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#102 Sep 04 2009 at 1:20 PM Rating: Decent
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Ted Kennedy was an effective Senator. But he did basically kill someone. Even if he wasn't drunk, he still walked away from a human being who was dead or dying. He didn't even tell anybody about it until the next morning. That's what's most damning. Also, it's not like he was some college kid who made a mistake either, he was 37.


Hmmm...

I find this statement odd.

"That's what's most damning" being the odd part.

"Damning" could be seen as a religious term in this case, especially with the religious anger thrown around in this thread already.

"Most damning" implies that not telling someone was worse than killing someone. Odd.

And sure, mention his flaws. No one cares pointing out his flaws; usually it's the "he's burning in hell!" comments that tick people off. I don't think you'll find many sane people who will go "Teddy did good killing that girl!" But, especially when someone JUST died, you tend to skate past the negative aspects. We did the same for Reagan (granted, he didn't kill anyone that I know of, but he made a lot of bad decisions in my opinion that caused tons of suffering).


Well I can see why you're confused about the "damning" situation. I think you misunderstood me. When I say that his not telling anyone until the next morning was "most damning", I don't mean anything religious at all. Look at my sig to see how religious I am lol. I also didn't mean it as "just killing her would be better".

I mean that not telling anyone until the next day after the body was found is the worst thing overall that he did that night if we take out the possibility of avoiding the accident. If everything else had happened, but he called someone immediately, then it changes everything. If you take out the fact that he left and went to sleep, then he was just a guy who was maybe drunk who crashed his car into some water and was unable to personally save the woman he was with so he called the fire dept/police. That's why I say it's most damning. That is what his detractors point out; not that he crashed the car and killed her, so much as he just left her to die. I guess it's also part anger at his lack of a real punishment for that due to the fact that he was a Kennedy, but I personally don't get caught up in that so much.

I agree with you that it's crass to say things like "he should burn in hell" or even "he was an @sshole" right after his death, but regardless of how recent his death was, you should always tell the truth. Not at the funeral or memorial service or anything, but in general conversation or on the radio? Yes.

Mentioning the facts of what happened at Chappaquddick is not crass; it's just the truth; it's a huge stain on his character, and he's a public figure, so of course people are gonna mention it.

I'm not against talking nice and truthfully about the good things he did, but something like that is hard to avoid. I mean when Nixon died, was Watergate ever mentioned right after his death? Of course.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 5:21pm by DaimenKain
#103 Sep 04 2009 at 2:12 PM Rating: Decent
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Damning the recently deceased is just sick.


Why?

It can't be for lack of respect. The dead can't hear your respect.
It can't be for lack of defenders. The dead have plenty of people to defend their character
It can't be for moral superiority. Anyone concerned with morality would judge the dead and living equally.

The only reason I can come up with are vestigial soteriological implications.

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Or guilt. It could be selfish guilt.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 6:13pm by Pensive
#104 Sep 04 2009 at 2:23 PM Rating: Decent
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Or guilt. It could be selfish guilt.


Yeah. I'm actually the one who killed that lady.

Christ you say some stupid **** sometimes.

"Expound."

No. Deal.
#105 Sep 04 2009 at 2:38 PM Rating: Good
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No. Deal.


I don't need to really deal with anything; my heart doesn't weigh on your response. I have no problem with considering your opinion a relic of you being manipulated into arguing from emotional and outrageous intuitions rather than reason, if you wish it.

And I obviously don't mean guilt over killing the lady, you twit.
#106 Sep 04 2009 at 2:51 PM Rating: Excellent
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
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Damning the recently deceased is just sick.


Why?

It can't be for lack of respect. The dead can't hear your respect.
It can't be for lack of defenders. The dead have plenty of people to defend their character
It can't be for moral superiority. Anyone concerned with morality would judge the dead and living equally.

The only reason I can come up with are vestigial soteriological implications.

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Or guilt. It could be selfish guilt.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 6:13pm by Pensive


Or consideration for the family and friends, and hell - add constituents and admirers in there, too.

