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#1 Dec 29 2008 at 3:37 PM Rating: Good
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It seems teens that take virginity pledges are just as sexually active as their non-pledging counterparts, but are less likely to use any sort of protection.

Well, duh!


http://www.webmd.com/parenting/news/20081229/virginity-pledge-doesnt-stop-teen-sex
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Unfortunately this just points blame at viriginity pledges. It'd be like linking outdoor sports to unprotected sex.

The problem isn't the pledges. The problem is safe sex education. You should be able to pledge virginity and learn about safe sex at the same time. Whether you agree virginity until marriage is good or bad, that part should be up to the person.
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#3 Dec 29 2008 at 5:09 PM Rating: Good
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Virginity pledges are an outgrowth of the Abstinence Only school of sex education. Which promotes, as the name implies, abstinence as the only method of avoiding pregnancy and/or STDs.

I thought this was all pretty obvious. Guess I was wrong.
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The problem isn't the pledges. The problem is safe sex education. You should be able to pledge virginity and learn about safe sex at the same time. Whether you agree virginity until marriage is good or bad, that part should be up to the person.


Sure, so long as we all agree they're a ludicrous fucking joke that exist only to please people other than those who make them.


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It seems teens that take virginity pledges are just as sexually active as their non-pledging counterparts,


No. Pledgers and non-pledgers who gave similar responses on the survey questions had similar rates of sexual activity. What a shocker!

All that shows us is that people who took a virginity pledge 5 years ago, but today answer questions like "Do you think casual sex is ok?" with a "yes" answer will have sex at about the same rate as someone who didn't take a virginity pledge 5 years ago and also gives the same answer to that question.

Um... Why would anyone be surprised at the results? Why not measure the total teen pregnancy and/or STD rates among students taught abstinence education and compare them to students taught a more traditional sex education program? Wouldn't that tell us which produces the better results? The inclusion of those questionable analytic techniques kinda invalidates the results from any objective standard IMO.


I'm not a huge fan of abstinence-only education, but it irks me when people feel they need to manipulate data to prove their point.


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but are less likely to use any sort of protection.


Yeah. Read carefully. That one wasn't qualified by matching answers though. I'd also be curious what the exact question was on that one. Cause, I could see a whole lot of virgins answering "no" when asked if they used birth control in the last year, or the last time they had sex.


Again. The more relevant issue is to measure the real rates of pregnancy and STDs among each group. When you have to resort to studies like this based on manipulated answers to a set of questions rather than just looking at the actual real results, it immediately makes me assume that your purpose is to produce the appearance of an issue that isn't the same as the reality of an issue.


At the end of the day, the point of our sex education isn't to change the results of a study on the subject, but to change the actual rates of teen/unwed pregnancies and STD infection. Period. Using any other measurement is not only inaccurate, but presumably done purely to produce misleading perceptions about the issue.
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#6 Dec 29 2008 at 5:50 PM Rating: Good
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At the end of the day, the point of our lack of sex education isn't to change the results


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Why not measure the total teen pregnancy and/or STD rates among students taught abstinence education and compare them to students taught a more traditional sex education program? Wouldn't that tell us which produces the better results?


Yes it would, and yes it has. And the results show overwhelmingly that a comprehensive sex education produces far fewer unplanned pregnancies and STD transmission that abstinence only. That's been discussed here before.
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Deathwysh wrote:
gbaji wrote:
Why not measure the total teen pregnancy and/or STD rates among students taught abstinence education and compare them to students taught a more traditional sex education program? Wouldn't that tell us which produces the better results?


Yes it would, and yes it has. And the results show overwhelmingly that a comprehensive sex education produces far fewer unplanned pregnancies and STD transmission that abstinence only. That's been discussed here before.


