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#27 May 21 2009 at 6:14 AM Rating: Excellent
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Goggy wrote:
The problem with sexual offenders (yes sweeping generalization, I know) is that many of them do not see what they are doing as wrong.


You work in law enforcement, do you not? Would you not say that most career criminals are able to rationalize away what they're doing?

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#28 May 21 2009 at 6:30 AM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
Goggy wrote:
The problem with sexual offenders (yes sweeping generalization, I know) is that many of them do not see what they are doing as wrong.


You work in law enforcement, do you not? Would you not say that most career criminals are able to rationalize away what they're doing?



They're able to rationalize it as necessity, but most recognise that what they're doing is a crime. What Goggy is describing is a psychological state where someone just can't realise that they're doing something socially unacceptable, as if pedophilia was compulsive behaviour.

I wouldn't say that this is really the case. I just think they do it because they've thought about it, it turned them on (for whatever internal reason) and they thought they could get away with it.
#29 May 21 2009 at 6:33 AM Rating: Excellent
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The sex offender registry doesn't work. All the research indicates that it is ineffective. Alot of people in the justice system hates this law. It is purely built as a way for paranoid housewives to feel safer.
Ironically, it seems to have the opposite effect. At least a couple times a year I have someone say to me "Did you know you can check online for sex offenders and there's one living A HALF MILE AWAY FROM ME!!!?!?!?!"
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#30 May 21 2009 at 6:37 AM Rating: Decent
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Samira wrote:
You work in law enforcement, do you not? Would you not say that most career criminals are able to rationalize away what they're doing?


To clarify I used to be a police officer, and that was over ten years ago now, so things change, however, I think there's a difference between Billy Bad Boy who goes out every Saturday night and steals a car, gets chased by the police, arrested and bailed. He's usually back out the next weekend stealing another car. He knows what he is doing is wrong, but generally doesn't care and does it for kicks.

What I glean about paedophiles is that they do not believe what they are doing is wrong, at all. Although they must have some understanding of it as they don't telegraph the fact that they like to fiddle with kids and generally cover their tracks well.
#31 May 21 2009 at 7:13 AM Rating: Excellent
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Goggy wrote:

The problem with sexual offenders (yes sweeping generalization, I know) is that many of them do not see what they are doing as wrong. In interviews they state that the child wanted them to do the things they did, or they clam up. I'm not a psychologist, but speaking to them I got the impression that the key is making them realise that their behaviour is unacceptable and the ability to have sexual contact with a person involves consent.


If you recognize it as a sweeping generalization, why not specify what you're talking about. If you're talking about pedophiles, say pedophiles. Additionally, these interviews are likely pre-intake or after arrest I'm assuming and before they've been incarcerated and through therapy. Part of said therapy is exactly what you're advocating above: taking responsibility. Those with mental health issues also need to be diagnosed as such, but I think we can all agree that not all sex offenders are crazy, there are age of consent issues, stupid kid mistakes, pushing the envelope issues (which is not ok, and I'm not saying it is), but again, the majority are no more of an ongoing danger than any other criminal.

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#32 May 21 2009 at 7:34 AM Rating: Good
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Nexa wrote:

If you recognize it as a sweeping generalization, why not specify what you're talking about. If you're talking about @#%^philes, say @#%^philes. Additionally, these interviews are likely pre-intake or after arrest I'm assuming and before they've been incarcerated and through therapy. Part of said therapy is exactly what you're advocating above: taking responsibility. Those with mental health issues also need to be diagnosed as such, but I think we can all agree that not all sex offenders are crazy, there are age of consent issues, stupid kid mistakes, pushing the envelope issues (which is not ok, and I'm not saying it is), but again, the majority are no more of an ongoing danger than any other criminal.


Well generally because you got what I was talking about. We're all aware of under-age sex (I think you guys call it statutory rape (horrible term)) is not in the same ball park as someone who fiddles or has sex with a child of 6.

The opinion about their state of mind comes from experts, not me, and as I said, this was some time ago, whether they treat these cases the same, I do not know.
#33 May 21 2009 at 6:27 PM Rating: Decent
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Goggy wrote:
We're all aware of under-age sex (I think you guys call it statutory rape (horrible term)) is not in the same ball park as someone who fiddles or has sex with a child of 6.


