Anyone doing anything fun and exciting tonight? (was forum=2Follow

You know what they say, you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover. I've thought about changing my avatar to something more kinky recently, but I rather like my school mascot one. Especially since the picture the duck is holding is of him/her teabagging another school's mascot.

And yeah, I think it's funny when people rate others down without at least giving some indication of who it was and why they did so.

It's the internet; if you're going to want to define yourself by your OMG SEX practices, you're going to have to try harder than that. Or maybe question why the most interesting thing about you is that you get half naked and beaten on in public, something that literally any person on the planet could do if they actually wanted to.

Sounds like a wild night.

So you have a BF, a Mistress and a Brother Submissive. What role does your BF play? Along for kicks or Dom as well and you have an open Bi Relationship...?

Either way, email my wife and teach her how to have fun.



Also, I never understood locking and linking a mature thread from the OoT. Yes the content was way above PG-13 but providing a link to the thread in a Mature Forum seems kind of counterproductive.

Edited, Mar 1st 2010 10:11am by Soracloud

Well, before I got involved in the kink scene I was frustrated with my BF in bed too. He wasn't comfortable with giving in to my masochistic side, and his interest in just generally kinky activities was pretty low. But when I started going, he was curious and wanted to start going too. He had gone to a fetish ball last spring and it had piqued his curiousity, but he also said it wasn't as interesting as he had expected, and he wanted to see some "real" BDSM. Now he's fairly sure that he's a Dom, but his flavor of kink is still a bit different than mine. Plus we've been together for 2.5 years now, our relationship dynamic is pretty solid and we're happy with where it is. We're not really interested in changing that up now and trying to play with D/s, but he is looking for a sub of his own now. And we're poly. I made a thread a few months back about it. The relationship with the other guy didn't end up working out, mostly because he's still reeling from his divorce and he really doesn't know what he wants. But there were some definite benefits to the experience that I wouldn't trade for anything.

I equate public beatings with sex in public in some sense. I think there's some similar aspects to them, and that's why I enjoy it. While I've never actually had public sex, I've always wanted to. Plus it's really helped me with my body issues. I still want to lose weight, but I don't feel nearly as insecure as I used to. It's hard not to get over your body issues when you get nearly naked in front of people once a week. Plus there's some other ladies in the community who are 2 to 3 times my size that get half naked themselves. If they can do it, I figured I could too.

@ Jophiel,
I mostly posted this because I was excited about the fetish ball. I wasn't doing it for the attention really, although I suppose subconsciously that may have been part of my motivation. I'm just an open book, and I like talking about my experiences. If people ask me questions, I'm more than likely going to answer them. I don't define myself by my interest in BDSM, but I suppose I do think it's one of the more interesting things about me. I'm a college student, the rest of my life is pretty much just studying and working an unexciting job 10 hours a week. In other words, it's kind of boring. Once I graduate and get my teacher's certification I'm pretty sure my life will be more interesting, especially if I get a job teaching at an inner city school, which is what I want to do for at least a few years.

Who wants to take bets on how long it takes for the inevitable cynicism to set in?

This is where one hope they know the rules.

When you see someone you know from the Seen in public, you are to act like you never meet them before.

Number One reason that, I will never give out my Fet-life SN to 99.99 of the population.

So, you're into BDSM, you're posting about it and willing to post pictures too and your career aspirations are as a teacher? Do you expect to last long before your sexual preferences are ousted and a handful of ultra conservative parents demand that you're let go, and win?

Edited, Mar 2nd 2010 8:00am by Uglysasquatch

No, we just happen to think alike on this particular subject. I don't have that kind of free time.

If I were a fat chick I'd want people to slap me, too.

I know, but I couldn't help imagining a lesbian taking pictures of her adopted baby on a leash in BDSM leather. I had to remind myself that Pigtails was the fat one who has posted far less pictures of herself, thank goodness.

Plus, I always thought Popcornshowers was a Growlingbunny sock anyway. This "I'm gonna be a teacher, beat me with whips and chains!" **** reeks of GB-level attention-whoring as well. Barf.

This thread just reminds me about how mad I am that I can't find a good replica **** officer uniform for less than $1,000.

Then don't buy a replica. $795

I'm a problem solver.