Belkira the Tulip wrote:
The "real" prom, if you will, was the super secret prom they didn't want this chick to know about.
What makes either of them the "real" prom?
This is the point I was trying to make in the previous thread (and am still trying to get across here). Something like a prom has value based on what it is to the people attending. She wanted to go to the "real" prom, but wanted to change it from what the other kids wanted, into what she wanted. What happened, predictably, was that she ended out going to the "official" prom, with rules set exactly how she wanted, but the majority of the kids then attended their own prom, with the rules set the way they wanted.
It's interesting that you label their prom the "real" prom, and hers a "fake" prom. What makes one real and one fake? It seems to me that what makes one "real" is that it's the one the majority of students want to attend, with the rules they believe represent what prom means to them. She can't change that. Not with all the lawyers in the world.
She is the one who refused to attend a prom which matched what most people wanted prom to be. If she ended out at a "fake" prom as a result, she has no one to blame but herself.