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#1 May 09 2010 at 11:01 AM Rating: Good
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So. Just a week and a half ago, the United States Navy decided with NARY A PEEP (Except from the wives of sailors) to allow women to man submarines. Congress had from February to April 30 to raise any objections, and of course: None were raised. It's going to be a moderate integration process at first, but they intend on expanding it.

http://www.navy.mil/search/display.asp?story_id=53184

The Navy website actually somewhat portrays this as positive. And it is! One less barrier gone from the road to equality.

But for a different group of people looking for personnel changes? Yeah. Defense Secretary Robert Gates asked Congress not to go ahead with the Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy until they've completed a yearlong study, and have just recently opened an inbox for anonymous input.

http://www.defense.gov/news/newsarticle.aspx?id=59042

Judging by most of the comments just on the news article, I'm guessing the inbox is already overflowing with a staggering amount of vapid, disgusting hate.

Do people genuinely believe there are no homosexuals at all in the military right now? This fear that DADT is a security blanket, protecting them from the eyes, ears and lives of their fellow secret gay soldiers and that if it goes so does their protection. It has to be a charade.
#2 May 09 2010 at 11:29 AM Rating: Decent
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Do people genuinely believe there are no homosexuals at all in the military right now? This fear that DADT is a security blanket, protecting them from the eyes, ears and lives of their fellow secret gay soldiers and that if it goes so does their protection. It has to be a charade.


I don't think the military is ready to survive without DADT. Whether you (or anyone else) likes it or not, a significant amount of the population is still homophobic. I don't have numbers, but I'm willing to bet that the percent of the military population that is homophobic is even greater. There seems to me to be an obvious connection between homophobia and testosterone, and the military is a breeding ground for it.

At any rate, so long as there are people (for better or worse) whose performance on the battlefield would be significantly degraded by the knowledge that one or more of the men in their unit is homosexual, I think it's in the best interest of the armed forces, in general, to keep such information off the battlefield.

That said, I didn't even know sub crews were still restricted to men only. A+ on changing that policy.
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Question is, is it easier to weed out the homos or the ultra homophobic?

#4 May 09 2010 at 1:24 PM Rating: Good
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Bardalicious wrote:
Question is, is it easier to weed out the homos or the ultra homophobic?

Show that pic of your avatar and it should be obvious which is which.
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#5 May 09 2010 at 2:04 PM Rating: Good
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Whether you (or anyone else) likes it or not, a significant amount of the population is still homophobic.


I think most of the population was racist when the US services fully integrated blacks. No expert, but I have heard this was a contributing factor toward the US civil rights movement.

As for women in the Navy, what I heard from my two friends with personal experience is that the women "civilized" the navy to some extent and many of the hazing type practices which used to occur are no longer as intense.
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BD wrote:
Whether you (or anyone else) likes it or not, a significant amount of the population is still homophobic. I don't have numbers, but I'm willing to bet that the percent of the military population that is homophobic is even greater.


But that same group of people is saying, "We don't want to have to change to accommodate you. But you totally have to change/hide to fit in with us." The very same, no the exact same, thing that is happening to the Navy with the inclusion of women in submarines. Men and women are going to live with each other in a sardine can. Where's the uproar in that? Isn't there some conspiracy for secret outbreaks in lust? Pregnancy? Or is everyone really too exhausted from making that same argument about a homosexual soldier living in the same barracks?

I'd totally agree there's a breeding ground between homophobia and testosterone, mostly because we guys are almost a hive mind with the motto, "The nail that sticks out is going to get hammered."

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Question is, is it easier to weed out the homos or the ultra homophobic?


I've served in the 348th Hospital Unit since my junior summer year in high school, and I'd have to say it would probably be much harder separating the those who'd accept homosexuality than the ultra nuts who want to stamp it out. They're loud, and numerous but have no sense of fraternity or cohesion whatsoever.

Then again, as a combat medic... Nobody really f'ucked with your orientation, skin color or choice of religion.
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This thread makes me wonder; is there a direct correlation of homophobia to either bigotry and/or sexism? My (obviously) annecdotal experience has shown that that's a "yes" answer, but I'd sure be interested to know if someone, somewhere actually has some stats on this.