I believe it's the exact same crime, which is why the whole statutory rape thing never works.
#34 May 21 2009 at 6:30 PM Rating: Good
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zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We're all aware of under-age sex (I think you guys call it statutory rape (horrible term)) is not in the same ball park as someone who fiddles or has sex with a child of 6.


I believe it's the exact same crime, which is why the whole statutory rape thing never works.


I think there is a legal distinction between statutory raping of teenagers, and those of very young children. I've heard the terms before but cannot tell you what they were.
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#35 May 21 2009 at 6:53 PM Rating: Decent
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TirithRR wrote:
zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We're all aware of under-age sex (I think you guys call it statutory rape (horrible term)) is not in the same ball park as someone who fiddles or has sex with a child of 6.


I believe it's the exact same crime, which is why the whole statutory rape thing never works.


I think there is a legal distinction between statutory raping of teenagers, and those of very young children. I've heard the terms before but cannot tell you what they were.


That's what I assumed, but when I thought about it I wasn't sure because I couldn't remember anything specific.
#36 May 21 2009 at 7:08 PM Rating: Decent
"Statutory rape" refers specifically to consensual sex between someone of age and someone other age, IIRC.
#37 May 21 2009 at 7:13 PM Rating: Decent
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The Codyy of Doom wrote:
"Statutory rape" refers specifically to consensual sex between someone of age and someone other age, IIRC.


I thought the whole point was that they couldn't give consent, so it was non-consensual even if they agreed to it.
#38 May 21 2009 at 7:39 PM Rating: Good
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zepoodle wrote:
The Codyy of Doom wrote:
"Statutory rape" refers specifically to consensual sex between someone of age and someone other age, IIRC.


I thought the whole point was that they couldn't give consent, so it was non-consensual even if they agreed to it.


It's rape, because the statute says so. Basically they couldn't give consent, so it doesn't matter if they consented or not, it was unconsented(?) sex.

But this doesn't matter, cause legally a 6 year old or a 16 year old can't give consent (in some places, lets assume US State where AoC = 18), but I do believe (or really hope?) the law recognizes the difference between the two.
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#39 May 21 2009 at 11:56 PM Rating: Decent
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We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.
#40 May 22 2009 at 4:35 AM Rating: Decent
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Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.
#41 May 22 2009 at 4:39 AM Rating: Decent
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zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.


Actually this is Mindels sock...
#42 May 22 2009 at 4:42 AM Rating: Decent
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Goggy wrote:
zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.


Actually this is Mindels sock...


I hear it's not rape if it's two women.
#43 May 22 2009 at 4:43 AM Rating: Decent
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zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.


Actually this is Mindels sock...


I hear it's not rape if it's two women.


True, it's entertainment Smiley: schooled
#44 May 22 2009 at 5:02 AM Rating: Excellent
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zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.


Actually this is Mindels sock...


I hear it's not rape if it's two women.


Actually, in many places gay men and/or lesbians have different age of consent laws than heterosexual couples, though they don't often apply to lesbians anyway. Do a quick "find on this page" on this timeline for "age of consent" and you'll find tons of countries who have equalized the laws in the last few decades.

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#45 May 22 2009 at 5:38 AM Rating: Excellent
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Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.
Depends, really. Some states have a grey area where, if both participants are within the age range, it's not against the law. So the AoC may be 16 but only if the other participant is more than 2 years older.
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But this doesn't matter, cause legally a 6 year old or a 16 year old can't give consent (in some places, lets assume US State where AoC = 18), but I do believe (or really hope?) the law recognizes the difference between the two.
In the case of a six year old, the prosecutor would have other charges beyond stat. rape. In Illinois, having sex with a child under the age of 13 is "predatory criminal sexual assault of a child" which is a Class X felony resulting in (at this level) a mandatory 15 year addition to whatever prison term is determined by the courts.

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#46 May 22 2009 at 7:54 AM Rating: Good
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zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
zepoodle wrote:
Goggy wrote:
We have a consensual age of 16 in this country, therefore I committed statutory rape with one of my first girlfriends when she was 15 and I was 16. Going on the laws that exist in the US, that would place me on the sexual offenders register? That's just messed up.


