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They exist solely so that they can point at the ways in which they still aren't the same as marriage.
I'm hoping this is poor wording. You're far smarter than to assume that civil unions ever existed
solely as a stepping stone to marriage.
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If visiting your loved one in the hospital when he/she is sick and being able to make decisions about his/her health is important then shouldn't you simply do what's needed to have that power?
Why should we instead play Whack-A-Mole with whatever issue comes up? I feel like the government has far better things to do with its time.
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But instead, gay couples have been convinced by their own "leaders" to follow a course which delays their ability to get these things and puts them directly into those kind of sucky situations as described in the OP.
That's done deliberately so that they'll be more upset about the fact that they don't have marriage.
You're creating a conspiracy. It's rather disturbing. Maybe you should just step away from this issue until you can calm down.
I have never once felt my opinion on gay marriage was swayed by these bizarre gay leaders I don't know about - I can't think of a single name other than Judy Shepard.
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Let's face it. If every single gay couple simply obtained a standard contract which included all the things they want and could get it notarized and have it be legally binding, they'd have a hard time getting folks to show up for the gay marriage protests, wouldn't they?
All the things they want probably be essentially everything a legal marriage brings. If there are several things not included, there would have to be further legislation introduced later as issues came up because they weren't included. Eventually you'd be giving gay people marriage without calling it marriage. Seems stupid to me.
Regardless, yes, less people would show up. It wouldn't be anywhere near a "hard time" because A) there's no point in giving marriage and not calling it marriage, and B) people in my generation don't really give a crap if gay people are allowed to get married, but they do give a crap that they aren't allowed to.
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The suffering in this case was not caused because there was a lack of laws, rights, powers, etc, but purely because the gay couple in this case is being used as a pawn in an ideological conflict. Ok. And also because a health care provider made a stupid mistake. But it's a "OMG! See how civil unions aren't as good as marriage!!!" type of mistake, so it works for the cause...
Again, you're creating a conspiracy. It's certainly a situation being used for the cause, but that's because it's a tragedy. It's superb that it worked out for this couple. It should never happen to anyone else, and there should never be a risk that the situation won't be resolved. There's no arguing this unless you're just doing it for the sake of arguing.
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Guess what? The exact same mistake could occur if the state had changed their marriage laws to include gay couples. Does changing marriage fix this? I don't think so...
Ambrya already covered it, but come on. You knew better.
Edited, May 5th 2009 2:52am by CBD