Kavekk the Ludicrous wrote:
Yes, CBD, I am calling you stupid.
I'm deeply offended.
Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
You'd have to say something wroth replying to first. You made a claim: that I was using a word incorrectly. Demonstrate where this meaning is false.
"Please provide context and elaboration. Well. In a manner I like. And I won't tell you when I like it or not, but I reserve the right to ***** about it later."
I'll pass on continuing this discussion with you if that's the way this is going to work.
Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
You haven't yet done so. Doing so would require several people, from both prescriptive and descriptive schools of grammatical understanding, to intuitively support your position, else you can't claim that it's anything but a projection of your particular linguistic development.
If you tell your mother "I am either going to cut back on my hours at work or drop out of school." she will probably assume you mean one or the other, not both. You could do both, but if you were to, she'd probably be a little bit surprised (beyond the fact that it would generally be a terrible life choice).
"I believe my headache is from either from low blood sugar, or that loud concert last night." - sure it could be both, but (because of that damn either) I'm going to assume that you're meaning you think there's one culprit.
http://hubpages.com/hub/Grammar_Mishaps__Neither-Nor_and_Either-Or wrote:
"Either" is also a singular adjective. It means one or the other, but not both. "Either" expresses one noun/pronoun doing one thing and the other noun/pronoun doing another; in this way it is a "positive" word because what is occurring is true. "Either" can be paired with "or", but not "nor".
http://www.perfectyourenglish.com/usage/either.htm wrote:
Either means one or the other of two. It is used before a singular noun.
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Either … or is used to talk about a choice between two alternatives.
Maybe this is just a lot of contextual issues stemming from you using either with a list of more than two items, but it certainly isn't something I'm making up for ***** and giggles.
Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
It's also a bit hard for me to fathom why you should take a compliment and interpret it as some strike against you or argument about which to practice some painfully amateur psychology, but if it makes you happy, I can't complain.
I was under the impression that the "thank you for validating my feelings" was implying that I was attempting to change the conversation in order to dodge the fact that I can't support my own claims. I can see now how you meant it in the sense of "thank you for showing me that I'm not the only one who gets really damn annoyed by his nonsense." but I think you can also see why I wouldn't have initially taken it that way.