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Isn't the number one counter to my premise about the purpose of marriage benefits that "No one but you says that!". Of course, I've found and linked other sources saying the same thing
um... Was this recent or something?
We know I have a bad memory but I don't recall you doing so, and it's 5 am. I'll look tomorrow. Ahh @#%^ it lets try google
Found one Yup. That's one. I've found a few myself. The point I was making is that while Joph (and others) claim that I simply parrot a small number of well-known conservative pundits, the reality seem to be more that if an argument given by someone *doesn't* match what a well-known pundit is saying, it gets dismissed as irrelevant, or not popular, or "no one but you says that!".
I don't determine the legitimacy of a position based on what the pundits are saying, but it sure seems as though most of my critics do. I just find it interesting that because my position on gay marriage is based on a reasoning which isn't broadly discussed or debated (you really do have to look for it), it must automatically be wrong. But then, as I pointed out above, doesn't that mean that *you* are determining the validity of an argument based on whether pundits are repeating it? If you haven't heard it before, does that make it wrong? It shouldn't, yet it seems as though many posters here seem to think so...
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The government has no place subsidizing marriage, at all unless... it produces a practical benefit to society? What the hell? Since when are conservatives utilitarians?
We always have been. As I've also pointed out before, Classical Liberalism does not preclude having government establish rules to govern society, and even infringe liberties along the way (as all rules must do). We do not hold a "never do this. Ever!" position. We are not anarchists. The deciding criteria should be based on whether there is a higher degree of liberty protected as a result (real liberty, not the bogus new definitions many modern liberals have invented). So yeah. Infringing some liberties in order to encourage more heterosexual couples to have children inside a marriage is worth it. The impact on the rest of us otherwise is pretty huge. Just look at the effects we're already seeing as a result of all the social welfare programs out there.
The difference between conservatives and liberals in this context is not about whether one does this or does not do this sort of thing, but rather what criteria is used to determine if we do. Liberals will infringe liberty in order to provide temporary benefits to the citizens, with no expectation of some improved rate of liberty resulting (and in fact, in most cases causing a greater infringement down the line). Conservatives do this only when they believe that the result will increase liberty on balance. Marriage incentives do that. Welfare (for example) does not.
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You are supposed to let people make their own choices and reap the consequences. The unwed single mothers who got knocked up should be left to die, as should everyone else who @#%^ed like rabbits in highschool, but you can't say that to anyone with the least bit of moral compassion for humanity, so you pretend to have compassion for unions them by sticking a children clause in the backdoor.
The unwed single mothers, having made that decision, should have to fend for themselves, without government assistance. However that does not preclude the use of government to create incentives to attempt to get her to not end out in that position in the first place. If we provide her assistance after the fact, it results in an incentive to become a single unwed mother. If we provide an incentive to marry, it reduces her likelihood to end out in that state.
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Your positions, gbaji like to let personal freedoms run free so long as people reap their consequences, and you don't really like the government to use money anyway. Now, building roads, water, electricity, etc, provide the economic backbone of society, but you, as a conservative really have no business at all in fiddling with the social backbone of society.
You, as a liberal, have no business telling me what I, as a conservative actually believe. How about you let me tell you what I think is right and why? Just a thought...
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Of course we all know that the "secular case" for gay marriage restriction is ludicrous for unrelated reasons (it's selectively historical, commits naturalistic fallacy, it's unethical etc) but I can't help point out this ludicrous contradiction in logic.
You know. I keep asking you to do this, but you keep ignoring and/or refusing. This is about a choice of actions. Why not apply that analysis to *both* sides of the issue equally? Are you saying that the argument for gay marriage has fewer fallacies?
We don't wait for an absolutely perfect course of action to magically appear before us. If we do, we'll never do anything at all. Instead, we look at the choices before us and pick the best one. I'm not saying that the case for keeping marriage benefits restricted the way they are is "perfect", I simply state it's better.