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#1 Feb 01 2010 at 6:02 PM Rating: Good
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Sir Terry Pratchett gave a lecture tonight. It was broadcast on BBC TV and was a balance between laughter and tears. Google it, and you'll soon find a spoof or a transcript.

Diagnosed with a terminal illness that will leave him in a debilitated state, he wants to choose a dignified death. administered to his own wishes, by those he chooses, over a sterile technological so-called 'life-support'

Do you agree with my right to choose how I die, once death is inevitable in the short term?
Yes:40 (58.0%)
No:0 (0.0%)
As long as we have checks and balances about greedy inheritors, yes.:23 (33.3%)
The most endearing quality of Marilyn Monroe was her naive innocence, combined with her curvaceous body and glamoUrous on-screen persona:6 (8.7%)
Total:69
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#2 Feb 01 2010 at 6:08 PM Rating: Good
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If the person requires machines and drugs just to keep them comatose, I'm for pulling the plug. Kind of disgusting forcing them to "live" through that.
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#3 Feb 01 2010 at 6:09 PM Rating: Excellent
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I picked the ones with "checks" in it but I'd prefer checks of a different variety.


I think that anyone wanting to go through with assisted suicide should first be required to sit with psychologist/psychiatrist/whathaveyou. Not to determine whether or not they are "of the right mind" but more to just explore their options and reasons for wanting to end it. Sometimes talking about things changes your perspective.
#4 Feb 01 2010 at 6:11 PM Rating: Good
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I'm all for it if some checks and balances are in place.

#5 Feb 01 2010 at 6:13 PM Rating: Good
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I don't know of any good argument against assisted suicide.
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#6 Feb 01 2010 at 6:14 PM Rating: Excellent
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Not that I'm against it, but it's a hell of a burden to place on the person pulling the plug.
#7 Feb 01 2010 at 6:15 PM Rating: Excellent
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Not that I'm against it, but it's a hell of a burden to place on the person pulling the plug.
It's called Love
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#8 Feb 01 2010 at 6:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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I picked yes. If I'm going to die anyway, no hope at all, then I don't want to be hooked to machines and be a drain on everyone - mentally and financially.
#9 Feb 01 2010 at 6:33 PM Rating: Good
I listened to what I could find. I really wasn't swayed by Baroness Finlay's counterarguments.

What about dementia? I don't know if people are clearly near death when dementia takes their minds, but in either case I'd like to have what Pratchett was talking about which is a tribunal before which the case could be laid out that a person has had enough - including that they are becoming senile - and have that considered and registered in a public place if indeed permission is given. I think any abuse will show up fairly clearly and that in the future most people will choose this over what will continue to become prolonged old age.



#10 Feb 01 2010 at 7:03 PM Rating: Good
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I'm all for assisted suicide. I think we sometimes treat our pets with more dignity by allowing them to die peacefully than we do our human loved ones and I can not figure out why so many people don't get it. There is nothing remotely dignifying, humane, or peaceful in being hooked up to a bunch of machines to keep you going "a little bit longer" while in physical agony, draining your finances, most especially if the person hooked up has asked to be allowed to die. I dont want that. And it does nothing for the loved ones who have to watch you suffer that much longer in the end.

People should have a right to determine how they wish to leave this world, if they know that their lives are coming to a close. I don't think it's too much to ask.

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#11 Feb 01 2010 at 7:39 PM Rating: Excellent
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Yeah, I'm all for this.

I had to pull the plug on my brother a few years ago after he suffered a severe head injury that left him bed-ridden with a tube to drain the fluids that would otherwise have built up on his brain.

It was actually a very easy decision to reach. We were very close and had talked about this very situation several times (his health had never been good and he was worried about just such an event). Once the doctors confirmed that there was no realistic likelihood of recovery it was just a matter of signing all the right papers to free the hospital of liability.

Mercifully, once we halted the suction pump that was draining the fluids he died in less than a minute, with no apparent discomfort.

So, yeah.
#12 Feb 01 2010 at 7:54 PM Rating: Decent
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I'd rather be dead then be a vegetable for the rest of my life.
#13 Feb 01 2010 at 8:07 PM Rating: Excellent
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Nobby wrote:
Atomicflea wrote:
Not that I'm against it, but it's a hell of a burden to place on the person pulling the plug.
It's called Love
Love goes both ways, doesn't it?

I'm not sure I could do that to Joph, leave him with that on his head.

I'll make up an advanced directive with instructions for DNR, but I couldn't ask him to take that sort of step. I imagine I would do so for him, should he ask.