Er? Want to provide a link or a cite? Because I don't recall anything showing "far fewer unplanned pregnancies and STD transmission" for traditional sex education versus abstinence-only. Most reports and studies tout that they found no difference in the rates. Which, from an economic perspective is a perfectly reasonable reason not to fund them, but only if the alternative costs us nothing. I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest that at some level, we're paying for whatever form of sex education is being taught in our schools. If it costs no more for abstinence-only than a traditional or comprehensive (which I personally think is best) sex education, and the results are similar, then why bash only one of them? It would seem that any state should be free to choose which program they wanted to employ based on their own feelings on the subject (and perhaps those of their population?).


Let me be *really* clear here. I've stated many times that I think a comprehensive sex education is best (one which teaches that abstinence is a good idea, but also about condoms and birth control methods if you choose not to and isn't dogmatic either way). But if there's no measurable difference in terms of results, then why should I care if some state wants to employ something different? And if it's a choice between some federal funding for one type of program or another and I'm going to foot that bill either way, why have some dogmatic opposition to one or the other?


The reason I tend to argue this issue isn't because I'm a fan of abstinence-only, but that I see most people opposing it, not because it's "worse" but simply because it's associated with something they don't like (like say Religious Conservatives for example). In many cases, the issue ceases to be about doing what's right in terms of sex education, but pushing "our side" of a larger socio-political agenda which pits those who like religion against those who hate it.


And hey! I just like to stir up the pot a bit... ;)
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#11 Dec 29 2008 at 10:08 PM Rating: Excellent
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Let me be *really* clear here. I've stated many times that I think a comprehensive sex education is best (one which teaches that abstinence is a good idea, but also about condoms and birth control methods if you choose not to and isn't dogmatic either way).


I agree!

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But if there's no measurable difference in terms of results, then why should I care if some state wants to employ something different?


But there is! Abstinence only sex-eders, or in this case Abstinence Pledges, are just as likely to have sex as non pledges, but less likely to use condoms and other forms of birth control.

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Rosenbaum attributed the difference to what youths learn about condoms in abstinence-focused programs.

"There's been a lot of work that has found that teenagers who take part in abstinence-only education have more negative views about condoms," she said. "They tend not to give accurate information about condoms and birth control."


Article.


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The reason I tend to argue this issue isn't because I'm a fan of abstinence-only, but that I see most people opposing it, not because it's "worse" but simply because it's associated with something they don't like (like say Religious Conservatives for example).


I oppose it because it IS worse. And much like you don't want to pay for most social programs in the first place, I'd rather not pay for Abstinence only as more and more studies show it doesn't work as well as comprehensive sex ed.

And what's worse, is this "Abstinence only" thing is literally killing people. In 2005, 130,000 Ugandans were infected with HIV, up from 70,000 in 2002 when in previous years it had been declining. Why did this happen? Because despite the fact that Uganda receives more US money than ever, doubling in two years to $169.9m in 2006 as part of Bush's 2003 Emergency Plan For Aids Relief, at least one-third of all prevention money must go to "abstinence-only" projects.

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#13 Dec 30 2008 at 12:06 AM Rating: Good
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Was reading Savage Love the other day and stumbled across this gem:

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For instance: A new study out of the Bradley Hasbro Children's Research Center found that "**** sex is on the rise" among straight teenagers and young adults. According to a heavy-breathing report from ABC News, straight kids are having butt sex "to please a partner, to have sex without the risk of pregnancy, or to preserve their virginity."

I'm old enough to remember when getting ed in the *** was considered a sex act, something that virgins, almost by definition, shied away from. But that was before kids were subjected to religious indoctrination masquerading as sex-ed. Abstinence "educators" emphasize the importance of virginity—but they only talk about vaginal intercourse because they figure if we don't tell kids about **** sex they'll never figure out what brown can do for them. But they do figure it out. And lacking accurate info, kids aren't just concluding that **** sex isn't really sex. ("Otherwise it would've been covered in our sex-ed classes, right?") Kids are telling researchers that **** intercourse, unlike the premarital vaginal intercourse they were warned about (STDs! Pregnancy! Eternal damnation!), carries no risk of disease. (I can't wait to tell all my dead friends!)


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I went to the Bradley Hasbro website and tried to find the study to link but my apathy kicked in.

