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#27 Dec 10 2008 at 10:24 AM Rating: Good
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Uglysasquatch, Mercenary Major wrote:
Why should assisted suicide be legal when there are so many ways for one to off themselves already?


1) because many of those ways are not assured success--for that matter, neither is the dosage given of the drugs prescribed for physician-assisted suicide, but at least if that's the case, there is some sort of recourse
2) because many of those ways would either be painful until death occurs, or result in a situation where there is prolonged pain, indignity or disability in the absence of success
3) because some terminal patients may not have the physical faculties to successfully kill themselves without assistance

Christ, are people really this dim that "everyone's going to die anyway" and "you can kill yourself without assistance" are the main talking points against Death with Dignity laws? FFS think outside the box.
#28 Dec 10 2008 at 10:24 AM Rating: Excellent
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In this state, if I ask for his help, then yes.
So, he's responsible to take someone else life if they chose so, when he likely got into medicine to help make people's lives better, not end them? How is forcing someone to off to someone else and better than refusing someone the right to off them self?


Granted, I didn't read the entire thread, so I'm not sure if I'm contradicting someone, but the doctor should always have the right to refuse the service.

For example, abortion is legal, but the women's clinic I go to does not perform the operation at all. They will, instead, point a needing woman in the direction of the nearest Planned Parenthood.
#29 Dec 10 2008 at 10:30 AM Rating: Good
Belkira the Tulip wrote:
the doctor should always have the right to refuse the service


Absolutely. Assisted suicide should only be allowable under mutual consent between doctor and patient.
#30 Dec 10 2008 at 10:31 AM Rating: Decent
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Great job, Ash. You're making me rate BD up.
Why is anyone rating anyone?

Its a touchy subject, and I'm entitled to my opinion. I don't really want to think about it anymore.
#31 Dec 10 2008 at 10:32 AM Rating: Excellent
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Ambrya wrote:
Christ, are people really this dim that "everyone's going to die anyway" and "you can kill yourself without assistance" are the main talking points against Death with Dignity laws? FFS think outside the box.
Personally, I'm not against. It's like gay marriage, as in it doesn't affect my life, so do whatever makes you happy. I'm just not so sure why you're so mightily in favour of it.
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#32 Dec 10 2008 at 10:36 AM Rating: Good
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Belkira the Tulip wrote:
Granted, I didn't read the entire thread, so I'm not sure if I'm contradicting someone, but the doctor should always have the right to refuse the service.


I'm just going off what Ambrya said and how she responded to the question put to her, was yes, he's responsible.
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#33 Dec 10 2008 at 10:37 AM Rating: Excellent
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AshOnMyTomatoes wrote:
Katielynn wrote:
Great job, Ash. You're making me rate BD up.
Why is anyone rating anyone?

Its a touchy subject, and I'm entitled to my opinion. I don't really want to think about it anymore.


May as well think about it now before you have to make the choice. Why shy away from it when there's nothing at stake?

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#34 Dec 10 2008 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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AshOnMyTomatoes wrote:
Katielynn wrote:
Great job, Ash. You're making me rate BD up.
Why is anyone rating anyone?

Its a touchy subject, and I'm entitled to my opinion. I don't really want to think about it anymore.


May as well think about it now before you have to make the choice. Why shy away from it when there's nothing at stake?

Because I'm in a bad mood and it makes me argue myself into corners.Smiley: tongue

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 12:38pm by AshOnMyTomatoes
#35 Dec 10 2008 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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All suicide is stupid, I don't care the reason for it. Even if its someone who has a terminal illness. Its still a selfish act. The person could still contribute something to humanity, but they are selfishly removing themselves from it.


Most acts are selfish, possibly all. We don't condemn them because of that.

People are perfectly happy to accept all kinds of selfishness every day as both morally justified and socially acceptable. I don't really think that selfishness has anything to do with why you dislike suicide.

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I'm all for assisted suicide, but for people who are terminally ill, not for emos who cant hack living life.


This is also silly. If someone has rationally arrived at the conclusion that life is simply too boring or too bothersome to continue, then they should be entitled to the same lethal dose of morphine. You're really creating a sharp distinction where none exists.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 1:40pm by Pensive
#36 Dec 10 2008 at 10:38 AM Rating: Good
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I reserve the right to check out on my terms.
You go girl.

But, does a doctor have a right or responsibility to do it for you?