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#14 Feb 01 2010 at 9:38 PM Rating: Good
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I'd rather be dead then be a vegetable for the rest of my life.
Unless it's a Celeriac or some other classy veg, right?
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#15 Feb 01 2010 at 9:44 PM Rating: Good
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There should be a process, but yes. And I'd like to add that the process should be straightforward, even while putting in place checks and balances. Personally I wouldn't choose that route, but I would have a DNR order. I'd also make sure that my will specified that I wasn't to be kept alive in a vegetative state.
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#16 Feb 01 2010 at 9:56 PM Rating: Excellent
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I thouhgt you brits just had someone named "max" who ran around with a decorative metal hammer taking care of things like that?
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#17 Feb 01 2010 at 10:12 PM Rating: Excellent
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#18 Feb 01 2010 at 10:34 PM Rating: Good
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I agree with the checks and balances thing and the tribunal. The person in question should be either fully cognizant of what's going on, or utterly incapable of producing brainwaves.
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#19 Feb 01 2010 at 10:52 PM Rating: Excellent
No. We must freeze his brain in a jar for future generations to cure his Alzheimers so we can get more Discworld.
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No. We must freeze his brain in a jar for future generations to cure his Alzheimers so we can get more Discworld.
I support this.
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#21 Feb 02 2010 at 12:06 AM Rating: Good
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I found a partial transcript of the thing - and while I got the impression that he picked his words with great care and was rather self-conscious (given the setting and subject matter, not surprising) - I felt he took a fairly reasonable tack.

From a legislative perspective this is difficult to bring about properly. Broadly the idea is to set up a tribunal with a mandate to give people what they want so long as they have made a serious approach towards considering all that would go into the decision. Fairly obvious to me is that it would be a opt-in only sort of deal - the default state is that people don't want to die unless they (or a relative if they cannot) explicitly indicate otherwise.

In my mind the situations would break out like this:

Self-applicant - Person who goes before the panel to define a set of circumstances where they would like to be killed - limits on reasonable expectation (so a 35 year old with no family history of ALS and who was undiagnosed wouldn't make it in the door if seeking assisted death in the case of ALS - that's just time wasting), the person's general psychological well being.

Application for relative - available in the absences of the self-application for sudden/unexpected/mis- or non-diagnosed disease or accident. Certainly would need a lot more checks than in the case of the self-application, lots of questions over who would have the proper standing in the case (see the Terry Schivo case, husband vs parents). This would just have gray areas, no real way around it.

State ward (who isn't going with self-application) - probably the most severe in terms of backlash (death gubberment death panels anyone?) - but fairly straightforward to legislate sensibly. A state ward gets triggered for review upon meeting certain clearly defined conditions - there's an advocate for and against who present to the panel, the panel decides.

Of course the cynic in me says that humans are never reasonable about death - and that anything that will initially come out will more resemble the current law he says would have "those wishing to assist a friend or relative to die would have to meet quite a large number of criteria in order to escape the chance of prosecution for murder" than anything sensible.
#22 Feb 02 2010 at 12:21 AM Rating: Excellent
There is a big difference between "coma" and "persistant vegetative state" by the by. If I'm in an actual coma, then no, don't pull the plug on me. If I'm a vegetable with no discernible higher brain activity left, then yes, knock me out.

My father's last words were, "Get this damn tube out of my mouth." That was his breathing tube, by the by. I think he decided it was time to go, and the hospital didn't have the heart to disagree at that point.
#23 Feb 02 2010 at 2:19 AM Rating: Good
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I don't know of any good argument against assisted suicide.


Me neither. I suppose the difficulty lies in finding the right checks and balances so that mistakes don't happen, but even that can't be that hard to do. This really is one of those topics that should've been settled ages ago.
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#24 Feb 02 2010 at 3:01 AM Rating: Decent
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I'm all for assisted suicide. I think we sometimes treat our pets with more dignity by allowing them to die peacefully than we do our human loved ones and I can not figure out why so many people don't get it.


Because as much as you love that damn dog, you can get a new one for 45 bucks and 30 minutes at the vet getting it's balls chopped off. We have such a fear of human death, we just can't let go, no matter how selfish.

Shame.
#25 Feb 02 2010 at 6:13 AM Rating: Excellent
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Lady DSD wrote:
I'm all for assisted suicide. I think we sometimes treat our pets with more dignity by allowing them to die peacefully than we do our human loved ones and I can not figure out why so many people don't get it.


Because as much as you love that damn dog, you can get a new one for 45 bucks and 30 minutes at the vet getting it's balls chopped off. We have such a fear of human death, we just can't let go, no matter how selfish.

Shame.
It's true that it's selfish in some cases, but I've experienced about four family conferences in four years (the polite name we give to gathering the family to tell them there is no hope/this is as good as this person's gonna get/consider pulling the plug/can we have organs/this is going to get expensive for you if you want to keep him in your house) where the family struggles to come to a decision, reaches none and four days later the patient starts to move their eyes and fingers enough to answer simple questions, and they all want to live. They all want recovery to the extent that it's possible. We follow them all through therapy and recovery and they are all grateful, even though they're often left with permanent damage, both physical and mental.

I'm all behind making your own decision, but how can you be certain you would make the right one for another person?
#26 Feb 02 2010 at 6:38 AM Rating: Excellent
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Cold and practical answer incoming:

If your loved one pulled the plug on you and it really *wasn't* your time to die, how would you know?
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