This thread also made me think of the Super Best friends, but that's another kettle of fish.
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Whether you (or anyone else) likes it or not, a significant amount of the population is still homophobic. I don't have numbers, but I'm willing to bet that the percent of the military population that is homophobic is even greater.


But that same group of people is saying, "We don't want to have to change to accommodate you. But you totally have to change/hide to fit in with us." The very same, no the exact same, thing that is happening to the Navy with the inclusion of women in submarines. Men and women are going to live with each other in a sardine can. Where's the uproar in that? Isn't there some conspiracy for secret outbreaks in lust? Pregnancy? Or is everyone really too exhausted from making that same argument about a homosexual soldier living in the same barracks?


I really don't think it's the same thing at all. The reason women weren't able to be on a sub crew before is that it was lumped in as a "front-line" combat unit. Also, I'm sure to some extent, there was old-school holdover thinking that having women on board in such a confined space would complicate and distract the crew's performance. Personally, I think that's stupid, but then again I've never served aboard a sub. I think this new policy doesn't harm anything. Having women on the front lines is a different matter however, and one I'd never support.

Regardless, gays in the military is a separate topic as much as you'd like to call them the same under the umbrella of "equality".

The DADT policy was always silly, but it was a stepping stone to official acceptance. The reason Clinton didn't go the full 9 was that he wasn't going to gather full support for it, so this was a compromise. IMHO it worked as a transition phase and the next step should be taken.

I was in after the DADT became policy, and can only surmise the attitude prior to it from the stories I heard after the fact. In my unit, there were 2 guys who were widely suspected to be gay, one of them was in my shop. He was a great troop, and widely respected. No one that I knew of could say with 100% certainty that he was gay, but regardless he was widely liked and no one would have ever considered giving him hell about it. If they had, they may have gotten a beating. Would that have been the case had he come in with everyone knowing he was gay? I'd like to think so, but probably not. But that was 15 years ago, and times change.

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BrownDuck wrote:
I don't think the military is ready to survive without DADT. Whether you (or anyone else) likes it or not, a significant amount of the population is still homophobic. I don't have numbers, but I'm willing to bet that the percent of the military population that is homophobic is even greater. There seems to me to be an obvious connection between homophobia and testosterone, and the military is a breeding ground for it.

Thanks for speculating.

People get over superficial differences extremely fast in forced cooperation situations. The military perfectly fits the form known to be effective at integrating schools in the 70s. The military is situation where peoples' attitudes would change the fastest out of all possible demographics.
#10 May 09 2010 at 5:58 PM Rating: Good
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Thanks for speculating.


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But that same group of people is saying, "We don't want to have to change to accommodate you. But you totally have to change/hide to fit in with us."


Sure, and I don't endorse that mindset at all. However, We're talking the military - life and death situations - here, and I just think that as long as there exists a large percent of the population that just can't handle it, we should be mindful of the issue and not start encouraging open homosexuality. At the very least, if the DADT policy is repealed, then there should be a system in place to resolve conflicts that inevitably will arise without discriminating against either party and without endangering the lives of the individuals or their fellow combatants. Just read some of the comments in the linked article and you'll see what I'm talking about.

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I have served in the military for almost 13 years, I have never agreed completely with the DADT policy, but I have seen what happens when a soldier comes out. I have personally had to guard a soldier’s barracks room 24/7 because he and his lover were assaulted and were receiving death threats from other soldiers in the barracks. There is a lot of ignorance in the world and being in the military you are part of a melting pot of different countries, races, religions, backgrounds, etc and not all accepting of anything they see as different. I believe in openly letting gays serve in the military just like I believe in gay marriage, the only way to get it accepted is to force people to deal with it. Making it legal is one way to make people learn to deal with the fact that it does exist and isn't going away. As American soldiers we fight to keep our freedoms, those freedoms include religion, free speech, right to own a fire arm, why should they not include the freedom to be gay?

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BrownDuck wrote:
Allegory wrote:
BrownDuck wrote:
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Thanks for speculating.


GFY

No, you.
I have a friend currently in the ROTC that is afraid to come out because he wants to have a military career. Your indifference toward a program that validates hatred and bigotry is appalling and part of the problem.