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I wanted to scream and yell about this study—and a DTMFA letter leaves plenty of room—but then I figured, you know, **** it. I've been ranting and raving about the idiocy of abstinence education for 10 years. Obviously I can't beat 'em, so I might as well join 'em. All my life I've had to listen to fundamentalist Christian bigots like Pat Robertson and Rick Warren—Rick Warren, Obama?—fume about all the terrible, no good, really bad sodomy gay men get up to. But I haven't been sodomizing the boyfriend all these years! I've been preserving his virginity.

I've been preserving the **** out of my boyfriend's virginity for 14 years now. If my boyfriend ever decides to marry a woman—miracles can happen!—he'll be able to wear white at his wedding. Hell, he's so pure he can wear Saran Wrap at his wedding. And his wife will have me to thank for delivering him to her with his virginity intact. (Unfortunately, the boyfriend can't preserve my virginity. As a teenager, I had actual vaginal intercourse, under duress, with an actual female's actual ******.) But until the boyfriend meets the right girl, I'm going to keep preserving the living **** out of his virginity. His virginity isn't going anywhere—not on my watch.


I lol'd.
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#15 Dec 30 2008 at 3:06 AM Rating: Good
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A study in the April issue of the Journal of Adolescent Health once again found that nine out of 10 parents want their children to be educated on both contraception and abstinence.

Perhaps the only somewhat surprising news is that even parents who were Catholic, born-again Christian, or “politically very conservative” largely wanted their children to receive comprehensive sex ed, according to the study.


What's the most surprising, is this is the cite!
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Anyone getting involved with Gbaji in this thread should read this thread and the bottom part of this thread. If you still think it's worth your time after that, go for it Smiley: laugh


Thank you, because I'm not going into this again unless there is something new to add.

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#17Gokuuu, Posted: Dec 30 2008 at 6:23 AM, Rating: Sub-Default, (Expand Post) Abstinence is just an excuse for ugly ppl.
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Gokuuu wrote:
Abstinence is just an excuse for ugly ppl.


In highschool the most sexually active girls were the uglier ones. They all had highschool dropout boyfriends.

You know the type. 20-25 year old dropout, hangs out with highschool girls, knocks 'em up.

A friend of mine when we were in 6th grade didn't show up for classes when we moved on to junior high in 7th grade. She came back after the first semester and was HUGE. She had gotten pregnant over the summer with her "boyfriend" who was 22. She bragged about him in 6th grade all the time, but all of us students just figured she was lying to try to be cool. She was relatively homely and unpopular in school.
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Gokuuu wrote:
Abstinence is just an excuse for ugly ppl.


An excuse for what?
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But if there's no measurable difference in terms of results, then why should I care if some state wants to employ something different?


But there is! Abstinence only sex-eders, or in this case Abstinence Pledges, are just as likely to have sex as non pledges, but less likely to use condoms and other forms of birth control.


Sure. But you missed the part where the rates of teen pregnancy and STDs were unchanged. Isn't that the relevant statistic here? The rate at which condoms are worn isn't a end to itself. It's a means to the end of reducing the rates of pregnancy and STD transmission.

How about we measure the things that actually matter instead of measuring something else and then speculating about how this affects those things? Just a thought... (didn't say this in my last post?)

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The reason I tend to argue this issue isn't because I'm a fan of abstinence-only, but that I see most people opposing it, not because it's "worse" but simply because it's associated with something they don't like (like say Religious Conservatives for example).


I oppose it because it IS worse. And much like you don't want to pay for most social programs in the first place, I'd rather not pay for Abstinence only as more and more studies show it doesn't work as well as comprehensive sex ed.


Again. Prove this. Show me the statistics showing that those who participated in abstinence-only education had *higher* rates of teen pregnancy and/or STD transmission than those who participated in a classic or comprehensive sex-ed program.

It's funny because I keep asking for this data and everyone kinda jumps around this issue. Isn't the whole point of sex-ed to address those two things? Again. Why don't we just measure those things?

