Totem wrote:
Here's the thing-- sex for women isn't by-and-large the act itself, but rather the wooing and lead-up to sex. Case in point: For years I was mystified by my wife's assertion that she found it incredibly sexy to see me voluntarily and unasked to perform chores around the house. The connection between interaction beyond the physical and sex was something foreign to my male mind. Eventually I stopped trying to understand it and just accepted that truism. The mathematical formula for this is--
Helping around the house + talking + listening = sex
That being said, as a rule penetration causes female arousal to cease. While there are always exceptions to the rule, once actual sexual intercourse takes place the female's rate of arousal slows considerably or stops entirely. Moreover, sawing away for minutes at a time (or hours if **** were to be believed) does not induce screaming fits of ecstacy by the woman as is often portrayed in film, but rather produces a deadening of the nerve endings and eventually soreness.
The size of a man and his equipment has no direct effect on a woman's pleasure except that which is strictly psychological. The saying, "It's not how deep you fish, but how you wiggle your worm" states it succinctly.
Totem
Not for me, get up and help clean the house you slob, isn't a turn on for me, it's a must!
And your rule is wrong, for me.
And size does matter, if you are like a pencil, sorry bub, but you need to be REALLY creative to make up for lack of girth because being long and skinny, ewww. If you are short like a coke can, same story. And I prefer cut to uncut.