But, yeah, consideration is so last century. We've moved past such irrelevancies.

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#107 Sep 04 2009 at 2:54 PM Rating: Good
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I have no problem with considering your opinion a relic of you being manipulated into arguing from emotional and outrageous intuitions rather than reason, if you wish it.


Well fuck, if you know it's opinion (I'll even admit, one pushed by the way people are raised in today's society!) why are you concerned about a factual base to it? You must be a hit at parties.

"I like this beer more."
"That doesn't make a whole lot of sense. This one has been statistically shown to be better tasting to everyone who drinks it."
"...ok, I like this one more."
"YOU'RE MAKING AN EMOTIONAL ARGUMENT ABOUT YOUR OPINION."

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
And I obviously don't mean guilt over killing the lady, you twit.


I feel guilty that he died from brain cancer, as though I should have gotten it instead?
I feel guilty that he died at all, as though I should have in his place?

What nonsense are you putting in my mouth now in order to make a point?
#108 Sep 04 2009 at 3:04 PM Rating: Decent
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Well @#%^, if you know it's opinion (I'll even admit, one pushed by the way people are raised in today's society!) why are you concerned about a factual base to it?


All beliefs are opinions. That doesn't excuse you from defending them, or giving reasons for having them, or finding value in reducing their arbitrary nature. If you don't want to, then that's fine, but it doesn't go very far in making people want to join you in your beliefs.

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"YOU'RE MAKING AN EMOTIONAL ARGUMENT ABOUT YOUR OPINION."


I am doing the same thing when I state that killing people is bad. I'm also doing the same thing when I state that basically any non-mathematical or non-logical truth. All of these can be reasoned and defended.

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Or consideration for the family and friends


Yeah, guilt.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 7:06pm by Pensive
#109 Sep 04 2009 at 3:08 PM Rating: Good
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
If you don't want to, then that's fine, but it doesn't go very far in making people want to join you in your beliefs.


So now I should want the entire world to think as I do, and we create one collective mind?

Uh...

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
Yeah, guilt.


Guilt doesn't mean what you think it means.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I am doing the same thing when I state that killing people is bad. I'm also doing the same thing when I state that basically any non-mathematical or non-logical truth. All of these can be reasoned and defended.


Super. I'm not going to play the "Let's entertain Pensive!" game and hold your hand through the Happy Meadows of Social Interaction as we learn sing-a-longs about Proper Etiquette because you're being deliberately obtuse about something.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 7:10pm by CBD
#110 Sep 04 2009 at 3:14 PM Rating: Decent
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You really think it's deliberate when I ask you to explain something?

I don't argue for the hell of it you know. I argue either to convince, learn, or better understand.
#111 Sep 04 2009 at 3:19 PM Rating: Good
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I argue either to convince, learn, or better understand.


I can't really control your writing style and behavior consistently reflecting the first one rather than the latter two. Just like I can't read minds and decipher which you intend to be pursuing every time you post. Maybe you should be more clear, especially when you're trying to discuss something that is going to seem inherently obvious to essentially every other poster here.


Edited, Sep 4th 2009 7:19pm by CBD
#112 Sep 04 2009 at 3:48 PM Rating: Decent
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I can't really control your writing style and behavior consistently reflecting the first one rather than the latter two.


It's rarely just one of the three. Maybe you just like to think of dialogue as serving only one purpose.



Edited, Sep 4th 2009 7:48pm by Pensive
#113 Sep 04 2009 at 4:28 PM Rating: Good
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It's rarely just one of the three. Maybe you just like to think of dialogue as serving only one purpose.


This may help you out with your writing.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 8:28pm by CBD
#114 Sep 04 2009 at 4:35 PM Rating: Decent
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I have at least two things in mind you could mean by that, and both are ridiculous.
#115 Sep 04 2009 at 4:35 PM Rating: Excellent
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What the fUCk does guilt have to do with simple consideration for the feelings of the recently bereaved?



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#116 Sep 04 2009 at 4:40 PM Rating: Default
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I have at least two things in mind you could mean by that, and both are ridiculous.