You were fine until you put all that on the Internet. Now Detective Stabler and the SVU are coming after you.


Actually this is Mindels sock...


I hear it's not rape if it's two women.


Actually, in many places gay men and/or lesbians have different age of consent laws than heterosexual couples, though they don't often apply to lesbians anyway. Do a quick "find on this page" on this timeline for "age of consent" and you'll find tons of countries who have equalized the laws in the last few decades.

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#47 May 24 2009 at 1:17 AM Rating: Default
A thought occured to me once.

Would it not be funny if 75% of all Registered Sex offenders had never had actual intercourse in their lives? I mean how would you prosecute that? If he's a virgin how can he be a sex offender, it's the ultimate slap in the face for the lonely chronic *********** who happens to enjoy Disney cartoons. Would the government have to look further into that? Just came to mind at work one day, btw I hate my job ; ;
#48 May 24 2009 at 5:45 AM Rating: Good
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Soulrunner the Vile wrote:
A thought occured to me once.

Would it not be funny if 75% of all Registered Sex offenders had never had actual intercourse in their lives? I mean how would you prosecute that? If he's a virgin how can he be a sex offender, it's the ultimate slap in the face for the lonely chronic *********** who happens to enjoy Disney cartoons. Would the government have to look further into that? Just came to mind at work one day, btw I hate my job ; ;


I don't see the problem in prosecuting sex offenders that haven't had sex...

It's not like the definition of "Sex Offender" is someone who had sex. There are quite a few things that can label you a Sex Offender that doesn't involve penetration.

It's like being confused about how you go after someone who assaults someone, when the victim isn't dead. It's pointless confusion. You don't have to kill someone to be charged with assault.
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#49 May 24 2009 at 10:01 AM Rating: Default
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A thought occured to me once.

Would it not be funny if 75% of all Registered Sex offenders had never had actual intercourse in their lives? I mean how would you prosecute that? If he's a virgin how can he be a sex offender, it's the ultimate slap in the face for the lonely chronic *********** who happens to enjoy Disney cartoons. Would the government have to look further into that? Just came to mind at work one day, btw I hate my job ; ;


I don't see the problem in prosecuting sex offenders that haven't had sex...

It's not like the definition of "Sex Offender" is someone who had sex. There are quite a few things that can label you a Sex Offender that doesn't involve penetration.

It's like being confused about how you go after someone who assaults someone, when the victim isn't dead. It's pointless confusion. You don't have to kill someone to be charged with assault.


Can we say Witch hunt? This country arrests and imprisons thousands of people yearly simply because they supposedly have a deviant sexual appetite, or because they accessed the wrong website one too many times. Thats a lot of people to imprison and a lot more taxpayer money to keep them there.


#50 May 24 2009 at 11:48 AM Rating: Good
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The sex offender registry doesn't work. All the research indicates that it is ineffective. Alot of people in the justice system hates this law. It is purely built as a way for paranoid housewives to feel safer.


This is exactly what I've heard from anyone who's done any clinical or law enforcement work with the broad population that falls under this heading. If there were a registry for truly dangerous offenders, of which everyone agrees there are some, it might have some value. The 'chussetts has done a fairly good job of not leaving the realm of any sort of sanity with these laws and *still* the only thing I hear from even the most conservative jaded law enforcement people is that they're a complete waste of money and time.

The reality is that most people who vote for such laws would have zero chance of picking out the registries who live near them in a line up. Should there be an easy to reference registry to prevent this population from working with kids, of course. Should law enforcement be able to check against an easily searchable database when there's a crime committed, of course. Should there be an easy system that allows and encourages ostracizing hundreds of thousands of people? No, there shouldn't. Not only does it not make anyone safer, it very likely makes people much, much, less safe. Anyone who does clinical or research work on this knows that recidivism rates go up when there is more stress on offenders and when they are less connected from society.

To use an AA cliche that happens to be true here, when people are hungry, angry, lonely, or tired they are dramatically more likely to offend again. Intentionally putting them in that situation is not only stupid, it's borderline criminal. It leads directly to more victims.

Unfortunately, there's an exceptionally easy no lose paradigm for these laws. If offense rates decline, they worked, yay. If offense rates go up, they need to be more restrictive, yay.

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