Dear Bunny, I has IDEA (was forum=28)Follow

You will be able to fade into obscurity when you choose to not behave passive-aggressivly and when you stop guilt tripping people.

Your post to Gwen was intentionally and completely out of line. Handing her excuses and trying to guilt trip her about "drama" that you provoked, is out of line. You owe her an apology without excuses and guilt trips. Point blank.

No Bunny. No Guilt trips. People are reacting negatively to you, once again behaving in an abusive manner and then trying to piddle it off on an excuse.


If you want to be appreciated in a positive manner you will need to learn a better way of behaving. Being rude towards someone who had done NOTHING to provoke you is an issue. You were rude, you are behaving like an ******* and you owe her a REAL apology.



Bunny. You made a post to single out Guenny, to start a fight. You have yet to make a genuine apology for that. That post was completely out of line. No, guilt tripping will not change that. You issuing a genuine apology might.

Loving you includes not reinforcing your negative behavior.

Somewhere along the way you developed a sense that I care what you think. I don't. I don't know who does but I can say that if someone said 'hey Ash died", noone would say hurray and noone would cry. Who are you again?

I agree with Nio.

Bunny owes my girlfriend an apology without qualification. On those occasions when I log into jade's account to cyb0r with Doug, I often read her PMs, and the one from Bunny she received recently was a ****-poor apology. I mean, even in the secrecy of PMs (or presumed secrecy, at least) she still justified her poor behavior by blaming it on Oxycontin she had taken years earlier. Now I know folks who have taken Oxy, both prescribed and illegally, and it didn't make any of them retarded for years after ceasing the medication.

Now it sounds like I'm kidding, but I'm not. I just always have this smirk on my face. Bunny needs to be honest with herself and the rest of us, and just admit that she loves to be crucified. I mean, it's been stated plainly and repeatedly that the perpetual excuse machine is exhausting even her self-proclaimed friends. I would think that at some point someone would have sat her down, looked her in the eye and informed her that yes, her circumstance is tragic in a way, but that the way she's handling herself makes it really difficult for the rest of the world to be empathetic. I really tried to apply my specific brand of motivational, therapeutic straight-talk, but I'm at a loss. Rarely have I met someone so attached to their misery; so comforted by their martyrdom.

Anyway, apologize to my girlfriend, Bunny. And none of your bullsh*t excuses. I don't give a f*ck how tired you are, how sick, how drugged, how cheated; I don't want to hear it. I want to hear you just once acknowledge that what everyone is complaining about is valid.

Edited, Mar 26th 2009 7:00am by Barkingturtle

Green Arrowed it for you. Hopefully I got the right Niobia post. Not one I'd normally green arrow myself.

I like Ash.

Ash amuses me sometimes.

I don't think so, they're not allowed to use computers.

Edited, Mar 26th 2009 3:07pm by Goggy

Sometimes?

Honestly, I think Ash is an adequate human, at least. It frustrates me how often he espouses a firm belief in something, and then flip-flops when the actual life-experience of others is contrasted with his own ignorant assumptions. Then he caves in and we all have an after-school special moment as Ash learns something new. It just makes me think of all the fat, dull-eyed people I see at the grocery store here in Iowa, except that I imagine they have a modicum of conviction.

Okay, now that I've given my reviews of Bunny and Ash, who's next? This is a fun thread.

Life isn't all about "getting to sleep at night", Ash. Sometimes thoughtful introspection not only allows us to improve ourselves free of the hand-holding of others, but also makes us a more interesting read on the local message board. It isn't the path of least resistance, but you might be surprised how proud of yourself you'd be if you held some convictions based upon meticulous examination rather than the current direction of the wind.

Just consider it.

Edited, Mar 26th 2009 8:25am by Barkingturtle

I can't decide if you're the water running over the rock, or the rock itself.

It's all very zen, but let's face it: Buddhists are p*ssies.


I would be more apt to believe it's "open-mindedness" rather than mere intellectual sloth if you didn't frequently first cling to a belief and then reverse it when someone better than you(in your estimation, not mine) comes along and corrects you.

I'm glad we had this talk. I think maybe I've started you on the path to growth.

I mean, I bet I totally just triggered some compulsive eating, AMIRITE?

I did just go and get my sandwich. But it's lunchtime.