The One and Only Poldaran wrote:
I'd imagine it falls under anti-discrimination laws. They can set dress codes, basic codes of conduct, etc, but I don't imagine they have the authority to ignore laws prohibiting discrimination in education and public functions.
Which laws? You can't just refer to an incredibly broad concept like "discrimination". You could argue that *anything* is discrimination (and by definition any "rule" is "discrimination" of some kind, so that's meaningless as well). The historical SCOTUS test for this is that you have to show that the discrimination both unfairly targets a single group *and* that said discrimination serves no other legitimate purpose.
Given that rules requiring prom tickets consist of a male/female couple (often with age and school attendance requirements as well) have existed long before anyone even considered a gay high school couple attending shows that the purpose of the rules have a purpose other than strictly that of preventing gay couples from attending prom. As I've stated repeatedly, the most common reason for this is simply to ensure that everyone in attendance is a "couple". Removing this rule just to allow gay couples to attend as a couple would presumably result in many times more people showing up to prom without a "date". Since that is the stated purpose of the rule, it passes the discrimination test. Doubly so, since there are other ways around this *and* the rule in question isn't a law, but is purely at the discretion of the school itself. The rule does not require legislation to change, so it should be held to a lower standard than something which is an actual law.
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Further, while I do agree that they would have been within their rights to have a private function on the same night as a school one and not invite her, that doesn't sound like what happened. It sounds like they had a semi-official function, which the court had mandated she be allowed to attend, pretended to cancel it and created another one as a diversion.
That's now how I read any of the stories about this at all. They had the "official" prom planned. Then she sued, so they canceled that one. Then they had a semi-official prom planned by a group of parents at the time the court handed down it's decision. The girl's lawyers obtained a ruling that the girl must be allowed to attend that particular event as she wished (wearing tux and bringing girlfriend). They did not cancel that event, or switch anything around. That was the event she attended.
What happened was that a group of parents planned
a third event and didn't invite her. And most of the kids went to that one instead of the semi-official one. There was no deception. Just no one chose to attend the prom in which the court ordered changes. Why is that surprising? They complied with the letter of the courts ruling, which is no more than she should expect.
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That's sketchy behavior at best. They should have been more open with it and kept the semi-official one and then had some kid's parents completely autonomously host an alternative party that was by-invitation only.
Er? That's exactly what they did. And almost the entire student body went to that one instead...
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They would not have been able to use school funds or have any aid from the school, but they would have been out in the open and easily within the law. Instead, they're now sitting in a gray area at best.
I'm reasonably sure that *both* of those proms were paid for without any funds or aid from the school. At the very least, I'm sure that the second (third?) prom was. It was completely private. As I stated earlier, it speaks volumes to the fact that the school prom rules were in accordance with the majority of the students at the school that virtually all of them choose to do this.
I know that in our world of "taking sides" for or against, it may be hard to believe, but my position here is purely about the fact that the community as a whole should decide the rules for events like this together, not a group of lawyers. If the majority want a prom in which anyone can show up dressed however they want and with anyone (or no one), then that's perfectly ok with me. It's their choice. It's not about being pro or anti gay, and I think it's wrong to make it about that. It's about a group of people getting to decide their own rules for their own social events, without national level politics getting in the darn way!
[quote]It's moronic, but I think I see why they did it. I'd imagine had they done it that way, maybe half the school would have gone to the official one and half to the "cool kids party". At which point they would not have driven home their point of shunning said girl, so they chose to go the shady route simply because they wanted to be **************
They did do it that way. And it wasn't even close to half and half. Like I said. Speaks volumes about how out of sync with the community around her her actions were. We can sit here and condemn them for it, I suppose, but it's *their* community. Who are we to force them to do things the way we'd do them?
Uglysasquatch wrote:
I thought that too at first, but now I think it was more than just students. Parents were involved as well, and they really should be beyond this kind of behavior. Unless of course their children tricked them into thinking the first "private" prom was canceled, at which point they're just gullible(meaning why not make a few calls to confirm it before helping organize the second one?) instead of @#%^s.
You're right and wrong I think. Parents were clearly involved (someone had to pay for it). But I suspect the reaction was more like: They got a court order requiring that we change the rules for the prom? Ok. Let her go to that prom. We'll pay to have another dance with our own rules in place and invite people who think that's what a prom should be.
At the end of the day, the parents and students made their decision, didn't they? She got her day in court. She got the prom she wanted. But was it really worth it? I don't think so...