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#27 Mar 19 2009 at 10:24 PM Rating: Good
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I just don't see how you can have any sense of the history of an issue if you don't at least acknowledge when word meaning changes have occurred.


Uh huh.

Which is why you habitually introduce "definitions" of concepts that no one has ever used, anywhere, to "prove" your point.

Like, oh, defining date rape as being when a woman has sex but then changes her mind after the fact. Or excluding any act which doesn't leave bruises from the definition of "real" rape.

Yup yup, uh huh, okay, sure. Smiley: nod
#28 Mar 20 2009 at 12:04 AM Rating: Excellent
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No. I prefer discussions *about* such things. Writing the definition for something that matches what you want it to be isn't the same thing.


Look gbaj (OMG gbaji is like some sort of nintendo toy I just noticed)

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Anyways

Something defines something else in and just in which cases that are equal
Definition needs:
-Appropriate necessary conditions (limiting conditions)
-Appropriate sufficiency conditions (allowing conditions)

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Maybe our definitions of "a lot of thought and dialog" differ here.


I'm sure that they do

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I tend to think that about 20 years of political activism, which has succeeded in swaying the legislatures of what? two states to change their legal definitions, while something like 20 states have formalized definitions in the opposite isn't exactly sufficient for someone to write the new and not even close to adopted or accepted definition into the dictionary.


Okay.. apparently uour version of "a lot of thought and dialogue" is simple capitulation to social pressures.. but of twenty years ago. That's kind of weird really. You're a descriptivist about meaning, but you describe situations that aren't actually situations anymore.

Look

People had a responsibility to create their own definitions for words ever single damn day. That's sometimes the only thing that I'll do in a certain day like in writing a paper about a word that i'm going to be using as such in another paper. Why is this **** so compilicated anyway? It's because of people who believe that the dictionary actually means anything when it defines words.

It doesn't... it can't even come close.

In this case however, we were sharing a blunder and ignoring the policy changes in the rest of the world and not just in america. The pendulum is swinging in a certain direction and after tricky so obviously pointed out to me that other nations had started the ball rolling; it's not so hard to see public policy influencing the words, rather than the other way around
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#30 Mar 20 2009 at 4:48 PM Rating: Decent
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lol dude.. I just read this thread again and now I am um... well you know. excited

Is that normal for anyone else out there?







#31 Mar 20 2009 at 5:01 PM Rating: Decent
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People had a responsibility to create their own definitions for words ever single damn day. That's sometimes the only thing that I'll do in a certain day like in writing a paper about a word that i'm going to be using as such in another paper. Why is this sh*t so compilicated anyway? It's because of people who believe that the dictionary actually means anything when it defines words.


I got half way through that paragraph and was thinking "Yeah. You may say that we can just make up definitions all day long, but someone will insist that they have a set definition", and then you wrote exactly the same thing.

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It doesn't... it can't even come close.


Sure. And when socio-political arguments do not use the dictionary as the definitive source of what the meaning of a word should mean absolutely with no question or equivocation allowed, then I will agree with you.

Want me to link the last gay marriage thread and show you how many people pulled out definitions to support their arguments? While it's a nice philosophical assumption that the meaning of a word should be flexible, the reality is that the "official" meanings in dictionaries and such are used to support arguments about a wide assortment of social and political issues every single day.

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In this case however, we were sharing a blunder and ignoring the policy changes in the rest of the world and not just in america. The pendulum is swinging in a certain direction and after tricky so obviously pointed out to me that other nations had started the ball rolling; it's not so hard to see public policy influencing the words, rather than the other way around


I would say that a desire for a particular public policy change is influencing the change of the word in the dictionary, exactly so that the next time the issue is argued, someone can quote that definition when supporting their argument.

Hence, why this is circular.


The day people stop using dictionary definitions to prove their positions is the day I'll stop complaining when I see definitions changed in ways clearly designed to support a specific political viewpoint.
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#32 Mar 20 2009 at 5:09 PM Rating: Decent
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The day people stop using dictionary definitions to prove their positions is the day I'll stop complaining when I see definitions changed in ways clearly designed to support a specific political viewpoint.


The day people stop using dictionary definitions to prove their positions is the day I'm going to play a ton of games, see my friends, drink smoke and drug, and killmyself

Because that will be the best day of my life. If that happens I will have won life.
#33 Mar 20 2009 at 5:11 PM Rating: Good
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I got half way through that paragraph and was thinking "Yeah. You may say that we can just make up definitions all day long, but someone will insist that they have a set definition", and then you wrote exactly the same thing.


Read it again

Why is this sh*t so compilicated anyway? It's because of people (imbeciles) who believe that the dictionary actually means anything (when it doesnt) when it defines words.

Clear sparky? I was agreeing with you

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#34 Mar 20 2009 at 5:15 PM Rating: Good
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Sure. And when socio-political arguments do not use the dictionary as the definitive source of what the meaning of a word should mean absolutely with no question or equivocation allowed, then I will agree with you.


