LotRO is still the PVE game of choice...
But I recently reactivated AoC, wich is heaps better than when it first came out a year ago.
I started from scratch on a PvP server and have had an ace time. The game is stable now, and I don't remember it crashing at all. Frame rates are excellent with a half decent comp. and even DX10 is working.
Theres plenty of people to kill play nicely with, and tho I havnt bothered joining a guild yet (I'm more the solo hunter atm) finding groups for the dungeons hasn't been a problem even tho I play off peak times. In fact, the couple of peak times I've logged on, its been very busy.
Sorry to say that <Global> chat is still full of asshats, but what game isnt? and at least with AoC you can go and kill them. I've made a hobby of hunting down ******** and I spent a very happy couple of hours hunting, finding and killing (3 times) a prat who couldn't keep his racism hidden a couple of evenings ago. Good times!
As with most games, do NOT take what you read in the forums as an indicator of the game. The official forum posters are without doubt the biggest bunch of whiners i've ever had the misfortune to encounter.
Oh yeah, theres no dwarves. Or elves. But there is plenty of magic.
And blood. Loads of blood.....
(they did have a free trial going on, but that may have finished now...)
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