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Ninomori wrote:
But that same group of people is saying, "We don't want to have to change to accommodate you. But you totally have to change/hide to fit in with us."


Sure, and I don't endorse that mindset at all. However, We're talking the military - life and death situations - here, and I just think that as long as there exists a large percent of the population that just can't handle it, we should be mindful of the issue and not start encouraging open homosexuality. At the very least, if the DADT policy is repealed, then there should be a system in place to resolve conflicts that inevitably will arise without discriminating against either party and without endangering the lives of the individuals or their fellow combatants. Just read some of the comments in the linked article and you'll see what I'm talking about.

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I have served in the military for almost 13 years, I have never agreed completely with the DADT policy, but I have seen what happens when a soldier comes out. I have personally had to guard a soldier’s barracks room 24/7 because he and his lover were assaulted and were receiving death threats from other soldiers in the barracks. There is a lot of ignorance in the world and being in the military you are part of a melting pot of different countries, races, religions, backgrounds, etc and not all accepting of anything they see as different. I believe in openly letting gays serve in the military just like I believe in gay marriage, the only way to get it accepted is to force people to deal with it. Making it legal is one way to make people learn to deal with the fact that it does exist and isn't going away. As American soldiers we fight to keep our freedoms, those freedoms include religion, free speech, right to own a fire arm, why should they not include the freedom to be gay?

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[quote=BrownDuck]As for women in the Navy, what I heard from my two friends with personal experience is that the women "pussified" the navy to some extent and many of the hazing type practices which used to occur are no longer as intense.


FTFY
#13 May 09 2010 at 10:54 PM Rating: Excellent
After the 10th time the drill sergeant makes the homophobes run 10 miles in full gear, I think they'll figure out how to be tolerant.

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An Ohio class submarine is a large submarine, but it is still a closed environment, and ANY additional mass you devote to installing seperate bathrooms, partiton walls or other visual barriers detracts from her warfighting trim. If the women searving on these submarines are truely prepared to be in mixed quarters with no special accomodation equipment installed on the submarines and are prepared to put up with the porentially less than cordial reception they may recieve on the boats, then more power to them. The instant they start demanding that we add things to a frontline military weapon system that might potentially slow it down or make it respond even that minute fraction slower than it would have otherwise, I would consider that an issue.
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#15 May 09 2010 at 11:38 PM Rating: Decent
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After the 10th time the drill sergeant makes the homophobes run 10 miles in full gear, I think they'll figure out how to be tolerant.


Hardly. Soldiers do stupid ****, even when they know it's unacceptable, and as Ninomori so eloquently put it earlier, "the nail that sticks out is going to get hammered."

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I have a friend currently in the ROTC that is afraid to come out because he wants to have a military career. Your indifference toward a program that validates hatred and bigotry is appalling and part of the problem.


Your friend's issue is not mine. I don't condone hatred or bigotry, but I acknowledge that it exists, and the military is no place for a gay pride crusade. Your refusal to understand the reality of the situation is equally appalling.

Let's be clear here. I don't think homosexuals should be oppressed or even discharged simply because of the sexual preference, and to some degree, I don't think they should have to hide it. Still, the battlefield is no place to go looking for acceptance, and if someone like your friend is simply looking for the assurance that "coming out" will not damage his military career, repealing the DADT order might help him, but if he thinks it will introduce any measure of acceptance, he's sadly mistaken. I can see the headlines now.

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#16 May 09 2010 at 11:45 PM Rating: Excellent
One big problem with putting women on subs is pregnancy. I've been in the Navy for 13 years now (10 active and 3 reserves), and when a female sailor gets pregnant, she is placed in a limited-duty status and restricted from going underway. If she becomes pregnant on a ship, she is choppered off asap.

The problem with submarines is that you might not see daylight for months at a time, as you could be conducting top secret operations in enemy waters, and to surface would put the mission and the crew at risk.
#17 May 09 2010 at 11:49 PM Rating: Excellent
Honestly Brownduck, as long as a service member is good at their job, shows up on time, and has a squared-away uniform, I could care less where they stick their ****.
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One big problem with putting women on subs is pregnancy. I've been in the Navy for 13 years now (10 active and 3 reserves), and when a female sailor gets pregnant, she is placed in a limited-duty status and restricted from going underway. If she becomes pregnant on a ship, she is choppered off asap.