Then here is how to start

1.1 What is a necessary or sufficient condition of marraige: Unity (Necessary)
1.11 What is a necessary or condition of Unity: xxx

go from there. I've set you up, plug in some values and see where yopu can get with it

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While it's a nice philosophical assumption that the meaning of a word should be flexible, the reality is that the "official" meanings in dictionaries and such are used to support arguments about a wide assortment of social and political issues every single day.


To bad

If you pulled out a dictionary in my home to support an argumen I would slap your hand away from it and scold you like a dog. I don't want to make people angry when they do it on the forums so I just mention something like "dictionaries are not valid in arguments guys" and continue on.

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#35 Mar 20 2009 at 6:01 PM Rating: Default
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I don't want to make people angry when they do it on the forums so I just mention something like "dictionaries are not valid in arguments guys" and continue on.


S'funny, I don't recall you ever saying this or anything similar to this on this site. And I know you've been involved in threads in which people have pulled out definitions to support their positions. I don't mean that as an attack. I honestly don't recall you ever doing this.


I get exactly what you're saying though. I prefer to derive meanings based on rational analysis rather than just rushing off to a presumed authority to see what it tells me. And let me be clear. Obviously, dictionaries are useful for words for which the meaning is not in dispute. No one argues about what "re-iterate", or "cat" means. The issue comes about when the very meaning of a word, or how that word applies to the society as a whole (in this case legally) is itself in question.


It's in those areas though, that I have seen a pretty obvious pattern. I have often been in debates where the real underlying question is one of definition and semantics. Where the use of a particular word carries weight, but the meaning of that word in the given context is in dispute. The issue of gay marriage is one. Arguments about things like liberty, equality, and freedom are others. I recall specifically a thread in which someone insisted that being reliant on the government for financial support gave freedom to the person receiving it because they were "free" from the worry of having to work. I most certainly did not agree with the use of the word, but I didn't turn to a dictionary. I walked through a philosophical process of defining what freedom meant, and how being reliant on someone else for your wellbeing, not only didn't provide one with freedom, but arguably reduced it.


The point is that there seems to be a political methodology that revolves around redefining the meaning of words, and then applying them retroactively to statements or beliefs about those words which did not initially include them. That's why I get flack for using "old" meanings. Well. When we as a society adopted the ideas of freedom and liberty, we adopted those things in the context of the meaning those words had at that time. To use those words in completely different ways, but insist that the same sense of importance be placed on them, is utter nonsense. Yet, that formulation is incredibly common in political arguments.


And it's present in the gay marriage debate. The status and importance of marriage, and the degree to which we as a society have provided benefits to those who enter into it, is predicated on a specific "old" meaning of marriage. All those benefits and status were created based on an assumed and commonly understood meaning. If you change the meaning when you use the word, then the associated things with that meaning should change as well. But what we're seeing is people insisting that it's ok to change one, but not the other.


It would be like if we passed a law saying it was ok to have cats as pets, but not alligators, and then the pro-alligator-pet lobby decided to change the definition of cat to include alligators in order to make it legal for alligators to be pets. It would not be wrong for people who think there's a reasonable reason why cats can be pets but not alligators to think that this is a pretty cheap and silly way to get around the laws. And they might suggest that we now would need to adjust our laws in order to reflect the fact that not all cats were ok to have as pets.

And they'd be right.
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#36 Mar 20 2009 at 7:43 PM Rating: Decent
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S'funny, I don't recall you ever saying this or anything similar to this on this site.


Selective memory gbaji. You're still goddamn wrong
#37 Mar 20 2009 at 8:09 PM Rating: Default
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S'funny, I don't recall you ever saying this or anything similar to this on this site.


Selective memory gbaji. You're still goddamn wrong


That may be. Hence, why I stated that *I* cannot recall you ever doing this. But since you claim that you do this, how about you finding even a single instance of you doing that?

EDIT. Actually. Scratch that. I really don't care. I certainly acknowledge that you as a rule avoid falling back on definitions to support your arguments, and that's the more important issue here IMO. I just wish more people did that as well....

Of course. I happen to think that your logic process has holes wide enough to drive aircraft carriers through, but that's an entirely different subject. :)

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#38 Mar 21 2009 at 4:48 AM Rating: Decent
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I begrudgingly think the same about you. Yay common ground!

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#39 Mar 21 2009 at 10:05 AM Rating: Good
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Great. Now the dictionary's been all gayed up. There goes the flippin' literary neighborhood.

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I really don't see any social engineering/ political agenda in this at all. Perhaps I'm just a simpleton, but it seems far more likely to me that they're just trying to be accurate. As was stated before, in some cases now marriage does include same sex partners.

It isn't going to change anything. The same sex aspect is understood to be the less common usage. Hell, gay also means happy, but I haven't heard it used that way in a long time...if ever.



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#41 Mar 27 2009 at 11:28 PM Rating: Decent
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I tend to prefer definitions for things that don't reflect relatively recent political agendas.


