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#127 May 20 2009 at 4:17 PM Rating: Excellent
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It not only makes sense, it's supported by the best evidence we currently have. Although, as an emotionally crippled bi-sexual desperate for anyone's love or more importantly that exquisite feeling of being *needed*, I can't imagine the evidence matters much.

Not that I don't find your argument that a "straight guy" couldn't possibly understand compelling. Just think of all the time you've saved thinking of a thesis subject.




Of course you don't explain it because you don't actually have an argument, this is just another **** measuring contest for you. Of course, that **** is only socially constructed.



Edited, May 20th 2009 8:19pm by Annabella
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#128 May 20 2009 at 4:20 PM Rating: Excellent
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It not only makes sense, it's supported by the best evidence we currently have. Although, as an emotionally crippled bi-sexual desperate for anyone's love or more importantly that exquisite feeling of being *needed*, I can't imagine the evidence matters much.

Not that I don't find your argument that a "straight guy" couldn't possibly understand compelling. Just think of all the time you've saved thinking of a thesis subject.




Of course you don't explain it because you don't actually have an argument, this is just another **** measuring contest for you. Of course, that **** is only socially constructed.


Well, it would have taken a village! Buh-dum-bum!

HAHAHAHA, I kill me.

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#129 May 20 2009 at 4:21 PM Rating: Good
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It not only makes sense, it's supported by the best evidence we currently have. Although, as an emotionally crippled bi-sexual desperate for anyone's love or more importantly that exquisite feeling of being *needed*, I can't imagine the evidence matters much.

Not that I don't find your argument that a "straight guy" couldn't possibly understand compelling. Just think of all the time you've saved thinking of a thesis subject.




Of course you don't explain it because you don't actually have an argument, this is just another **** measuring contest for you. Of course, that **** is only socially constructed.



Edited, May 20th 2009 8:19pm by Annabella


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#130 May 20 2009 at 4:23 PM Rating: Good
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I feel as confused by Nexa's comment as Allegory being propositioned for DP during an orgy. I sense inside joke. Hahaha.

Edited, May 20th 2009 8:23pm by Annabella
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#131 May 20 2009 at 4:27 PM Rating: Excellent
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I feel as confused by Nexa's comment as Allegory being propositioned for DP during an orgy. I sense inside joke. Hahaha.

Edited, May 20th 2009 8:23pm by Annabella


No, it wasn't, it just was rather base for me, haha.

Of course, it could be taken at least two ways depending on how you choose to define ****.

Both would be subjective.

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#132 May 20 2009 at 4:30 PM Rating: Good
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Oh, heh, that is funny.
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#133 May 20 2009 at 4:31 PM Rating: Excellent
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Oh, heh, that is funny.


I don't need your pity laughter! I get enough confused and frightened laughter at work to get me by alllllllllll evening!

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#134 May 20 2009 at 4:33 PM Rating: Good
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No, it's not pity laughter as much as I was thinking about how much I hate having to explain jokes to people who are slow on the uptake. And I was slow on the uptake. At least you didn't see the slack-jawed stare that is common amongst my people.
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#135 May 20 2009 at 4:38 PM Rating: Decent
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Allegory was in an orgy? Story please.
#136 May 20 2009 at 4:42 PM Rating: Good
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It started out with his brother in the top bunk...
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#137 May 20 2009 at 4:44 PM Rating: Good
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Of course you don't explain it because you don't actually have an argument,


I didn't explain because I'd assumed you were familiar with the research. That said, I'll let Nexa explain it to you if she's so inclined. Then you can escape your bias of feeling that I'm belittling you somehow when I disagree with something you post.

Also, she has a ******, so I'm sure that'll help.

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#138 May 20 2009 at 4:45 PM Rating: Good
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A single brother managed a double penetration? Jesus christ that must take some talent.

Or some tentacles

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I'd prefer to believe that both sexual orientation and gender identity are not genetically determined in any case, but that's because I like to pretend in the power of will.

