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#27 Apr 05 2009 at 7:29 PM Rating: Excellent
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Personally, I think people who don't engage in BDSM are repressed sociopaths that need to let loose a little more often.

Myself, I like being a submissive for things involving BD or SM (it is two different things lumped into one acronym, you know that, right?) I know exactly why I like being submissive too. I'm a control freak, with some mild OCD tendencies. I love being in total control of my surroundings, you could name something I own, and I could probably tell you exactly where in my apartment it is, within a margin of six inches, I'm a freak. So, when I'm getting it on, if my choice of @#%^ee is willing and able, I really get off on giving him total control. Well, total control with pre-negotiated limits, I don't get into breath control or any of that edgeplay sh*t, but to each his own. See, the thing is, I love to have total control, so, willingly giving that control over to someone else is just perverse, and let's face it, @#%^ing randy.

This post brought to you by the letters FYI and TMI.


But the sub is the one who holds the power in the (BDSM) relationship. They are the ones who set the limits. So it is perfectly predictable.

Also, why is this in the Asylum? Niobia will never find is so she can get outraged at fake Kavekk.
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#28 Apr 05 2009 at 7:31 PM Rating: Excellent
I don't participate in BDSM (my fiance and I are too snuggle-cuddly in our sex life), but I sure like reading about it.

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#29 Apr 05 2009 at 7:41 PM Rating: Excellent
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Also, why is this in the Asylum? Niobia will never find is so she can get outraged at fake Kavekk.


We have to keep at PG-13 since 12 year olds can't click over to the Asylum.
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#30 Apr 05 2009 at 7:45 PM Rating: Good
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But the sub is the one who holds the power in the (BDSM) relationship. They are the ones who set the limits. So it is perfectly predictable.


Limits need not be explicitly defined. Some of them are of course, but there is plenty of room for improvisation with a creative mind. The idea is to push the limits until they almost break; it's an excruciatingly difficult job for anyone in that position. I don't envy them.

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We have to keep at PG-13 since 12 year olds can't click over to the Asylum.


srsly inconsistent with these thread moves

Edited, Apr 5th 2009 11:48pm by Pensive
#31 Apr 05 2009 at 7:45 PM Rating: Good
Why the **** is this in the Asylum? There is nothing serious about this thread. Damn you, mod that is probably Kaolian! I'll get you for this. Maybe not today. Maybe not tomorrow. Maybe not this decade. But some day.

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And Roleplaying? That's tapping creativity, emotional release, and personal POWER, whatever role that you are playing. As long as the circumstances are hedged about with controls that make it a Roleplay, and not something something else, like a criminal with victim circumstance.


I think you are forgetting one of the key tennets of the Asylum.

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Also, why is this in the Asylum? Niobia will never find is so she can get outraged at fake Kavekk.


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#32 Apr 05 2009 at 7:52 PM Rating: Default
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Lame troll is lame.
#33 Apr 05 2009 at 7:55 PM Rating: Excellent
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Personally, I think people who don't engage in BDSM are repressed sociopaths that need to let loose a little more often.

Myself, I like being a submissive for things involving BD or SM (it is two different things lumped into one acronym, you know that, right?) I know exactly why I like being submissive too. I'm a control freak, with some mild OCD tendencies. I love being in total control of my surroundings, you could name something I own, and I could probably tell you exactly where in my apartment it is, within a margin of six inches, I'm a freak. So, when I'm getting it on, if my choice of @#%^ee is willing and able, I really get off on giving him total control. Well, total control with pre-negotiated limits, I don't get into breath control or any of that edgeplay sh*t, but to each his own. See, the thing is, I love to have total control, so, willingly giving that control over to someone else is just perverse, and let's face it, @#%^ing randy.

This post brought to you by the letters FYI and TMI.


But the sub is the one who holds the power in the (BDSM) relationship. They are the ones who set the limits. So it is perfectly predictable.

Also, why is this in the Asylum? Niobia will never find is so she can get outraged at fake Kavekk.


I'm like Nixnot. It's the "letting go" that arouses the most. I'm quite a control freak too and when I say 'tell me what to do" it means I can let go totally (of course boundaries and magic word). That means I am not allowed to be creative and it is my partner's responsibility. It's an whole other way to be enjoying the experience. There's also the aspect of knowing that, even if you take no decisions at all, your partner is pleased; he/she gets what he/she wishes the most. It's perverse because you get to know what they really like. Like a window in their minds. Hot.