You SHOULD prefer only the definitions that come after a lot of thought and dialogue about various words in the philosophy of language; whether or not they are reflective of political agenda is irrelevant. The definition will fail if the speakers of the language decide it to.


No. I prefer discussions *about* such things. Writing the definition for something that matches what you want it to be isn't the same thing.

Maybe our definitions of "a lot of thought and dialog" differ here. I tend to think that about 20 years of political activism, which has succeeded in swaying the legislatures of what? two states to change their legal definitions, while something like 20 states have formalized definitions in the opposite isn't exactly sufficient for someone to write the new and not even close to adopted or accepted definition into the dictionary.

In a century... maybe. Right now, it's pretty obvious wishful thinking.
What's it like to be a century behind the rest of the world?


He hit the nail on the head, you understand that right? Prop 8 just to give you an example. There's a difference between general opinion on this board and the opinion of the general populace.

I've read many of Gbaji's posts and I don't understand why he receives so much resistance. It's more of a reflex "zomg gbaji" thing than anything. Then again, he's one of the few conservatives on this board.
#42 Mar 27 2009 at 11:39 PM Rating: Decent
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It's more of a reflex "zomg gbaji" thing than anything.

No, no it's not.
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I've read many of Gbaji's posts and I don't understand why he receives so much resistance.


If the making up statistics on the spot, failure to cite anything (ever) partisan stances on everything, the disrespect for the scientific method, the paranoia, the appeals to (wrongly identified) fallacies don't let you understand, then I'm not sure what would.

Okay maybe he's not quite that bad; I was just on a roll so I kept adding stuff. Gotta hyperbole stuff sometimes.

I actually like talking to gbaji on here; he makes astute and original observations when not talking politics, and at least provides a train of reason that I can follow (if not believe) when he is talking politics. Sometimes he really frustrates me, but he's a conservative without being a total douchebag, and I can respect that. However, if he was in charge of the well being of the people, I would be scared to @#%^ing death.

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He hit the nail on the head, you understand that right?


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He hit the nail on the head, you understand that right?
No, he actually missed the point entirely. Regardless of your or mine or even the United States general population's opinion on it, the definition of marriage has been expanded to include same sex partnerships in some US states and in some nations around the world.

If I'm reading a story about Tom & Bob who got married in South Africa and say "What's marriage mean?" and look it up and say "Wait, this says it's only between a man and woman, so that can't be right" then the dictionary failed to provide me wth an accurate definition of the word. Reading that the most common use (definition 1) is man-woman partnerships but that it can also mean (definition 2) same sex partnerships is much more accurate.

The only way it shows an "agenda" or whatever bullshit is if you're so wrapped up in your own mindset that you think what's going on in the rest of the nation/world doesn't matter.
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I've read many of Gbaji's posts and I don't understand why he receives so much resistance. It's more of a reflex "zomg gbaji" thing than anything. Then again, he's one of the few conservatives on this board.


Gbaji is an example of an educated and fairly verbose person with a solid grasp on politics and economics who is, for all that, still utterly, totally off the mark on almost every occasion. He starts off well, his reasoning is sound, but the conclusions he arrives at are contentious at best. Where everyone else will look at the current economic situation and conclude that it was because of irresponsible deregulation of the markets, gbaji will look at it and see it as an example of too much regulation. And he'll have his own little train of thought by which he arrived, too, and it's logically sound for most of the journey.

I maintain it's because he follows a different form of logic than everyone else on the boards. He just thinks differently. I name this form of specialised epistemology "Gbajithink". It's the same logic the Pope uses to blame condoms for AIDS.
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manicshock wrote:
I've read many of Gbaji's posts and I don't understand why he receives so much resistance. It's more of a reflex "zomg gbaji" thing than anything. Then again, he's one of the few conservatives on this board.


Gbaji is an example of an educated and fairly verbose person with a solid grasp on politics and economics who is, for all that, still utterly, totally off the mark on almost every occasion. He starts off well, his reasoning is sound, but the conclusions he arrives at are contentious at best. Where everyone else will look at the current economic situation and conclude that it was because of irresponsible deregulation of the markets, gbaji will look at it and see it as an example of too much regulation. And he'll have his own little train of thought by which he arrived, too, and it's logically sound for most of the journey.

I maintain it's because he follows a different form of logic than everyone else on the boards. He just thinks differently. I name this form of specialised epistemology "Gbajithink". It's the same logic the Pope uses to blame condoms for AIDS.
It's very simple. He knows what the logical outcome is before he examines the evidence.
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#47 Mar 28 2009 at 4:51 PM Rating: Good
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It's the same logic the Pope uses to blame condoms for AIDS.


That's actually extremely accurate, seeing how Gbaji blames sex education for teen pregnancy.



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Ah the ever popular liberal "rest of the world is doing it" response. Of course nevermind that most of the rest of the world are immoral heathens who would just as soon cut your head off as listen to differing views.
I don't think those are the guys legalizing gay marriage Smiley: laugh
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