Katielynn wrote:
Elinda wrote:
Ambrya wrote:
I reserve the right to check out on my terms.
You go girl.
But, does a doctor have a right or responsibility to do it for you?
Right? Yes. Responsibility? I guess if they are in that business, yes. My grandmother died from cancer. It started in her ovaries and before it was done it spread into uterus, her lymph nodes and it was horribly painful for her. It got to the point where she wasn't lucid anymore. She was in so much pain they'd maxed her morphine and it wasn't touching the pain for her. He (the doctor) finally told my mother how to turn the morphine dosage up to "let her go" and then he left the room. My grandmother died a few minutes later. I don't feel ashamed or mad at my mother. I feel that she gave my grandmother the release from her pain she wanted. I'm sure if my grandmother could have she'd have chosen the same course.
Yes, I watched my mom die from liver cancer. She died at home, and despite the pain, she seemed pretty content and non-pained at the moment of her death. She knew all hope for recovery was gone for probably the last month of her life. I don't think she would have ever agreed to doctor assisted suicide to end her life.
But, I also can't say that if faced with the opportunity, that in a particularly bad moment, when maybe the meds wore off, she might have screamed out in pain and begged for the end, and maybe even, with a release form in front of her, sign it. But then the moment might have passed leaving her with a few more cherished moments with loved ones.
How can the doctor be sure an individual is ready to die?
There are those clear cut cases of people that doctors should help, those that are in excruciating pain, with absolutely no chance at recovery. But that's pretty hard to quantify.
Is 'great pain' still great pain if it can be medicated away? Has there ever been an individual that has recovered from this disease or illness before? Is the patient truly wanting to die, or did they just have a bad moment when life 'seemed' unbearable and so the form was signed. Are there medical costs or resources that might inadvertently become criteria for choosing whether or not a person is a candidate for AS.
Not to mention, doctors take some sort of 'do no harm' oath.
It's tricky business for a species that values life above all else.
Edited, Dec 10th 2008 7:40pm by Elinda