Too obvious perhaps? Not easy enough to manipulate the data? Just find the numbers please. Until and unless you do, then you can't say that one program is better or worse than another. Not objectively, anyway.



We're talking about education in the US btw, so lets stick on topic please?

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Anyway, if you kids are going to argue, you should understand what you're arguing about:
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In this study, researchers compared the sexual behavior of 289 teenagers who reported taking a virginity pledge in a 1996 national survey to 645 non-pledgers who were matched on more than 100 factors, such as religious beliefs and attitudes toward sex and birth control.
The focus of this study wasn't Virginity Pledges vs. Everyone Else, it was Virginity Pledges vs. Other Teens Who Already Planned To Be Abstinate. It's major finding (such as it is) is that "pledging" is a token gesture which has no effect on the rate of sexual activity but may reduce the usage of contraception -- versus nominally abstinate teens who didn't sign a pact with their father & get a cheap ring out of the deal.
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-- versus nominally abstinate teens who didn't sign a pact with their father & get a cheap ring out of the deal.


My friend's dad actually got her a pretty pimp sapphire set in some diamonds. Unfortunately I admired it enough to ask her about it.
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Wait, what? You pledge to stay a virgin and your dad gives you a Princess Di ring? What kind of sickness is that?

If you get laid do you have to give your dad's ring back? Cause that would be one hell of an uncomfortable discussion.

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#24 Dec 30 2008 at 3:03 PM Rating: Good
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Wait, what? You pledge to stay a virgin and your dad gives you a Princess Di ring? What kind of sickness is that?

If you get laid do you have to give your dad's ring back? Cause that would be one hell of an uncomfortable discussion.



I was under the impression that you then had it enlarged as a **** ring for your significant other.

That's not how it works?
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That should have been your opening to mention that lesbian oral isn't technically sex in the "Virginity Pledge" sense.

Maybe her dad would have bought you a ring too. You know... for helping his little angel stay chaste.
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Jophiel wrote:
The focus of this study wasn't Virginity Pledges vs. Everyone Else, it was Virginity Pledges vs. Other Teens Who Already Planned To Be Abstinate. It's major finding (such as it is) is that "pledging" is a token gesture which has no effect on the rate of sexual activity but may reduce the usage of contraception -- versus nominally abstinate teens who didn't sign a pact with their father & get a cheap ring out of the deal.


Yes Joph. I got that in the first post, thanks! ;)


Three points:

1. Virginity Pledges (and I agree that they're pretty meaningless) aren't by any measure the entirety of abstinence included or abstinence only education (they can be present in either an abstinence-only or comprehensive sex education program). I agree that it's somewhat meaningless when taken as a part of a class curriculum, but it is important to remember that they are only one *part* of said curriculum.

2. The "apples to apples" approach of this study, while certainly relevant in the context of determining whether a pledge is of any real value, doesn't really address the more relevant issue of abstinence education as a whole (which is how this is typically interpreted). This study basically just shows that students with similar attitudes towards sex tended to have similar rates of sexual activity. I think that falls into the "no duh!" category. And, as I pointed out earlier, by focusing this study on just those matching groups, it tends to lend the false impression that programs which include virginity pledges are ineffective overall.

3. None of this addresses the core issue of whether said programs (including broader focus or inclusion of abstinence education) has a positive or negative effect on teen pregnancy and STD infection. A far more relevant study of the data would be to see if students with those similar attitudes towards sex (tending towards abstinence whether a pledge was taken or not) have better results in terms of those things than students who have different attitudes. That would seem to give us an idea as to whether inclusion of abstinence education would lead to said positive results.


I know I keep harping on this, but to me, the point is to figure out what education methods do the most to decrease rates of pregnancy and STDs. I just find the over focus on single aspects of one part of one type of education, and manipulation of data to ignore the relevant parts (like students who for some reason or another had more cavalier attitudes towards sex) as disingenuous. While I'm sure those analysis have some value on their own, the way they are presented to the public tends (predictably) to result in specific and unsupported assumptions.
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