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#1 Apr 12 2010 at 7:51 AM Rating: Good
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Lots of high schools have the students sign something like an honor code before they're allowed to participate in extra-curricular activities.

In Yarmouth Maine a family is questioning the constitutionality of the HS honor. A 16 year old lacrosse player was suspended from her sport for 3 weeks after the school was notified of a picture of the girl on Facebook holding a beer. My kids went to Yarmouth High and signed this document...I think I had to sign it too...or maybe I signed that I read it. It's very strict and very specific.

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I find it a bit too convenient that this family didn't choose to question the constitutional right of their budding lacrosse player until after she was found to break the contract.

What do you all think?

Do HS students get constitutional rights?

Is a facebook photo of the girl holding a beer sufficient grounds to declare that she reneged on her end of the deal?

Are HS's over-stepping their bounds when they attempt to police the actions of their students outside of school or school activities?

As a parent, would you be sticking up for your rights to parent your child as you see fit when the child is not at school or a school event?

I'm of the mind that playing a sport is a privilege for HS students, and see nothing wrong with the school limiting the privilege to law-abiding kids.
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#2 Apr 12 2010 at 8:02 AM Rating: Excellent
Yes, students at a public school have constitutional rights.

That being said, constitutional rights do not include the right to participate in voluntary extra-curricular activities. Those are privileges and can have additional restrictions placed on participation, similar to driving (in my state refusal to submit to blood/breath/urine test on suspicion of drunk driving results in automatic suspension of your license).

I have no problem, what so ever, with students who sign pledges facing the consequence for not holding up their end, even in a case like this, and no sympathy for parents who can't raise their kids to understand what it means to sign a contract.*

*Yes, I realize this may not have been a binding legal contract, but the principle of the thing still applies. It is a commitment by one party to live up to the expectations of another and provides (or should) a valuable lesson for later in life.
#3 Apr 12 2010 at 8:14 AM Rating: Excellent
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Huh. I agree with Moe. Am I a conservative now?
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#4 Apr 12 2010 at 8:19 AM Rating: Good
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Huh. I agree with Moe. Am I a conservative now?
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#5 Apr 12 2010 at 8:23 AM Rating: Excellent
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What do you all think?

Do HS students get constitutional rights?

Is a facebook photo of the girl holding a beer sufficient grounds to declare that she reneged on her end of the deal?


Looking on the bright side, this is a superb object lesson to be careful what you put on Facebook and to use the privacy tools they provide to limit access.

Still, you can't stop your friends putting your picture on their sites with your name, so really all you can do is either follow the rules, have trustworthy friends, or wear a mask to parties.
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#6 Apr 12 2010 at 8:49 AM Rating: Good
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I remember a case a few years ago where a bunch of players at a school got suspended from their teams due to facebook or myspace pictures of them holding red cups.

So the students had a HUGE party that weekend... with no alcohol. The police gave tests to every single kid at the party, and all came back negative. And Facebook was plastered with pictures of them and their cups.

The school dropped the suspension--forced to accept that there was no way they could prove that the kids were drinking alcohol.

And, to be fair, they have a valid point. Yes, is it likely that the players were drinking alcohol? Sure. But it is in no way sure (of course, picture captions and comments on profiles that aren't private help ***** you). I don't really ever drink, and I have a few friends who don't either. We'll still go to friend's parties though. If someone posted pictures on Facebook, people who didn't know me would totally think I was drinking alcohol.

I think that is the biggest problem with these cases. I have no issues with the agreement or the suspension, given they are sure she was drinking. If she was holding a beer can in the pic, sure. If she was holding a cup, it's a much weaker argument.

But yes, people really need to teach kids these days about watching what they put online. And Facebook should really default to "friends-only" for everything. I'm fairly certain its current default is completely public.
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#7 Apr 12 2010 at 8:52 AM Rating: Good
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Agree with Moe. The girl was an idiot for getting caught. Similar things happened in my high school as well, and many others; this seems like a nonissue.
#8 Apr 12 2010 at 8:55 AM Rating: Good
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And Facebook should really default to "friends-only" for everything. I'm fairly certain its current default is completely public.


Holy crap, yes, this. I kinda sorta almost got in trouble with my new girlfriend's family because my pictures were not "Friends Only" like I thought (I guess it goes album by album). Apparently her father was looking at my pics; luckily for me the ones he could see were not nearly as bad as others, but still it made me freak out because I thought I had set everything to private.

Now I know I have it right and only friends can see everything.

Edit: I kept my political views open to everyone, just they know I'm a crazy liberal.

Edited, Apr 12th 2010 10:57am by LockeColeMA
#9 Apr 12 2010 at 9:03 AM Rating: Good
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idiggory wrote:
And Facebook should really default to "friends-only" for everything. I'm fairly certain its current default is completely public.


Holy crap, yes, this. I kinda sorta almost got in trouble with my new girlfriend's family because my pictures were not "Friends Only" like I thought (I guess it goes album by album). Apparently her father was looking at my pics; luckily for me the ones he could see were not nearly as bad as others, but still it made me freak out because I thought I had set everything to private.

Now I know I have it right and only friends can see everything.

Edit: I kept my political views open to everyone, just they know I'm a crazy liberal.

