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Ok. I'll try to stop making friendly overtures and small talk. I'll just avoid your posts unless I feel like debating with you. However, knowing how you blow up and curse at people when they disagree with you... Well... Perhaps I'll just try to avoid all of your posts.
You know, you often come across as extremely frigid in my opinion, but I still believe that you are a good hearted and enjoyable person with whom I like to talk on occasion. I actually LIKE you; it took a while to warm up, but you seem like a decent lady. I have been nothing to you but earnest and honest about my mind and thoughts, about which you truly seemed inquisitive and I earnestly attempted to explain them to you. If you do not feel like meeting me halfway on that, then I ain't taking the blame for what apparently is some major affront to you when someone doesn't recognize a joke.
I also believe that the only times I have blown up and cursed at people for disagreeing with me were during extremely painful periods in my life in which I should not have been posting at all. This is clearly not one of those times.
Now, if you want to talk about my supreme
arrogance that feeds on itself as a debate continues, then that is another story. That arrogance is a defense mechanism for both admitting defeat as well as gaining power in terms of self image. Its presence is required to mask a terribly weak and fragile ego. Anyone should be able to see that. I don't know how to change it. Do you have a suggestion? Then by all means please do suggest.
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I think Pensive feels bad that he gets overly emotional, not that you need to put up with his sh*t. He's just not good at expressing himself.
I disagree. Read above.
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After rereading each post of mine in this thread that reached sub-defailt level, I could find not a single event of emotional outrage and the barest minimums of swearing occurring. I did find a large deal of smug satisfaction, which I have explained above. I stand by my original hypothesis that they were sub-defaulted for derailing a thread viciously and misunderstanding the context of the argument.
Do the same, present counterexamples, and I might take the claim that I get easily emotive and vulgar more seriously.
Edited, Apr 22nd 2009 3:56pm by Pensive