Right? Yes. Responsibility? I guess if they are in that business, yes. My grandmother died from cancer. It started in her ovaries and before it was done it spread into uterus, her lymph nodes and it was horribly painful for her. It got to the point where she wasn't lucid anymore. She was in so much pain they'd maxed her morphine and it wasn't touching the pain for her. He (the doctor) finally told my mother how to turn the morphine dosage up to "let her go" and then he left the room. My grandmother died a few minutes later. I don't feel ashamed or mad at my mother. I feel that she gave my grandmother the release from her pain she wanted. I'm sure if my grandmother could have she'd have chosen the same course.
Yes, I watched my mom die from liver cancer. She died at home, and despite the pain, she seemed pretty content and non-pained at the moment of her death. She knew all hope for recovery was gone for probably the last month of her life. I don't think she would have ever agreed to doctor assisted suicide to end her life.

But, I also can't say that if faced with the opportunity, that in a particularly bad moment, when maybe the meds wore off, she might have screamed out in pain and begged for the end, and maybe even, with a release form in front of her, sign it. But then the moment might have passed leaving her with a few more cherished moments with loved ones.

How can the doctor be sure an individual is ready to die?

There are those clear cut cases of people that doctors should help, those that are in excruciating pain, with absolutely no chance at recovery. But that's pretty hard to quantify.

Is 'great pain' still great pain if it can be medicated away? Has there ever been an individual that has recovered from this disease or illness before? Is the patient truly wanting to die, or did they just have a bad moment when life 'seemed' unbearable and so the form was signed. Are there medical costs or resources that might inadvertently become criteria for choosing whether or not a person is a candidate for AS.

Not to mention, doctors take some sort of 'do no harm' oath.

It's tricky business for a species that values life above all else.





Edited, Dec 10th 2008 7:40pm by Elinda
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#37 Dec 10 2008 at 10:41 AM Rating: Good
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It's tricky business for a species that values life above all else.


Every species but humans?

Humans are really the only species that I can consider who have the capacity to value something more than their own lives.
#38 Dec 10 2008 at 10:42 AM Rating: Decent
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In this state, if I ask for his help, then yes.
So, he's responsible to take someone else life if they chose so, when he likely got into medicine to help make people's lives better, not end them? How is forcing someone to off to someone else and better than refusing someone the right to off them self?


The phsyican being responsible does not mean he/she is obligated to participate, but if he or she is not, they must then transfer the patients care records to another physician the patient has found who IS willing to help. They may not withhold records, etc, in order to actively prevent the patient from getting help.

http://www.oregon.gov/DHS/ph/pas/ors.shtml

127.885 s.4.01. Immunities; basis for prohibiting health care provider from participation; notification; permissible sanctions.

Except as provided in ORS 127.890:

(4) No health care provider shall be under any duty, whether by contract, by statute or by any other legal requirement to participate in the provision to a qualified patient of medication to end his or her life in a humane and dignified manner. If a health care provider is unable or unwilling to carry out a patient's request under ORS 127.800 to 127.897, and the patient transfers his or her care to a new health care provider, the prior health care provider shall transfer, upon request, a copy of the patient's relevant medical records to the new health care provider.


The physician is not required to prescribe the lethal dose if he or she chooses not to.

Are you really this stupid, or have you just not bothered to study or understand even the tiniest bit of the subject you're attempting to discuss.

In Oregon, here's how physician-assisted suicide works. The patient makes the request of the doctor. What follows is a screening process to be certain that the request is being made within the criteria outlined by the law, that the request is being made by a mentally competent adult person, that the patient has been advised of all the risks and alternatives, etc etc etc.

Once this process is complete, the physician then may dispense or prescribe a lethal dose of medication. The physician, however, DOES NOT administer the medication. Only the patient does that. In a way, it sucks for those who are incapable of swallowing the pills under their own power because no provision is made for those who are physically incapable of self-administering the dose, but it safeguards against the possibility of someone other than the patient making the decision for the patient.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 10:45am by Ambrya
#39 Dec 10 2008 at 10:44 AM Rating: Good
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Are you really this stupid, or have you just not bothered to study or understand even the tiniest bit of the subject you're attempting to discuss.


You're the one who answered yes if he was required to, not me.





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#40 Dec 10 2008 at 10:44 AM Rating: Decent
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It's tricky business for a species that values life above all else.


