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#52 Sep 28 2009 at 11:44 AM Rating: Good
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I really don't get this. I don't understand how your only motivation to make good grades comes from being in a harder class. You still would've been a part of the "honors program," right? You still would've gotten to go to the museums and what not? The only thing holding you back was yourself. Why do we blame the schools for not being "challenging" enough, when we don't place any blame on the students and their parents for pushing themselves into doing good?


I'd assume because sitting in a room re-learning something you learned 3 years prior is pretty boring, and would not inspire the student to care at all about the class. Would you put any effort at all in doing work in a place where you we "learning" basic addition or something for a solid week?


Ok, "relearning," I can understand. Though, I would put effort into it just because I wouldn't want my grades to fall (or to get fired, if you use your example). That's not what I got from the post. I was taking it as simply not as challenging. Not repetative, just not as hard.
#53 Sep 28 2009 at 11:47 AM Rating: Good
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I really don't get this. I don't understand how your only motivation to make good grades comes from being in a harder class. You still would've been a part of the "honors program," right?


The honors program was dropped because they didn't feel they should be spending the money on a program that had dropped to the same level as the rest of the classes. It became a waste of money.

And yes, the challenge was the motivation. Maintaining my grades so I could continue to attend the more challenging classes was all it was. I didn't feel I was learning anything I didn't already know in my regular classes and no longer saw the point of continuing my education if I wasn't learning anything.

I eventually dropped out when I turned 16 and got my G.E.D. at 17. Had I known then what I know now, I would have stuck it out. However, trying to explain the value of an education to someone who isn't being taught anything they don't already know doesn't work very well. Hence the reason I've returned to college and decided to begin working on my Bachelors.
#54 Sep 28 2009 at 11:49 AM Rating: Good
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I really don't get this. I don't understand how your only motivation to make good grades comes from being in a harder class. You still would've been a part of the "honors program," right?


The honors program was dropped because they didn't feel they should be spending the money on a program that had dropped to the same level as the rest of the classes. It became a waste of money.

And yes, the challenge was the motivation. Maintaining my grades so I could continue to attend the more challenging classes was all it was. I didn't feel I was learning anything I didn't already know in my regular classes and no longer saw the point of continuing my education if I wasn't learning anything.

I eventually dropped out when I turned 16 and got my G.E.D. at 17. Had I known then what I know now, I would have stuck it out. However, trying to explain the value of an education to someone who isn't being taught anything they don't already know doesn't work very well. Hence the reason I've returned to college and decided to begin working on my Bachelors.


Well, I can understand that, I suppose. But I don't understand why you'd just throw it away once you'd put all that work into it.

And where were your parents while you started flunking classes?
#55 Sep 28 2009 at 11:50 AM Rating: Good
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Ok, "relearning," I can understand. Though, I would put effort into it just because I wouldn't want my grades to fall (or to get fired, if you use your example). That's not what I got from the post. I was taking it as simply not as challenging. Not repetative, just not as hard.


But for people care about the information but not the grades, you could see why they wouldn't really put forth a solid effort, right?
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#56 Sep 28 2009 at 11:55 AM Rating: Good
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Over a few months the level of the class dropped to a point that their was no difference between the honors program and normal classes. Losing the only challenge I had in school pretty much killed any motivation I had left to continue school. I pretty much stopped participating, my grades dropped and regardless of my 8 years worth of outstanding test scores, I was labeled as a problem student and dropped into the very basic classes, further adding to the problem.


I really don't get this. I don't understand how your only motivation to make good grades comes from being in a harder class. You still would've been a part of the "honors program," right? You still would've gotten to go to the museums and what not? The only thing holding you back was yourself. Why do we blame the schools for not being "challenging" enough, when we don't place any blame on the students and their parents for pushing themselves into doing good?
In short, it was the reason I dropped business and went into mathematics.
#57 Sep 28 2009 at 11:58 AM Rating: Good
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Ok, "relearning," I can understand. Though, I would put effort into it just because I wouldn't want my grades to fall (or to get fired, if you use your example). That's not what I got from the post. I was taking it as simply not as challenging. Not repetative, just not as hard.


