember the first time my older brother played the Dark Side of the Moon for me. Money was great even on the Hi-Fi system, but then it was one of the best and sadly it was only after I gave it away, that I found out just how good it was. Just had to baby the tubes and keep the contacts clean and it would warm up nicely.

I do have some of the classical records that were my favorites growing up. My dad had put his whole collection on CD's and my younger Brother is suppose to make copies for all of us.
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#18 May 11 2010 at 2:21 PM Rating: Good
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#19 May 11 2010 at 2:34 PM Rating: Good
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My wife is a good friend of India Waters. Rogers daughter.
Driest fUck I ever had.
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#20 May 11 2010 at 3:10 PM Rating: Good
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Jophiel wrote:
[quote=His Excellency MoebiusLord]Anecdotally I can't recall a time when I got stoned and threw on a Pink Floyd album with a girl


Wow, that's all I did in Grade 11!

I haven't listened to an album start to finish for a long time but yeah, back in the day, I spent a lot more time chillin' out, doing drugs and listening to tunes. Nowadays, I live vicariously through those random shufflings on my iPod.
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#21 May 11 2010 at 3:17 PM Rating: Good
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His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
Anecdotally I can't recall a time when I got stoned and threw on a Pink Floyd album with a girl


Wow, that's all I did in Grade 11!

I haven't listened to an album start to finish for a long time but yeah, back in the day, I spent a lot more time chillin' out, doing drugs and listening to tunes. Nowadays, I live vicariously through those random shufflings on my iPod.

So, we really should have envied the guys with Canadian girlfriends?
#22 May 11 2010 at 5:35 PM Rating: Decent
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From the late sixties to the early eighties, my father was an executive with various major electronics companies (Sony, Harmon-Kardon), so we always had extraordinary sound systems in the house. As such, our's was the place to hang out to listen to music. As teens my brother and I were really not into stuff like Pink Floyd, we had the albums, we listened to them, but we were much more into things like Television, Talking Heads, The Ramones and The Clash. We had lots of chicks come to the house just to hang out and listen to the music.

On a side note, I've worked at Roger Waters' house in the Hamptons. Provided you don't try to talk to him about his music, he's a very nice fellow.
#23 May 12 2010 at 6:08 AM Rating: Good
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His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
Tare wrote:
His Excellency MoebiusLord wrote:
Anecdotally I can't recall a time when I got stoned and threw on a Pink Floyd album with a girl


Wow, that's all I did in Grade 11!

I haven't listened to an album start to finish for a long time but yeah, back in the day, I spent a lot more time chillin' out, doing drugs and listening to tunes. Nowadays, I live vicariously through those random shufflings on my iPod.

So, we really should have envied the guys with Canadian girlfriends?


Well, you should have envied mine, I guess. ;)
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#24 May 12 2010 at 10:31 AM Rating: Good
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When I was a little girl, I'd wake up every Saturday morning with my little tape-deck boom-box and headphones and manually dial through the radio stations, recording songs on blank tapes that I really liked. Most of it was Casey Kasem top 40 songs, and we're talking early 90's here. My mom always ******* about how she'd wake up super early on Saturday mornings with me wandering around the house singing, "Lalalalala~" when I was a very wee girl.

In middle school and into high school nearly every night I'd fall asleep to a different CD, often trying to stay awake until the end, as a way to unwind during the day. I had some angst so there was definitely time spent laying in bed, crying to some sappy **** that pierced right to my emo-quick.

In early adulthood, I specifically remember spending a large portion of my free time while living in my grandma's basement after moving home from Minnesota laying in my bedroom, listening to my iPod, staring at the ceiling. Then my iPod and laptop got stolen and I lost all of my music (at that point, after many moves and selling my CDs for cash, all of my music was stored digitally.) Music was a huge pastime for most of my life, I started going to see live bands at age 15 and did several times a week for many, many years, but I had a very hard divorce when I lost my entire music collection that had been accumulating on my computers since about age 12 (I believe that was pre-Lars vs. Napster), and it was quite substantial.

So in short, no, Jophiel, I don't think music solely as a pastime is strictly a male thing. But I wouldn't doubt if I was one of the few exceptions to the rule.
#25 May 12 2010 at 10:46 AM Rating: Excellent
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I had it pretty easy growing up, as far as selection goes. My dad was into the blues and country music (which makes sense, as he was a poor white boy from the Delta, and it's all the same story in different rhythms). Mama was into croony jazz and big band and some of the lighter classical. My brothers were into very different branches of rock and roll.

All I had to do was pick and choose and extend and delve.

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#26 May 12 2010 at 5:53 PM Rating: Excellent
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I've always been a multitasker, so I would listen to music while I cooked, read, painted, or danced or exercised.

The only times I can remember listening to music and doing nothing else are times when I was sad.
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