1. Either/or statements do not apply to lists of more than two things, but that's just being picky about grammar.
2. If you use "or" in a list, you mean one thing, never multiple.

So if you didn't want me to take it to mean one thing only, you should have written something completely different.

You can argue about that all day if you'd like, but then we're right back to "You're being deliberately obtuse."

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 8:41pm by CBD
#117 Sep 04 2009 at 7:11 PM Rating: Decent
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So if you didn't want me to take it to mean one thing only, you should have written something completely different.


That is @#%^ing ridiculous. "Or"s can be inclusive, and often are. "'Did you go to the store, ride the train, or eat today?' 'Yes, I did each of them.'" If I wanted to exclude the possibility of inclusion, then I'd say "or and not both," and be explicit about it. It is not anything resembling my fault that you don't know the various ways a conjunction might be used.

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What the @#%^ does guilt have to do with simple consideration for the feelings of the recently bereaved?


Obviously since grammar is in contention here, and while I don't expect that you'll misunderstand some silly like an inclusive "or" for an exclusive one, I'm going to point out that the "you" in the preceeding paragraph is formal, anyway.

You feel bad about potentially saying or doing something which could upset them, and the guilt you feel about those ideas makes you abstain from saying or doing them.

edited to respond to two people


Edited, Sep 5th 2009 12:36pm by Pensive
#118 Sep 04 2009 at 7:15 PM Rating: Default
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That is @#%^ing ridiculous. "Or"s can be inclusive, and often are. "'Did you go to the store, ride the train, or eat today?' 'Yes, I did each of them.'" If I wanted to exclude the possibility of inclusion, then I'd say "or and not both," and be explicit about it. It is not anything resembling my fault that you don't know the various ways a conjunction might be used.
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Obviously since grammar is in contention here, and while I don't expect that you'll misunderstand some silly like an inclusive "or" for an exclusive one, I'm going to point out that the "you" in the following paragraph is formal, anyway.


You're such a child sometimes. Smiley: lol

Example fail! For it to be a similar statement, you would have to say "Did you either go to the store, ride the train, or eat today?" at which point you'd be implying (see that beautiful little either there? it changes everything!) that only one of the three was possible.

#119 Sep 04 2009 at 7:33 PM Rating: Good
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Yeah, "either" has no contention at all on the logic of the statement, or the various ways in which it can be true or not true: if at least one element in an or conjunction can be satisfied, it's true; you need not limit what can be true but may, at your option, limit that. Understand? Whether it's correlative or coordinating, the truth conditions are the same, and really that's all I'm going to care about when you are going to use the more subtle aspects of the logic of English to deliberately obfuscate the meaning of something.

It shouldn't be that hard to ask. Try it sometime.

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You're such a child sometimes.


If you have a problem understanding something that you should be able to figure out by context or charity, and want me to write so that you can understand it, then I am going to treat you like a child and explain exactly the commitments of the statement. Sorry.

Edited, Sep 4th 2009 11:35pm by Pensive
#120 Sep 04 2009 at 8:22 PM Rating: Decent
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
Yeah, "either" has no contention at all on the logic of the statement, or the various ways in which it can be true or not true: if at least one element in an or conjunction can be satisfied, it's true; you need not limit what can be true but may, at your option, limit that. Understand? Whether it's correlative or coordinating, the truth conditions are the same, and really that's all I'm going to care about when you are going to use the more subtle aspects of the logic of English to deliberately obfuscate the meaning of something.


Your logic class is all fine and dandy, but we're talking English grammar. Thanks. If you wanna have a discussion using the formal rules of logic, please do so with someone who is actually well-versed in them. I frankly don't give a sh*t to learn all the fine details just for you. My schedule is busy enough without adding "learn formal logic rules for Pensive because he can't have a discussion without using it as a crutch!"

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
It shouldn't be that hard to ask. Try it sometime.


So now we all need to care just oh so much about your posts as to ask each time: "Oh dearest Pensive, do tell if thee are attempting to convince, learn, or better understand!"?