But for people care about the information but not the grades, you could see why they wouldn't really put forth a solid effort, right?


I guess, sort of. I mean, when I was in high school, my eye was always on the bigger prize. Meaning going to college, getting accepted to a good college.
#58 Sep 28 2009 at 12:04 PM Rating: Good
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I guess, sort of. I mean, when I was in high school, my eye was always on the bigger prize. Meaning going to college, getting accepted to a good college


As opposed to the prize of obtaining knowledge?
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#59 Sep 28 2009 at 12:07 PM Rating: Good
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I guess, sort of. I mean, when I was in high school, my eye was always on the bigger prize. Meaning going to college, getting accepted to a good college


As opposed to the prize of obtaining knowledge?


Wouldn't going on to college further that prize much better than dropping out of school...? Can you really not see how one furthers the other? Or are you just trying to be contrary until Pensive can show up and tell me I'm philosophically immoral for not praising Raolan for protesting his school by dropping out?

ETA: I'm still curious to know where his parents were when he was failing his classes.

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#60 Sep 28 2009 at 12:09 PM Rating: Decent
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And where were your parents while you started flunking classes?


Believe me, they fought tooth and nail with me and the school administration but the school simply didn't care, so they did nothing to help my parents get me back in school. In lower income school districts, problem students are usually brushed off and ignored. My parents went to the extent of threatening the school with legal action if they didn't send a truancy officer after me. Unfortunately, they didn't have the financial means to back their threats.

Plus having a child who's smarter than the majority of the school administration doesn't make things easy. I would usually show up to my first class and then take off after it. Administration saw I was in class first hour and left it alone, the rest of my teachers were used to me not showing up and figured administration already knew I wasn't there because my first period teacher was supposed to report it.

I was also dealing with depression at that age and one of the biggest problems with depression is boredom, so it wasn't simply a matter of being bored and riding out the classes. That's one of the reasons a constant challenge was so important to me. It got to the point of being mind numbingly painful to sit there and listen to teachers go on and on about crap I already knew.
#61 Sep 28 2009 at 12:12 PM Rating: Good
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Wouldn't going on to college further that prize much better than dropping out of school...? Can you really not see how one furthers the other? Or are you just trying to be contrary until Pensive can show up and tell me I'm philosophically immoral for not praising Raolan for protesting his school by dropping out?

ETA: I'm still curious to know where his parents were when he was failing his classes.


Hey, I'm not advocating dropping out instead of getting higher education.
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#62 Sep 28 2009 at 12:12 PM Rating: Decent
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Wouldn't going on to college further that prize much better than dropping out of school...? Can you really not see how one furthers the other? Or are you just trying to be contrary until Pensive can show up and tell me I'm philosophically immoral for not praising Raolan for protesting his school by dropping out?


I wasn't trying to rebel against the school or anything, I just didn't see the point in continuing something that taught me nothing and took no effort.
#63 Sep 28 2009 at 12:14 PM Rating: Good
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And where were your parents while you started flunking classes?


Believe me, they fought tooth and nail with me and the school administration but the school simply didn't care, so they did nothing to help my parents get me back in school. In lower income school districts, problem students are usually brushed off and ignored. My parents went to the extent of threatening the school with legal action if they didn't send a truancy officer after me. Unfortunately, they didn't have the financial means to back their threats.

Plus having a child who's smarter than the majority of the school administration doesn't make things easy. I would usually show up to my first class and then take off after it. Administration saw I was in class first hour and left it alone, the rest of my teachers were used to me not showing up and figured administration already knew I wasn't there because my first period teacher was supposed to report it.

I was also dealing with depression at that age and one of the biggest problems with depression is boredom, so it wasn't simply a matter of being bored and riding out the classes. That's one of the reasons a constant challenge was so important to me. It got to the point of being mind numbingly painful to sit there and listen to teachers go on and on about crap I already knew.


Bully for your parents for trying to get the school to do things better, but really, they should've dealt with you more, in my opinion.

