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I think most women have witnessed men engage in aggressive **** waving contests, only to criticize women as being unreasonable when they detect a whiff of anger. It definitely frustrates assertive women in positions of power who are always in an unenviable position of toeing a very tight line with much less latitude than their (white) male counterparts.
I have
never met a lady, or man for that matter, who was more emotional or angry than I am on average. I'm quite taciturn about things for most people, but if I trust the person, I'm often assertive and very willing to make my thoughts clear. That doesn't seem to matter, though. Culturally, men and women seem to have separate vehicles for expressing their anger. Men don't, and eventually blow up all over the place. Women can just let it out sporadically, we all complain about how dumb the other gender is when it comes to dealling with these mental issues, and then shrug it off, accept that we won't ever understand the other sex, and then laugh about it. It's almost like a coping mechanism.
That's how it's supposed to work, but whenever sexism rears its head it's not just women that get handed a **** sandwich: when you're operating under the mindset that ladies fly off the handle, you make it so that men
can not fly off the handle, disenfranchising both genders. It sickens me as a man, independently of the repugnance of typical women oppression, that men have this opinion of themselves. So, hey men? Stop being sexist
against men please.