Every species but humans?

Humans are really the only species that I can consider who have the capacity to value something more than their own lives.


You don't take much into consideration do you?
#41 Dec 10 2008 at 10:47 AM Rating: Good
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I'm all for assisted suicide, but for people who are terminally ill, not for emos who cant hack living life.


This is also silly. If someone has rationally arrived at the conclusion that life is simply too boring or too bothersome to continue, then they should be entitled to the same lethal dose of morphine. You're really creating a sharp distinction where none exists.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 1:40pm by Pensive


See, I also agree that assisted suicide should only be for the terminally ill. I do not believe that doctors should be doling out death to everyone who is too chicken to pull the trigger on themselves.

This should be a matter between patient and doctor, not depressed kid and a death merchant.
#42 Dec 10 2008 at 10:48 AM Rating: Decent
I hear you and I understand where you are coming from. It's never easy. In my grandmother's case when the drugs wore off she would scream these horrible gut wrenching screams. She would beg to die. She talked of seeing her babies who died before she did, she said they were waiting for her to help her. She didn't know who was who in reality, she had to be restrained in bed because of how violently her body would jerk around in pain. There was no hope of recovering, she didn't fight it. She'd fought cancer most of her life and just this last time she knew she was tired of fighting. She donated her body to the med school, when they removed the tumor from her abdomen it was larger than a basket ball and weighed over 10lbs. It had hair and bits of bone in it. She was 41.

In my opinion, I have no qualms with assisted suicide. I think it should be regulated but I think anyone who after counseling still finds life to be to painful, ect then they should have the right to end it. I could care less if it's medical or just something mental that drives them to seek assisted suicide. I've already told MrKatie that if something happens to me that this becomes something I wanted that I should be taken to a state that allows it.
#43 Dec 10 2008 at 10:48 AM Rating: Good
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Uglysasquatch, Mercenary Major wrote:
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Are you really this stupid, or have you just not bothered to study or understand even the tiniest bit of the subject you're attempting to discuss.


You're the one who answered yes if he was required to, not me.


I never said he was required to do anything. The question was does the doctor have a right and responsibility, and in my state, when this request is made by a competent and consenting adult, then the doctor, if willing, DOES have a right to prescribe a lethal dose, and if not willing, has a responsibility to transfer care of the patient to someone who is.
#44 Dec 10 2008 at 10:53 AM Rating: Excellent
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She donated her body to the med school, when they removed the tumor from her abdomen it was larger than a basket ball and weighed over 10lbs. It had hair and bits of bone in it. She was 41.


Hydatidiform mole?

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#45 Dec 10 2008 at 10:54 AM Rating: Good
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Uglysasquatch, Mercenary Major wrote:
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Christ, are people really this dim that "everyone's going to die anyway" and "you can kill yourself without assistance" are the main talking points against Death with Dignity laws? FFS think outside the box.
Personally, I'm not against. It's like gay marriage, as in it doesn't affect my life, so do whatever makes you happy. I'm just not so sure why you're so mightily in favour of it.


Because I've watched a proud, independent man decline into a withered, helpless husk whose last conscious moments were spent lying on a bathroom floor in a pool of his own liquid *****, crying in humiliation and pain because he was too weak to hold himself up on the toilet while diarrhea seeped from his body--all because he didn't have the option to decide when and how his end would take place when he received the information that he was dying of cancer.

I won't go out that way. NO ONE should have to.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 10:58am by Ambrya
#46 Dec 10 2008 at 11:00 AM Rating: Good
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You don't take much into consideration do you?


I don't really know what you're saying. Are you implying that, were I to take more things into consideration, that I would place more value on life?

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This should be a matter between patient and doctor, not depressed kid and a death merchant.


Not all people contemplating suicide must be depressed children, and even so, being depressed doesn't have to stop someone from making an informed and reasonable choice. Life need not be for everyone, just like you might prefer peas over potatoes. It's not that far a stretch.

"Well I've taken all of these drugs and I still can't acclimate into society, can't keep relationships, can't hold a job, can't focus on any dreams, or even dream to begin with, etc, etc"

It's not like it's any more selfish than someone dying of cancer wanting the same treatment. In either case you just want your misery to end, and there should never be a problem with wanting one's pain to stop.
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She donated her body to the med school, when they removed the tumor from her abdomen it was larger than a basket ball and weighed over 10lbs. It had hair and bits of bone in it. She was 41.


