Why is it always assumed that homosexual and same-sex automatically equals gay men??
As a woman, I would have no issue showering in a "communal setting" with a lesbian. I'm not terrified of a woman looking at my body. Mostly because she's got her own, and she's seen it all before.
Keeping women out of the front line because men are stupid when women are around is idiotic. If a woman can do the job, then by god, there's no reason for her to be relegated to an office job or kept far behind the front line. It's insulting. Almost as insulting as a man who thrusts himself in danger to help her just because she's got tits.
Keeping gay men out of the army because some straight guy is going to be worried that his fellow soldier is looking at his wang is moronic. Keeping lesbians out of the army because they might, possibly, notice another woman's naked body is just as moronic.
It sounds to me like what's needed is better discipline and a breaking down of the social barriers that surround homosexuality.
ETA: Oh, and on the whole AIDS thing. Once again, people are using the term "homosexuals" to allude only to gay men. The risk of lesbians getting AIDS from intercourse with other women is so miniscule, it's not even funny. Heterosexual women are far more likely to get it from a heterosexual man.
And, as shocking as it may seem, heterosexuals engage in a lot of risky sexual behavior. Heterosexual couples even have **** sex. I know, this must come as a surprise to some of you, given some of the responses I'm reading.
Edited, Oct 13th 2009 9:27am by Belkira