Ok. Thanks for sharing. I think I may save more time just ignoring your drivel.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
If you have a problem understanding something that you should be able to figure out by context or charity


Hilarious given what started this discussion.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
and want me to write so that you can understand it, then I am going to treat you like a child and explain exactly the commitments of the statement. Sorry.


And you weren't even able to grasp why I was calling you a child.

Edited, Sep 5th 2009 12:24am by CBD
#121 Sep 04 2009 at 10:08 PM Rating: Decent
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My schedule is busy enough without adding "learn formal logic rules for Pensive because he can't have a discussion without using it as a crutch!"


I did not bring up this point. You decided to launch some needless diatribe about a vague and debated rule of grammar concerning the logic of disjunctions in English and wanted to ***** and moan instead of answering a simple question.

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Hilarious given what started this discussion.


"Use different conjunctions in a manner suited purely to please me, because I am a selfish ****."
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"Clarify this point. I can't fathom how it could possibly work. I understand several reasons, but are there anymore?"

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And you weren't even able to grasp why I was calling you a child.


Of course I can you idiot. Let's play with disjunctions some more: "either CBD or Pensive is behaving childishly." What could I mean by this? One meaning, the intended one in fact, is that both are.

If you don't want to engage in a childish discussion that demeans both parties, then you probably should refrain from initiating it; it's ridiculous to think that your participation in a meaningless spat is any more or less mature than mine. I can understand that the smart and mature thing to do right here would be to ignore the stupidity and ******** you're espousing; try proving that you're better than me by shutting up first, because the chances that I actually will pass an opportunity to rebut are very slim. You, however, have a fantastic chance to completely one-up me and make me look bad. Will you take it?

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So now we all need to care just oh so much about your posts as to ask each time


I guess it probably is naive of me to expect the same courtesy I'd give to anyone else, and actually ask what they might mean, considering alternatives and nuances of what might they intend, instead of not bothering to ask.
#122 Sep 05 2009 at 11:57 AM Rating: Decent
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
Of course I can you idiot.


No, you really can't and still haven't.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
Let's play with disjunctions some more: "either CBD or Pensive is behaving childishly." What could I mean by this? One meaning, the intended one in fact, is that both are.


Look, you jump up and down demanding that you're right all you want, but that won't make it so. Your refusal to acknowledge reality has gone past rivaling gbaji and has entered this surreal state of outlandish stupidity. Fuck, I think even varus would have changed the topic by now to avoid making (more of) a fool of himself.

Let me make this clear for you: You are wrong.

Get it now? No? I didn't think so. Keep on living in your own little universe though. I guess guilt can be the same thing as consideration there too.

Edited, Sep 5th 2009 3:58pm by CBD
#123 Sep 05 2009 at 12:15 PM Rating: Good
I don't really care enough to have an opinion here, or even read the argument, so I can say with impartiality that CBD is a total moron, a nincompoop of the highest degree, a fully fledged fool, an incredibly idiotic ignoramus.

Yes, CBD, I am calling you stupid.

Now, some of you may be thinking, "But great and mighty Kavekk, if you haven't read the argument, how can you pass judgment on CBD?" The answer to this question is that I have peered through the aether into the very depths of CBD's soul and found not a single spark of intelligence or wit within it. Now, some of you are going to say that that's not true, that I can't read souls, that I just don't like CBD because of a vague feeling he said something really retarded a long time ago, and you would be entirely wrong and also a paedophile.

I'm glad no one said that.

Edited, Sep 5th 2009 8:16pm by Kavekk
#124 Sep 05 2009 at 12:17 PM Rating: Decent
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Let me make this clear for you: You are wrong.


You have no idea what grammar is, do you? I'm truly sorry that no one told you about inclusive ors, and sorrier that you want to ***** about it to me for no reason, but they do exist, and I'm not making up these rules.

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Keep on living in your own little universe though.


I don't see how you could possibly construe that I am attempting to do so by asking you a question, pointed specifically to present some other way of thinking about thinking that insulting a dead guy is "sick." The difference here between you and say, Samira (sorry Samira, but you're handy) is that she would provide content and explanation along with whatever scathing remarks she might choose, or maybe even omit the scathe entirely; failing that, she would probably just consider the topic as fruitless and ignore it.

