BrownDuck wrote:
At any rate, the situation described by Locke is a hell of a lot less cut and dry than say, a woman turning up the next day beaten, bruised, generally @#%^ed over.
So like... if he'd left marks? Hmmm...
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
My inclination, when a woman says rape, is to believe her.
Sure. But what about after she's been seeing this guy secretly behind her boyfriends back and describes the sex as "good" and "rough, the way I like it". And then months later confides that the guy was actually raping her the whole time? Dunno. Something just doesn't add up there.
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Given the fact that this woman in particular has been adamant about not wanting to go to the police, and that her boyfriend has no idea she cheated on him, I don't see much of an incentive for her to lie about being raped, and certainly not about having been repeatedly raped.
She feels guilty? She figures it'll get back to her boyfriend eventually? Wasn't part of the story that the entire Academic Team knew by the time she quit? The desire to not be viewed or labeled as a **** is a pretty darn strong motivator for this kind of thing. The realization that her story doesn't add up even a little bit would nicely explain the whole "not going to the police" thing. But if she tells individuals privately, it can make her feel less guilty and set up a back story if things become more public.
She was clearly seeking out this relationship at least to some degree. It's kinda hard to not be able to avoid having sex with a guy every single day after class. Heck. I'm going to go out on a limb and state that it's hard to arrange to do that and should be trivially easy to avoid if either party wants to. This does not preclude the sort of psychological pressures he may have placed on her, but as I've stated in other threads on this subject, it's impossible to prove.
I agree with the "talk to a professional" bit. Whether she's lying, or covering up her guilt, or just allowed herself to be victimized by a guy telling her things (did he actually beat her up, or just threaten to?), or some combination of the above, she's got some issues she needs to deal with. I would not go on some crusade to "stop" the guy in question. By all means ask some questions if you want to, but it's entirely possible he just thinks she's some chick who was willing to bang him after class every day and has no clue what she's saying. Honestly, you're unlikely to find out "the truth" either way. Probably best to stay the hell out of it.