Nexa wrote:
I've never in my life been comfortable in a bathing suit, regardless of weight, tan lines, cut of suit, etc. I always feel unattractive. That said, now that I'm 30 and have a kid, I think, @#%^ it, I probably look pretty good for 30 and for having a kid so the rest of you can just go to hell if you don't like it.
Nexa
To be fair, I used, many moons ago, to have a figure that I, personally would kill for again . Of course, at the time , I hated it, and insisted I was the biggest, fattest, ugliest thing on the planet . I wish I could have skipped teenage emo-ness, had a bit more balls then, and said **** it, I like me .
Sadly I didn't, and now have at least 5 stone I want to shift . It's a pain in the ***** and its going to be hellishly slow, but I will get there . Theres actually a really cool gothic fashion shop near me, my eventual goal is top buy a dress from there, and their idea of an (XL) is a size 14 .
Gwyn, yeah, I think I'm going to buy the tankini top I like, and just buy black cycle shorts actually , seems the easiest option .