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A single brother managed a double penetration? Jesus christ that must take some talent.

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I'd prefer to believe that both sexual orientation and gender identity are not genetically determined in any case, but that's because I like to pretend in the power of will.

Edited, May 20th 2009 8:47pm by Pensive


First there was transgender surgery, now, there is multi-genital application surgery!
#140 May 20 2009 at 4:52 PM Rating: Excellent
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Of course you don't explain it because you don't actually have an argument,


I didn't explain because I'd assumed you were familiar with the research. That said, I'll let Nexa explain it to you if she's so inclined. Then you can escape your bias of feeling that I'm belittling you somehow when I disagree with something you post.

Also, she has a ******, so I'm sure that'll help.



I'm familiar with the literature. Your connection of these two disparate schools into some unified whole that is what I disagree with. I personally fall somewhere in the middle. I think there are subjective and biological aspects to both gender identity and sexual orientation, which in general is where the current literature, at least that I know in developmental psychology and ***** theory, is tending to fall.

And I am not thinking you are belittling me--well, at least belittling me anymore than you do reflexively. I think you are dismissive of this families and this child's dilemma as not mattering and I think that speaks alot to gender and sexual identity privilege. You can disagree or take it personally. I think this case has implications about how we think about gender and children in this country. It's not an isolated incident. I don't know if the parents did the right thing or not--I don't think any of us know. I just am not going to make a conclusion or dismiss the choices made out of hand.



Edited, May 20th 2009 8:58pm by Annabella
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#141 May 20 2009 at 4:55 PM Rating: Excellent
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Odd how Samira is getting rated down and varus has a new scholar account...


Oh, and I have no opinion about the topic. Just noticing ratings. That's what's *really* important.


Much as i hate to say it, it's actually not him rateing her down.

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Edited, May 20th 2009 5:59pm by Kaolian
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#142 May 20 2009 at 5:09 PM Rating: Decent
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Odd how Samira is getting rated down and varus has a new scholar account...


Oh, and I have no opinion about the topic. Just noticing ratings. That's what's *really* important.


Much as i hate to say it, it's actually not him rateing her down.

Edited for clarity

Edited, May 20th 2009 5:59pm by Kaolian

he seems to be genuinely trying to make peace...in his own way... Smiley: wombat
#143 May 20 2009 at 5:56 PM Rating: Good
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Dread Lörd Kaolian wrote:
Nadenu wrote:
Odd how Samira is getting rated down and varus has a new scholar account...


Oh, and I have no opinion about the topic. Just noticing ratings. That's what's *really* important.


Much as i hate to say it, it's actually not him rateing her down.


No, I didn't think he was rating her down. I doubt he even knows how to rate.

Just saying that it's odd.
#144 May 20 2009 at 6:01 PM Rating: Good
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I think you are dismissive of this families and this child's dilemma as not mattering and I think that speaks alot to gender and sexual identity privilege.


I can't imagine what possibly led you to conclude that. What I'm dismissive of is this being a freak show news story. They want their kid to be happy, great. If they're not harming him in some way and everyone's happy, I don't really care. If it turns out he changes his mind and decides he's gay or straight, or wants to ********** with motor oil on a pony, I still don't really care.

What I do care about is people projecting an entire community of people who've largely had ****** childhoods collective experiences onto this kid. We just do not know when gender identity develops in children, not even vaguely. There's not enough data, what data there is is unavoidably skewed by huge selection bias. There's severe societal and political pressure on the trans community to avoid reporting things along the lines of "oh yeah, well I was a normal kid, but around 22 I realized I identified as another gender". We don't know neurologically what happens, or if anything happens. Maybe it happens in the womb. Maybe it happens during puberty. WE JUST DO NOT HAVE ANY IDEA YET.

You posting that something that we can barely adequately define occurs at a certain age is just absurd. Sexual orientation has a vastly larger data set, far less reporting bias, and far more biological data. If you want to argue people are "born gay" I'd say we can't be sure, but that it seems likely. If you want to argue that people are "born trans", I'll say you're simply guessing, because you are.