Edited, Apr 12th 2010 10:57am by LockeColeMA


What pics do you have on there that would rile her father up?
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LockeColeMA wrote:
idiggory wrote:
And Facebook should really default to "friends-only" for everything. I'm fairly certain its current default is completely public.


Holy crap, yes, this. I kinda sorta almost got in trouble with my new girlfriend's family because my pictures were not "Friends Only" like I thought (I guess it goes album by album). Apparently her father was looking at my pics; luckily for me the ones he could see were not nearly as bad as others, but still it made me freak out because I thought I had set everything to private.

Now I know I have it right and only friends can see everything.

Edit: I kept my political views open to everyone, just they know I'm a crazy liberal.

Edited, Apr 12th 2010 10:57am by LockeColeMA


What pics do you have on there that would rile her father up?


Nothing too bad, mostly pics of me at parties, or with girls who likes to show off their cleavage. More embarrassing than traumatic; not the classiest pics for your girlfriend's father to see, especially since we've never met in person.
#11 Apr 12 2010 at 9:39 AM Rating: Good
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Facebook Stalking, now for parents.
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#12 Apr 12 2010 at 9:51 AM Rating: Good
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When facebook changed its privacy settings without my knowledge (I hadn't used the site in several months), my parents had a laugh at a drunk, and then eventually passed out on the floor, Sweetums.

Edited, Apr 12th 2010 10:51am by Sweetums
#13 Apr 12 2010 at 10:19 AM Rating: Good
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When facebook changed its privacy settings without my knowledge (I hadn't used the site in several months), my parents had a laugh at a drunk, and then eventually passed out on the floor, Sweetums.



This is why I recheck my privacy settings after every update, though I understand that wouldn't be an option if you hadn't accessed the system.

Oh, and I refuse to add my parents to my Facebook. XD There are just some things they don't need to know about my life. If I need to talk to them, calling/emailing/texting is more than ample. Nothing good can come of them having such a deep insight into my personal life*. XD

*This is party more for their benefit than mine. I'm an atheist, my mom's a very devout Christian. I just avoid the topic with her, and some of the things I find hilarious would REALLY upset her. Like this picture that someone posted on my page the other day that literally made me lol for like a minute. My dad's less religious, but would also not be thrilled.*

I also have my page set so that different groups of friends can see different content, where available. For instance, my status updates only show to close friends, and those at my school (even if not so close). But I manually created those lists.
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#15 Apr 12 2010 at 2:29 PM Rating: Default
An Honor code was there for a reason. I do know that anyone stupid enough to be posting pix of themselves drinking while underage deserve to be booted from any team. This is why sites like Facebook have become so good. You can post silly pix of yourself and loose your job and more!

Edited, Apr 12th 2010 4:29pm by Tailmon
#16 Apr 12 2010 at 5:14 PM Rating: Decent
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What Joph said.
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At my school, I'm not aware of any honor code. If they don't think you should be on the team because you went out drinking, well then you're not on the team. It's not a given right to be able to play sports or what have you with the school.
#18 Apr 12 2010 at 7:31 PM Rating: Default
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So we're all agreed that students do not have a "right" to participate in school-run extracurricular activities? Just checking the pulse here.
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#19 Apr 12 2010 at 7:53 PM Rating: Good
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So we're all agreed that students do not have a "right" to participate in school-run extracurricular activities? Just checking the pulse here.
Students don't even have a "right" to participate in school-run intracurricular activities.

Which is stupid - it's rewarding "students" for fucking up - but relevant.
#20 Apr 12 2010 at 10:41 PM Rating: Good
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So we're all agreed that students do not have a "right" to participate in school-run extracurricular activities? Just checking the pulse here.


Yup.
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So we're all agreed that students do not have a "right" to participate in school-run extracurricular activities?

True enough. This doesn't necessarily mean however that schools have the "right" to exclude select students from participation for discriminatory reasons.

Try to be less transparent next time. Thanks.
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#22 Apr 12 2010 at 10:57 PM Rating: Good
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They don't have the right--it's certainly a privilege. However, I differs somewhat from classic definitions. Your permission to take part isn't really earned (with sports it is, perhaps, but not with clubs). Rather, it is readmission that must be earned after your privilege is stripped.

Just always kinda annoyed me how my school always went on and on about how these things were privileges that had to be earned when they... well... didn't.

Plus, it can't be a right. Then your school would be violating your rights if they didn't offer extracurriculars. I think they SHOULD, of course, but I certainly don't think they HAVE to. Especially now that it's a choice between firing teachers and cutting programs. One's unfortunate, sure, but the other is someone losing their livelihood, which is way worse.

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Joph knows gbaji well. :P

Edited, Apr 13th 2010 12:58am by idiggory
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#23 Apr 13 2010 at 5:03 AM Rating: Excellent
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So we're all agreed that students do not have a "right" to participate in school-run extracurricular activities? Just checking the pulse here.
They all have the same non-right to, yes. As long as they are all held to the same standard, it's fair.

Now if this chick had signed a non-gay contract and then complained that she was booted due to be gaying it up, you'd have an argument, except a school would NEVER PUT THAT sh*t ON PAPER BECAUSE THEY KNOW, WE KNOW AND EVERYONE EXCEPT YOU KNOWS THEY'D BE LEGALLY LIABLE FOR DISCRIMINATION.


Edit: What Joph said.


Edited, Apr 13th 2010 6:04am by Atomicflea
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