The problem with submarines is that you might not see daylight for months at a time, as you could be conducting top secret operations in enemy waters, and to surface would put the mission and the crew at risk.
Mandate that all men on a submarine be gay
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You do understand how incredibly stupid you are for coming to a conclusion on the basis of assumed evidence? Like "Varrus stupid" stupid.
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One big problem with putting women on subs is pregnancy. I've been in the Navy for 13 years now (10 active and 3 reserves), and when a female sailor gets pregnant, she is placed in a limited-duty status and restricted from going underway. If she becomes pregnant on a ship, she is choppered off asap.

The problem with submarines is that you might not see daylight for months at a time, as you could be conducting top secret operations in enemy waters, and to surface would put the mission and the crew at risk.

Woot! Either medics are going to get decent at abortions, since no contraceptive is 100% effective, even a double up of condom with pill/other, or we're going to have a new small generation of "Son of a Gun"s, Submarine Version. Hopefully all the important movable things on submarines that go "ping" are more than 4 ft off the floor.
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After the 10th time the drill sergeant makes the homophobes run 10 miles in full gear, I think they'll figure out how to be tolerant.

Unless of course, it's the Drill Sergeant who's a homophobe and he makes the homos and those accepting them run the 10 miles instead.
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#22 May 10 2010 at 3:42 AM Rating: Good
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As a person with just a touch of actual experiance in this subject, the subject of Gays in the military is not an issue for people in the military.

Once you have a certain level of trust in the people around you, sexuality is not an issue. I had 4 openly gay men in my last messdeck and never had a single incident and they where no more or less popular or problamatic then the straight guys.

Women are more of an issue for partners than actually causing an issue onboard in my experiance but i have seen many a marriage fall apart over rumour about a relationship that didn't exsist.

With reguards to Submarines the Royal Navy doesn't allow women to serve on them because they fear being sued over radiation preventing pregnancy's more than anything else.

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BrownDuck wrote:

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I have a friend currently in the ROTC that is afraid to come out because he wants to have a military career. Your indifference toward a program that validates hatred and bigotry is appalling and part of the problem.


Your friend's issue is not mine. I don't condone hatred or bigotry, but I acknowledge that it exists, and the militaryschool system is no place for a gay pridecivil rights crusade. Your refusal to understand the reality of the situation is equally appalling.

This is how things would have sounded if we were arguing over the internet in the 60's.


BrownDuck wrote:
Let's be clear here. I don't think homosexuals should be oppressed or even discharged simply because of the sexual preference, and to some degree, I don't think they should have to hide it. Still, the battlefield is no place to go looking for acceptance, and if someone like your friend is simply looking for the assurance that "coming out" will not damage his military career, repealing the DADT order might help him, but if he thinks it will introduce any measure of acceptance, he's sadly mistaken. I can see the headlines now.

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All I can really say is GFY, DIAF, etc.
#24 May 10 2010 at 8:19 AM Rating: Decent
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Let's be clear here. I don't think homosexuals should be oppressed or even discharged simply because of the sexual preference, and to some degree, I don't think they should have to hide it.


I do, not the oppressed part but definitly discharged. Most american men do not want to be in close quarters with homosexuals. Call it what you will, it's a fact of life. That the the radical left, a class that rarely serves in the military, want to push their own radical agenda in this way means less than nothing to me.


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Still, the battlefield is no place to go looking for acceptance


Bingo! This is about having the most efficient bad as* military on the face of the planet. We all know what Democrats think of the military and this is just another avenue for them to push their social agenda. They would rather be political correct than maintain the best fighting force in the world.



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Honestly Brownduck, as long as a service member is good at their job


Even if their presence is a distraction to the majority?



Edited, May 10th 2010 10:20am by knoxxsouthy
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Then those who are distracted should be discharged, since clearly they can't make the army as badass as you want it.

My personal feelings are that DADT should be repealed, but I don't know anybody currently in the military, or anybody whos gay either, so this really has no affect on me.

Edited, May 10th 2010 10:23am by Siesen
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I wish I knew some of these Democrats varus keeps bringing up, because I don't think I've ever met anyone like what he's describing.
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