Causing pleasurable pain is really hot as well. It's powerfull to know that you aroused your partner so well, he/she now feels pleasure instead of pain because their body is so full of endorphines. The pain and fun mix and show in that surprised and joyfull grin, I love it.
#34 Apr 05 2009 at 7:56 PM Rating: Excellent
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Lame troll is lame.


It's not really lame as much as it isn't really a joke that would be funny here.
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#35 Apr 05 2009 at 8:08 PM Rating: Excellent
Your mom is a joke, and your face isn't funny here.
#36 Apr 05 2009 at 8:22 PM Rating: Excellent
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Warchief Annabella wrote:
Ambrya wrote:
Lame troll is lame.


It's not really lame as much as it isn't really a joke that would be funny here.

But the OP has spawned a fruitful thread, none-the-less. I particularly was interested in Nixnot's and Cherub's posts.
#37 Apr 05 2009 at 8:24 PM Rating: Excellent
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#38 Apr 05 2009 at 8:46 PM Rating: Good
Aripyanfar wrote:
Warchief Annabella wrote:
Ambrya wrote:
Lame troll is lame.


It's not really lame as much as it isn't really a joke that would be funny here.

But the OP has spawned a fruitful thread, none-the-less. I particularly was interested in Nixnot's and Cherub's posts.


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#39 Apr 05 2009 at 9:04 PM Rating: Excellent
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There was a bloke in bed with his girlfriend. He said,

"Turn over I wanna fu'ck you up the shi'tter".

She says, "ewwww...thats perverted!"

He smacks her in the mouth and says, "shut the fu'ck up, what would you know? your only eleven!".

Babumtshhhh......
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#40REDACTED, Posted: Apr 05 2009 at 9:32 PM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Lol the Asylum is now the place the OoT dumps its "trash."
#41 Apr 05 2009 at 9:44 PM Rating: Excellent
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Lol the Asylum is now the place the OoT dumps its "trash."

Absolutely Delicious, No?


Ah ****, you've really dropped us in it now. Sooner or later, Jophiel/Nexa/Samira will see this, then they'll make some sarcastic remark.

Of course, in this case they probably won't stop at sarcasm. They might use irony.
#42 Apr 05 2009 at 9:50 PM Rating: Excellent
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They might use irony.


Is that the same as steely or brassy M'lord?
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#43 Apr 05 2009 at 9:51 PM Rating: Decent
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I was going to use "irony," but why relieve them of that joy.

Now you gone and done it. The whole thread is gonna go sub-d. And I'm skerred. Its dark in here.

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#44 Apr 05 2009 at 10:46 PM Rating: Good
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#45 Apr 05 2009 at 11:07 PM Rating: Decent
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Gotta sacrifice your knees and such sometimes. Smiley: nod
#46 Apr 06 2009 at 1:14 AM Rating: Good
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Bondage is fun. Actual physical pain during sex isn't. Active sexual humiliation...well, I guess if it gets you off, but if being peed on gets you off, you're probably so far from the norm that no-one really cares what you think.
#47 Apr 06 2009 at 2:34 AM Rating: Good
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#48 Apr 06 2009 at 5:02 AM Rating: Decent
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Personally, I think anyone who engages in BDSM is sick in the head. I'm not suggesting we take everyone who has ever practiced BDSM and put them in a giant blender, but we should not take it off the table. If you need to hurt people to feel good about yourself then you have problems. And subsmissive people? Jesus, get a @#%^ing spine, you servile wretches. They're the ones that make my stomach turn the most. Master this and master that. Jesus, if you want to debase yourself then at least have the decency to do it private.
If it doesn't hurt, you're not doing it right?

Srsly, I had to look up BDSM.

I'm curious - why the post? There must be a story here as one does not randomly decide to post about blending bondagers without provocation. Out with it.
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#49 Apr 06 2009 at 5:27 AM Rating: Decent
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Srsly, I had to look up BDSM.


Srsly, srsly?
#50 Apr 06 2009 at 5:40 AM Rating: Decent
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Srsly, I had to look up BDSM.


Srsly, srsly?
I knew what the SM part was, and was pretty sure what the B stood for, but was clueless about the D. I had to stealthily look it up here at work. Fortunately wiki was there for me.
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#51 Apr 06 2009 at 6:36 AM Rating: Good
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I'm curious - why the post? There must be a story here as one does not randomly decide to post about blending bondagers without provocation. Out with it.


niobia is a fetish model and has been involved in that scene. Presumably, you also have to be pretty masochistic to post in the OOT.

*rimshot*
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