You haven't done the former, for what I'm guessing is either spite or ignorance, and you haven't taken an opportunity to do the latter either. Seriously: prove that you are better than me by fulfilling either of those conditions and be happy, for you can unequivocally present yourself as intelligent, and me as foolish. It is an easily done prospect and you have nothing to lose in the world. Else, keep ranting like a loon while I wait to hear a serious response.

I have italicized inclusive disjunctions within this post, for your convenience.

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Your refusal to acknowledge reality has gone past rivaling gbaji and has entered this surreal state of outlandish stupidity. ****, I think even varus would have changed the topic by now to avoid making (more of) a fool of himself.


gbaji's penchant for changing the subject is one of the only truly annoying things I find in his posts, and the same goes for varus. If I, under threat of my life, could avoid only one aspect of that style, then it would be changing the subject in the face of contradictory evidence. Thank you for validating my feelings.

Edited, Sep 5th 2009 4:23pm by Pensive
#125 Sep 05 2009 at 12:41 PM Rating: Good
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Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I'm truly sorry that no one told you about inclusive ors


CBD wrote:
(see that beautiful little either there? it changes everything!)


Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
she would probably just consider the topic as fruitless and ignore it.


CBD wrote:
"Expound."

No. Deal.


Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
You haven't done the former, for what I'm guessing is either spite or ignorance


What context or explanation do you want? I already said earlier that guilt didn't mean what you thought it did with the way you were using it at the time. You never responded to that. Shall I start fabricating entire replies from you for the sake of further explanation?

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I like apple pie.


Me too! I prefer pumpkin though. I fucking love pumpkin pie.

Pensive the Ludcirous wrote:
Why?


Oh, just something about the texture and spice balance. It's so strangely delicious.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
I have italicized inclusive disjunctions within this post, for your convenience.


Smiley: lol They still commonly mean one or the other, sweetums. Example:

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
rove that you are better than me by fulfilling either of those conditions


Does that prohibit me from doing both? Nope. Do I have to both? Nope.

You tried implying that I was close-minded because of a statement which is grammatically used to imply one thing happened exclusively. Maybe if you wanted to say it could be any of those, you could have phrased it as "When I ask questions like that, I want to learn, convince or perhaps even better understand."

Of course, now you're going to say that it's not your issue and you aren't going to change your writing style for one person. That's fine and dandy, but then you should shut the fuck up when someone takes it for its standard meaning.

Pensive the Ludicrous wrote:
gbaji's penchant for changing the subject is one of the only truly annoying things I find in his posts, and the same goes for varus. If I, under threat of my life, could avoid only one aspect of that style, then it would be changing the subject in the face of contradictory evidence. Thank you for validating my feelings.


So now making comparisons is the same thing as changing the topic? Interesting. I wasn't aware I wanted to discuss gbaji or varus in detail, but thanks for bringing that up, I guess.

Edited, Sep 5th 2009 4:42pm by CBD
#126 Sep 05 2009 at 12:56 PM Rating: Decent
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Shall I start fabricating entire replies from you for the sake of further explanation?


You'd have to say something wroth replying to first. You made a claim: that I was using a word incorrectly. Demonstrate where this meaning is false.

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That's fine and dandy, but then you should shut the **** up when someone takes it for its standard meaning.


You have failed to prove what a standard meaning is for disjunctions. That's not on me to prove or disprove; it's your baby, and you can support it or not. You haven't yet done so. Doing so would require several people, from both prescriptive and descriptive schools of grammatical understanding, to intuitively support your position, else you can't claim that it's anything but a projection of your particular linguistic development.

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When I ask questions like that, I want to learn, convince or perhaps even better understand.


There is no difference at all between this idea and the other. They convey the same grammar and same structure. Inserting the word "either" need not act as an exclusive indicator. Did you bother to read your own link? It can act as an indication of parity.

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Does that prohibit me from doing both? Nope. Do I have to both? Nope.


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