publiusvarus wrote:
Tulip,
If men have no say in whether or not a child is aborted why should the man be responsible for financially caring for something he had no say in? Basically you're saying it's a womans problem until the child is born then it becomes the guys problem.
If men have no say in whether or not a child is aborted why should the man be responsible for financially caring for something he had no say in? Basically you're saying it's a womans problem until the child is born then it becomes the guys problem.
No, once it's born, it's both of their problem. It should be in the womb, too, but really, the woman bears the responsibility for it. She has to carry it, has to have the hormone issues, the weight gain, the aches and the pains. She cannot run away from it. I would love for a woman to be able to give this burden to a man. However, since that is impossible, the decision of whether to carry the child to term or not rests mostly on her shoulders. She is able to override any man or woman who says she should continue to carry it.
Once that kid is born, the man needs to step up and help the kid out. Is it fair? Meh, not really. But any effort to remove the man's responsibility from this hurts the innocent kid, and that's not really acceptable.
Your issue isn't with liberals or democrats. It's with god. Take it up with him/her if you like.