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#145 May 20 2009 at 6:22 PM Rating: Excellent
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Your assumption is that anyone who has interest in this family's story must be seeing that as a "freak news story" speaks to your own bias. I've heard about more and more families talking about issues of parents trying to come up with a road map or making decisions about how to raise a child who may be transgendered. I think it is an important consideration and I'll say that as someone is interested in childhood development and parenting. I think some of us have known a few too many trans-people to dismiss this as a "freak news story."

And bullsh*t, there is alot of evidence that gender identity and gender variance has both genetic and environmental factors, just like sexual orientation and identity. And it happens early in development. I'm not sure what you are reading that is defining your arguments.I've worked with alot of doctors and psychologists at different times at the Fenway Health Center, who work alot with a transgendered population--many of them specialists, and I haven't heard them refer to this view of gender being purely subjective or constructed. I've heard over and over again that it is established in the medical and psychological communities that there is a biological basis to transgendered identity. Really, let's hear your expertise in human gender identity. I'm really curious.

I'd like to see it, especially as it establishes what you are saying, basically, that there is no evidence that transgendered identity has a biological basis. Do you think it is a choice? A failure of society? We're not open minded enough to let boys wear dresses and have to oppress them with the evils of transidentities?



Edited, May 20th 2009 10:56pm by Annabella
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Once again, Smash rolls out excellent posts.

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#147 May 20 2009 at 7:03 PM Rating: Excellent
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His points are easier to understand when he explains himself and doesn't come up with a one-line quip.

Also, I think TLW wants to give Smash a hummer.
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#148 May 20 2009 at 7:23 PM Rating: Good
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His points are easier to understand when he explains himself and doesn't come up with a one-line quip.


They weren't especially opaque...

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I think this comment stems from the overdeveloped of your neural association between a feeling of acceptance and sexual connotations.
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Once again, Smash rolls out excellent posts.

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I agree, wanting a ****** for the sake of having one is silly.

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You should want a ****** because it can cook and clean for you, and maybe give you a few kids.
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I am never going to understand transgendered people. I accepted that a while ago, and now I just leave them to it.
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Hmm. Maybe some of them know something we don't?

I blame Canada.

Damnit, I don't wanna be doomed!

http://news.scotsman.com/scitech/Men-are-all-doomed-.5288336.jp

Men are all doomed – but not for 5m years

Published Date: 21 May 2009
By RHIANNON EDWARD
MEN are on the road to extinction as their genes shrink and slowly fade away, according to one expert.

Professor Jennifer Graves, a leading researcher in human sex chromosomes, said the male Y chromosome was dying and could run out within the next five million years.

But she said men may follow the path of a type of rodent that manages to reproduce despite not having the vital genes that make up the Y chromosome.

She told medical students at the annual outreach public lecture at the Royal College of Surgeons in Ireland that a second species of human beings could even be born in the future.

"You need a Y chromosome to be male," said Prof Graves, from Australia.

"Three hundred million years ago, the Y chromosome had about 1,400 genes on it, and now it's only got 45 left, so, at this rate, we're going to run out of genes on the Y chromosome in about five million years. The Y chromosome is dying and the big question is what happens then."

The male Y chromosome has a gene – SRY – that switches on the development of testes and pumps out male hormones that determine maleness.

She said it was not known what would happen once the Y chromosome disappeared. "Humans can't become parthenogenetic, like some lizards, because several vital genes must come from the male," she said. "But the good news is certain rodent species – the mole voles of Eastern Europe and the country rats of Japan – have no Y chromosome and no SRY gene.

"Yet there are still plenty of healthy male mole voles and country rats running around. Some other gene must have taken over the job and we'd like to know what that gene is."

Prof Graves' work has paved the way for developments in the diagnosis of gender disorders and gender-related disease in humans.


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