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#1 Mar 24 2009 at 10:11 AM Rating: Good
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this really isn't mine but I think it's a very good idea for you.

https://www.blogger.com/start

Get a blog. You could share your feelings, your happiness, your plants, the ginger - anything you wanted, no matter your mood or medications and it would be yours.

I think it would be beneficial and therapeutic for you. At least give it a try?

Edited, Mar 26th 2009 5:13pm by Kaolian
#2 Mar 24 2009 at 10:13 AM Rating: Excellent
In other words, we've outgrown you. Go away.


Real subtle Nio Smiley: oyvey
#3 Mar 24 2009 at 10:14 AM Rating: Decent
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#4 Mar 24 2009 at 10:15 AM Rating: Decent
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His Excellency Soracloud wrote:
In other words, we've outgrown you. Go away.


Real subtle Nio Smiley: oyvey

No. Smiley: rolleyes It gives her an outlet to express whatever she wants without apology or waking up in the morning and regretting offending someone for something she didnt remember doing.

Maybe you like watching Bunny self destruct but I don't. I think she needs more outlets for her life than just us.
#5 Mar 24 2009 at 10:15 AM Rating: Decent
I would subscribe.
#6 Mar 24 2009 at 10:16 AM Rating: Good
niobia wrote:
His Excellency Soracloud wrote:
In other words, we've outgrown you. Go away.


Real subtle Nio Smiley: oyvey


Maybe you like watching Bunny self destruct but I don't. I think she needs more outlets for her life than just us.


***** been slow around here lately. I'll take whatever we can get.

Besides, it distracts us from Tailmons Mangina issues. Which is a bonus.

Edited, Mar 24th 2009 2:17pm by Soracloud
#7 Mar 24 2009 at 10:16 AM Rating: Decent
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Doesn't she already use Twitter or some other useless self-indulgent nonsense?
#8 Mar 24 2009 at 10:17 AM Rating: Decent
I don't have a blog.
#9 Mar 24 2009 at 10:17 AM Rating: Good
I agree with Niobia. Bunny should take her **** to blogger with all the other self-serving, navel-gazing glurge that the world's social invalids **** out on the internet every day. Good suggestion, hun.
#10 Mar 24 2009 at 10:18 AM Rating: Good
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Maybe you like watching Bunny self destruct but I don't. I think she needs more outlets for her life than just us.


Self destruct? Let's not make this into some **** it's not. She doesn't have a life.

Besides, all it would encompass would be the color of her ******* straw. That's not an outlet, that's just a fart from a head full of ****.
#11 Mar 24 2009 at 10:21 AM Rating: Good
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#12 Mar 24 2009 at 10:22 AM Rating: Decent
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I don't have a blog.


I do, so that I don't sicken you all with my gushing about my daughter. Smiley: grin
#13 Mar 24 2009 at 10:24 AM Rating: Excellent
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I have a MySpace page that I've dutifully ignored ever since I created it.
#14 Mar 24 2009 at 10:25 AM Rating: Good
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I have 2 blogs. One on myspace that I've made 2 posts in that last 4 years, and on on Gaiaonline, that I've also made 2 posts in the last 2 years.

I love to blog can you tell?
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#15 Mar 24 2009 at 10:28 AM Rating: Good
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Or like, post in your own journal. Make it private if you really want, or just nuke your posts to Unrated Smiley: schooled
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#16 Mar 24 2009 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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Sir Kirby wrote:
Or like, post in your own journal. Make it private if you really want, or just nuke your posts to Unrated Smiley: schooled


IF she didn't want people to read it, she wouldn't make it public. At least with a blog it would be hers and it would still be public.

I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.

people may have felt bad for her at first but after several years of the same treatment, it's going downhill. I like Bunny. I'd like her to stick around but I think the only way she can continue is by using a blog as her main means of venting and maybe reaching out to others in a similar situation.

#17 Mar 24 2009 at 10:45 AM Rating: Excellent
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Sir Kirby wrote:
Or like, post in your own journal. Make it private if you really want, or just nuke your posts to Unrated Smiley: schooled


IF she didn't want people to read it, she wouldn't make it public. At least with a blog it would be hers and it would still be public.

I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.

people may have felt bad for her at first but after several years of the same treatment, it's going downhill. I like Bunny. I'd like her to stick around but I think the only way she can continue is by using a blog as her main means of venting and maybe reaching out to others in a similar situation.



I can not think of anything she's posted here that was not venting or ****** talk. So you are saying she can leave now.
#18 Mar 24 2009 at 10:47 AM Rating: Good
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I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.


Considering half the ********* that get their ***** polished as soon as they log on this site, I very much doubt Bunneh is the one who'll have to worry about "behaving badly then brush it off".
#19 Mar 24 2009 at 10:47 AM Rating: Good
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Bunny has made some good posts. I am saying that she is rubbing people raw with the "be nice, insult people, make excuse, hide" cycle. people went from feeling sympathetic to used and abused (in an unsexy way)

I don't want her to leave. I just don't want to see her continue this cycle and ostracize herself.
#20 Mar 24 2009 at 10:52 AM Rating: Decent
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niobia wrote:
I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.