Hydatidiform mole?



Hmm, probably could have been. I was 10. I just remember my favorite grandmother going from this vibrant healthy woman who spoilt me rotten to this shriveled up gray and ashen skeleton with a huge stomach. It was horrifying to watch this woman kept me for a month every summer, came and visited often, helped teach me to read and write, go from my grandmother to someone who didn't know who I was in a matter of weeks.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 1:02pm by Katielynn
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I'm all for assisted suicide, but for people who are terminally ill, not for emos who cant hack living life.


This is also silly. If someone has rationally arrived at the conclusion that life is simply too boring or too bothersome to continue, then they should be entitled to the same lethal dose of morphine. You're really creating a sharp distinction where none exists.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 1:40pm by Pensive


there is a big difference between a person who is medically terminally ill and knows their time is coming and wants a voice in how to go and when, and a person who can not deal with life on a mental or emotional level. The second type of person has a chance of learning to survive and even thrive at life. The former knows no matter what they do they are going to die and die in a short time table. You can not justify asking a medical doctor to assist i a suicide if a person is not terminaly ill and the patient has nothing that is physically killing them. For those types of people there are multiple resources already available to them via mental institutions, therapy, etc. Nothing is killing them but themselves. Terminally ill patients do not have that option.
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This should be a matter between patient and doctor, not depressed kid and a death merchant.


Not all people contemplating suicide must be depressed children, and even so, being depressed doesn't have to stop someone from making an informed and reasonable choice. Life need not be for everyone, just like you might prefer peas over potatoes. It's not that far a stretch.

"Well I've taken all of these drugs and I still can't acclimate into society, can't keep relationships, can't hold a job, can't focus on any dreams, or even dream to begin with, etc, etc"

It's not like it's any more selfish than someone dying of cancer wanting the same treatment. In either case you just want your misery to end, and there should never be a problem with wanting one's pain to stop.


I'm not saying that this person shouldn't be allowed to kill themselves, I just don't believe it's right to involve a medical doctor in it. I have said nothing about selfishness or there being a problem with wanting one's pain to end. I simply have a problem with involving a doctor who wants to help his patients, not every Tom, Dick, and Harry who decides to slip quietly into that dark night.

I also think that making suicide that readily available is a bad idea. I, personally, have wanted to die so badly my entire body ached with it. I promised a dear friend I wouldn't take that step, and that's what kept me from it. But if it had been as easy as slipping into a doctors office and getting him to give me a shot, I'm not so sure my resolve would've held out. While I think anyone who wants to die should be able to kill themselves, I also do not think it should be an easy decision or an easy process, unless someone is terminally ill and would like a surcease from physical pain.
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She donated her body to the med school, when they removed the tumor from her abdomen it was larger than a basket ball and weighed over 10lbs. It had hair and bits of bone in it. She was 41.


Hydatidiform mole?



Hmm, probably could have been. I was 10. I just remember my favorite grandmother going from this vibrant healthy woman who spoilt me rotten to this shriveled up gray and ashen skeleton with a huge stomach. It was horrifying to watch this woman kept me for a month every summer, came and visited often, helped teach me to read and write, go from my grandmother to someone who didn't know who I was in a matter of weeks.

Edited, Dec 10th 2008 1:02pm by Katielynn


Your grandma was 31 when you were born? Your mom's a ****.



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The second type of person has a chance of learning to survive and even thrive at life.


The probability of someone making do with life shouldn't factor into the decision, not to mention that "miracles" can occur even in patients with terminal illnesses. It's just not something that we should be talking about; it is paternalistic and frankly arrogant of you to assume someone's choice without assuming their responsibility. You don't believe that severely disgruntled people should be able to die? Go fix their problems then.

What is morally relevant is the quantity of pain alleviated versus the quantity of pain created.

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For those types of people there are multiple resources already available to them via mental institutions, therapy, etc.


And those resources can fail. If someone has exhausted them, why should they not have the same rights as any other individual at ends with life?

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I'm not saying that this person shouldn't be allowed to kill themselves, I just don't believe it's right to involve a medical doctor in it.


Well okay, but unless lethal doses of drugs become available over the counter in such a way that the death is as painless as possible, the doctors still own a much better way of going about it. Given a choice between painting my wall with brains and having a nice dose of medicine given to me while I listen to music, I'd go with the music every time.
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