catwho, pet mage of Jabober wrote:
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Stop hiding buddy and just tell us you had a little bump and grind with someone else... Its ok...we forgive celebrities who come forward and admit to things...
I don't. I consider infidelity the biggest sin, the gravest breach of trust, you can commit against a person short of directly injuring them. And once and trust has been breached it can never be brought back.
In this case, it seems both infidelity and bodily injury are involved from various parties. He shouldn't have cheated, she shouldn't have "gone ghetto."
Time for Divorceville.
While I might agree with you in terms of my own relationship, Tiger Woods allegedly cheating on his super model wife does not erode any trust I ever placed in him. I also don't think that a snap "time for a divorce" judgement is necessary. Personally, I find her scratching his face (allegedly) a much worse offense than his (allegedly) sleeping with someone else.
I also think that I would divorce my husband in a New York minute if he cheated on me, but I
know that it would be dependent on the situation. It sort of bothers me, but I know I love my husband enough that I might try to make it work, if I could empathize with the situation. It would take a ton of work and a lot of trust rebuilding, but I know that I would be loathe to give up my marriage.
That's the funny thing about these situations. It's so much more complex than "infidelity is bad, get a divorce."