My mother was practically her own truancy officer when it came to my grades. She drilled it into my head that the only way to get ahead and learn anything was to do good in high school so you can go on to college. She wanted a better life for me than she ever had, and she pushed me really hard. I can never thank her enough for it.
#64 Sep 28 2009 at 12:16 PM Rating: Decent
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Hey, I'm not advocating dropping out instead of getting higher education.


Neither am I and that's not what I'm trying to portray. I completely understand that I am the exception, not the rule. I just feel I was failed by the school system and people with the potential I had slipping through the cracks due to monetary reasons is a major problem.

As I said, I've decided to go back to college. I didn't make the decision for myself, I made it because I knew I couldn't properly support my daughter on my current level of education and there's not a chance in hell I'm going to allow my daughter to go through the same thing I did.
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Neither am I and that's not what I'm trying to portray. I completely understand that I am the exception, not the rule. I just feel I was failed by the school system and people with the potential I had slipping through the cracks due to monetary reasons is a major problem.


Eh, I wouldn't say it's exceedingly uncommon either.
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School choice is a fucking joke, specifically designed to break teachers unions.


This. It's an incredibly meaningless rallying cry. It just is an attempt to give government money to private companies by switching it all the schools' budgets to vendors who compete for government contracts.


As opposed to our current method, in which the same government money is handed out based on the desires of the organizations who donated the most money to their elected officials campaigns? You're right! That's soooo much better than allowing any sort of competition for the money.


Here's why I'm in favor of some sort of voucher system. You're all running around in circles over the issue of how you "test" performance. Who decides whether a teacher is a "good teacher" or a school is a "good school"? What criteria do they use? That's really the issue, isn't it? NCLB's problems were all about figuring out how to determine those criteria, and pretty much any and every method we come up with ends out being less than idea.

With a voucher program, the consumer of the product decides what is "good". Specifically, the parent or guardian of the child determines that criteria by choosing where to spend their voucher. I know. It clearly can't work because it doesn't involve massive numbers of government "experts" making those decisions. Or would it?


We can debate what we thing is best for each and every child in the US all day long, but it just seems like the parents might be the best source of that info. And the bonus is that we don't have to spend massive amounts of money trying to figure it all out. Just let them spend the vouchers. Sometimes, the simplest solutions really are the best.
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#67 Sep 28 2009 at 12:24 PM Rating: Decent
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Bully for your parents for trying to get the school to do things better, but really, they should've dealt with you more, in my opinion.

My mother was practically her own truancy officer when it came to my grades. She drilled it into my head that the only way to get ahead and learn anything was to do good in high school so you can go on to college. She wanted a better life for me than she ever had, and she pushed me really hard. I can never thank her enough for it.


I place no blame on my parents. They did everything they could to get me to go back, to the extent of getting the cops involved and trying to physically drag me to school. The problem is I was around 5' 6", 150 pounds and my mother was around 5' 4", 130 pounds. Add in the fact that I was a defensive back for the local football team and she simply wasn't big or strong enough to do it. My father was a bit bigger but he didn't live with us, so by the time he showed up I was usually gone. He wasn't really big enough to physically control me in that way either though. He could take me down, but keeping me down was another story. The cops were about as useful to her as the school administration. They didn't feel like wasting their time with a problem student when they had much more important things to deal with. Believe me, my parents did everything they could to keep me in school, it simply didn't work.


Edit: I think my shift key is dieing.

Edited, Sep 28th 2009 2:27pm by Raolan
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With a voucher program, the consumer of the product decides what is "good". Specifically, the parent or guardian of the child determines that criteria by choosing where to spend their voucher. I know. It clearly can't work because it doesn't involve massive numbers of government "experts" making those decisions. Or would it?

So far, no. And I'd rather have an educational system which produces the smartest kidlets, not the one that makes the parents feel happiest in order to get their dollars.