Considering half the @#%^slaps that get their ***** polished as soon as they log on this site


Don't knock it, its the only way we could find a use for Katie.
#21 Mar 24 2009 at 10:54 AM Rating: Decent
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His Excellency Soracloud wrote:
NorthAI the Hand wrote:
niobia wrote:
I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.


Considering half the @#%^slaps that get their ***** polished as soon as they log on this site


Don't knock it, its the only way we could find a use for Katie.


I think North is just envious Smiley: grin
#22 Mar 24 2009 at 10:57 AM Rating: Excellent
NorthAI the Hand wrote:
niobia wrote:
I think people would still read it but with the way things are heading, I worry that she is going to really chap alot of people. How many times can you behave badly then brush it off, not take responsibility and expect people to forgive. I think that the forums are getting to a point where she may end up getting treated like Nagah/Melody.


Considering half the @#%^slaps that get their ***** polished as soon as they log on this site, I very much doubt Bunneh is the one who'll have to worry about "behaving badly then brush it off".


What I think Nio is saying, and what personally makes me unwilling to recognize Bunny as anything other than a drain on everyone who knows her, is her total denial of accountability. She'll lash out, act the fool, and when called on it she always has an excuse; I'm tired/medicated/stressed/whatever.

The key is to be yourself, or a reasonable facsimile, but ever unapologetically. Particularly when the entire premise of your posting persona is that your life is agony. It becomes utterly exhausting to communicate reasonably with a person when they moan and moan and then given the choice between ownership or evasion they choose the latter.

Edited, Mar 24th 2009 11:57am by Barkingturtle
#23 Mar 24 2009 at 11:06 AM Rating: Good
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What I think Nio is saying, and what personally makes me unwilling to recognize Bunny as anything other than a drain on everyone who knows her, is her total denial of accountability. She'll lash out, act the fool, and when called on it she always has an excuse; I'm tired/medicated/stressed/whatever.

The key is to be yourself, or a reasonable facsimile, but ever unapologetically. Particularly when the entire premise of your posting persona is that your life is agony. It becomes utterly exhausting to communicate reasonably with a person when they moan and moan and then given the choice between ownership or evasion they choose the latter.


I can understand that, truly. But I do believe Nio is one of those who kept going "This should have been in PMs" in the other thread, and then does a delightful little 180 and launches something that can very easily be considered an eloquent ********** you and the horse you rode in on". Publicly. Not only is it hypocritical, it's being an **** for no reason.

Your points are all very good, but it's not like any of you are actually forced to communicate with her, nor get affected in any real sense by her posts. You just drain them of whatever entertainment you can get, and then foist it off when you're bored with it. Sure, she can find more healthy places to vent her issues, but it's not like she's anywhere near as bad as many others have been over the years.

This singling her out in several of the threads made over the last day or two, is nothing but tasteless.
#24 Mar 24 2009 at 11:14 AM Rating: Good
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NorthAI the Hand wrote:
This singling her out in several of the threads made over the last day or two, is nothing but tasteless.


When you make a post trying to defend yourself and fail, you open yourself up to a lot of criticism. Duh. This is the OOT. I really gave up on the "Leave Bunny alone!!" mentality because she doesn't want to be left alone; she wants ******* attention.

The blog idea is a good one. She could spend her time on the internets doing something therapeutic and PG with her kids. I'd hardly call posting on the OOT either of those. The choice is obviously hers. If she wants to keep posting here about her hard knock life, she's going to get a lot more hell. If she has the foresight though to channel her "creative writing" exercises into a less public forum where she would catch a lot less slack, it would go a long way to gaining some respect here. At least from me.
#25 Mar 24 2009 at 11:15 AM Rating: Excellent
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This singling her out in several of the threads made over the last day or two, is nothing but tasteless.


She made the other thread herself.

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You just drain them of whatever entertainment you can get, and then foist it off when you're bored with it.


So true. Luckily for Bunny, she's the kind of boil which is positively bursting with entertainment value. I for one eagerly await the day when she does as Nio fears and enters Melody-Supernova.

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it's not like she's anywhere near as bad as many others have been over the years.


I don't know about that. I'd say she's the most tenured martyr around here. I can't think of another poster who has so blatantly pleaded for pity for so long.


Edited, Mar 24th 2009 12:15pm by Barkingturtle
#26 Mar 24 2009 at 11:18 AM Rating: Good
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I actually have contacted her in PMs and Guenny too.

BT put it more eloquently than I have. I actually can say that I know Bunny in Real life, she is my friend on and off the boards. I think part of being someones friend, is being truthful to your friend when they have done something that causes harm to themselves or others. (Nexa, Katie, BT, DF and Thumb have all done this to me at some point and I appreciate it.)



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