Sorry, I'm not in favor of revamping the entire system just for the GOP talking point experiment when all the real attempts so far have shown that there's no educational benefit.
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#69 Sep 28 2009 at 12:35 PM Rating: Good
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I place no blame on my parents. They did everything they could to get me to go back, to the extent of getting the cops involved and trying to physically drag me to school. The problem is I was around 5' 6", 150 pounds and my mother was around 5' 4", 130 pounds. Add in the fact that I was a defensive back for the local football team and she simply wasn't big or strong enough to do it. My father was a bit bigger but he didn't live with us, so by the time he showed up I was usually gone. He wasn't really big enough to physically control me in that way either though. He could take me down, but keeping me down was another story. The cops were about as useful to her as the school administration. They didn't feel like wasting their time with a problem student when they had much more important things to deal with. Believe me, my parents did everything they could to keep me in school, it simply didn't work.


Edit: I think my shift key is dieing.

Edited, Sep 28th 2009 2:27pm by Raolan


So they had no way of controlling you except physically? They couldn't take your car keys away? Cut off your access to money?

It sounds more and more to me like you were just a bad kid than an issue with the school.

Don't get me wrong, please. Under funded schools and cancelling honors programs is a travesty, and it should be corrected, big time. But it bothers me to no end to see someone blame the school and only the school on them dropping out. You weren't just bored with your classes. It sounds to me like you were a punk, as well.
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The program was pretty small, 8-10 kids if I remember correctly. The problem started when someone realized that their were only white kids in the program. Entrance into the program had nothing to do with gender, it was based purely on an entrance exam


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Sorry, ethnicity. I'm working on my finals and my brain's a bit fried right now. I just finished a paper discussing e-commerce and internet marketing and how it can be designed to focus on different genders and ethnic groups.
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The program was pretty small, 8-10 kids if I remember correctly. The problem started when someone realized that their were only white kids in the program. Entrance into the program had nothing to do with gender, it was based purely on an entrance exam


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Sorry, ethnicity. I'm working on my finals and my brain's a bit fried right now. I just finished a paper discussing e-commerce and internet marketing and how it can be designed to focus on different genders and ethnic groups.


How do you have finals in September? Not that I don't believe you, I just thought most colleges were just now starting up, not ending. Is it a summer class thing?
#72 Sep 28 2009 at 12:53 PM Rating: Decent
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So they had no way of controlling you except physically? They couldn't take your car keys away? Cut off your access to money?

It sounds more and more to me like you were just a bad kid than an issue with the school.

Don't get me wrong, please. Under funded schools and cancelling honors programs is a travesty, and it should be corrected, big time. But it bothers me to no end to see someone blame the school and only the school on them dropping out. You weren't just bored with your classes. It sounds to me like you were a punk, as well.


Didn't have a car or a license in 8th grade and money wasn't really an issue since I didn't have any to begin with. Other than taking away my books, which is the majority of what I did, what were they supposed to do? Taking away something that offers a level of educational value, albeit small, is a bit contradictory to the problem.

I won't sit here and say I was an angel, but I wasn't a trouble maker either. The fact that I was a good kid for the most part is one of the reasons the cops wouldn't get involved. I wasn't out causing trouble when I wasn't in school so I wasn't their problem.

When I dropped out at 16 I didn't have a license and I immediately found a full time job. When I had the money to go to driving school I went, got my license, bought my own car, paid my own insurance paid for my G.E.D. and continued with my life.
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How do you have finals in September? Not that I don't believe you, I just thought most colleges were just now starting up, not ending. Is it a summer class thing?


I take online classes, they go year round. This is my first term which started the very end of July and my finals are due Oct. 4th. Classes are 10 weeks long and worth 5-6 credits each.
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How do you have finals in September? Not that I don't believe you, I just thought most colleges were just now starting up, not ending. Is it a summer class thing?


I take online classes, they go year round. This is my first term which started the very end of July and my finals are due Oct. 4th. Classes are 10 weeks long and worth 5-6 credits each.


What are you majoring in?
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Major in IT with a focus in Information Security and Computer Forensics.
#76 Sep 28 2009 at 1:34 PM Rating: Good
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Major in IT with a focus in Information Security and Computer Forensics.


Are you wanting to work in law enforcement?

Man, if I had it all to do over again, I'd be a blood spatter analysis like Dexter. Oh, except without all the killing.
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